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Domestic Violence Neighbors should i even look?

#1 User is offline   phoenix arise 

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Posted 30 August 2009 - 10:41 PM

my neighbors are always fighting. there is a young couple there and the girl is always talking about another homewrecking girl screaming at the top of her lungs "why do you even talk to her?!!?!?" just the other day i saw some girl bolt out of the house she got in her car and screeetched away and moments later the couple was fighting. i could hear the girl say, "you are f ing her on MY furniture!?" and then about 15 minutes later the cops come. this was a while back and ever since every now and then i hear them arguing.

my question is: should i even look out my window or would it be dangerous of me to butt in cause they might do something to me?
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Posted 30 August 2009 - 10:46 PM

dont LOOK out, PEEK.
lol.
but for reals, if it sounds tooooooooooo horrible,
please dont look.
just call the cops and ask them to come by for safety.
dont risk yourself and your family for it.

you'll never know, they might go crazy and come over the yard to your house.
just try your best to keep yourself safe,
but at the same time maintain it by calling the cops?

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Posted 30 August 2009 - 10:48 PM

QUOTE (itrayya @ Aug 31 2009, 06:46 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
dont LOOK out, PEEK.
lol.
but for reals, if it sounds tooooooooooo horrible,
please dont look.
just call the cops and ask them to come by for safety.
dont risk yourself and your family for it.

you'll never know, they might go crazy and come over the yard to your house.
just try your best to keep yourself safe,
but at the same time maintain it by calling the cops?


thats what im thinking. they might illogically take out their anger on me and my house
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Posted 31 August 2009 - 01:36 AM

im experiencing this too.
its so bad because its always 2am in the morning.
ill hear this girl screaming at this guy and blah blah,
i hear her screaming though shes in pain or something??
then the guy drives away, she continue to swear and scream.
her dad comes out and yell at her to get inside.

this happened three times already. dont know what to do.
plus, im not going to go out there and check.
the people might come after me if i find out something bad =(

my advice to you is just leave it as it is....
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Posted 31 August 2009 - 04:13 AM

thats just terrible

and yes dont look


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Posted 31 August 2009 - 06:07 AM

My friend is a police officer and he said the most dangerous call are domestic violence calls because everyone is running on high emotion and adrenaline, most of the time, they are acting out on pure rage.
I would avoid the whole thing altogether, but if it gets bad enough where you can't sleep or it's disturbing your lifestyle, then I would inform the landlord in your apartment, or call the authoritities and ask to remain anonymous.
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Posted 31 August 2009 - 06:28 AM

It's not domestic violence, if nobody's getting hurt.
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Posted 31 August 2009 - 06:41 AM

Why would you look..? if it's really loud and you can hear it's going out of control call the cops..

My neighbors are like this too.. my other neighbors have the police on speed dial cuz of them

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Posted 31 August 2009 - 07:08 AM

Yeah.. just peek so they don't notice you noticing... I would probably ignore them if I were you because it's not the neighbor's business, but then again, if it gets really loud/they are extremely violent/you are annoyed then definitely call your landlord or the police to sort it out, they should be respecting the other people living in the building.
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Posted 31 August 2009 - 10:26 AM

call the cops
that usually shuts them up
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Posted 31 August 2009 - 01:22 PM

I suggest not get yourself into their business. If cops come to their house, then they must know already. Other than that, you don't want to be a victim of any of them.
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