My mom and i were talking about how we think my sister might have a bf, and my sister mentioned before about redecorating her room, so i said "maybe she wants to redecorate her room so it looks good when she brings her bf over!" My mom is a really traditional woman, and she made a big fuss about a bf going into his gf's room. I never knew there is such a "restriction" until today when she told me. She's like "why would she let her bf go into her room?? A girl going into her girl friend's room is okay, but a guy friend or boyfriend definitely cannot unless he's her fiance!". wth?? i've never heard of such a thing, so my mom went "why would you be so open to let your bf into your room just like that? And you've had so much education, i thought you would've known you should not let a guy into your room". So i'm like uhhh...i understand if moms wouldn't let their daughters go to a guy's place to sleep over, but not to let your own bf go into your room?? that, i've never heard of
I mean, my parents are at home all the time, so what are the chances that my sis and her bf (or my bf and i in the future) are going to do something "inappropriate" when they're at home?
They're treating a girl's room like as if it's a sacred woman's chamber where no men can enter.
I don't have a bf now, but in the future when i do, and i invite him over, won't it be funny if he asks if he can go into my room, and i said "you can't, my mom won't let you enter my room"
Do you think this is ridiculous??
