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#1 User is offline   kenny3435 

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Post icon  Posted 31 August 2009 - 03:44 AM

okayy
well
this topic is closed so like yeah..
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Posted 31 August 2009 - 03:49 AM

You like her but are you friends/do you talk to her? Can you be a bit more specific.
If shes more than a casual acquaintance I do see what's wrong with asking something like "So are you seeing anyone?"
But if you barely know her/never spoken to her it's a bit difficult. Maybe talk to her about a common topic then bring it up casually so it doesn't look like your curious or not. If your a chicken, ask her friends. That always works if you want to find info out about someone you ask their friends.

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#3 User is offline   Mannosuke 

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Posted 31 August 2009 - 03:51 AM

Ask someone else if she's taken.
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Posted 31 August 2009 - 04:14 AM

Make it casual

You: " So what are u doing this weekend?

Her: " Um i'm not sure, how bout u?"

You " Oh blah blah...........so you not hanging out with your bf or something" Don't emphasis on the bf part. Sound calm.

By now she will either be giggling and reply shyly and say " no and i don't have a bf" OR " No his busy". Voila! U hopefully got your answer.

But this really depends on how she will respond to the 'what are u doing this weekend'.

Also if u guys are friends and talk, can't u tell if she has a bf? I'm pretty sure she would have mentioned if she is.

Anyways goodluck.
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#5 User is offline   kenny3435 

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Posted 31 August 2009 - 04:22 AM

i need like 20 chars
so yeah..

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Posted 31 August 2009 - 05:29 AM

How did you meet her then? if she goes to another school? through a friend?
If so you should ask your friend about her. Oh, if you talk to her alot then it should be fine, just be like "so are you seeing anyone" make it casual, and if she asks "why" just say "i'm curious is all". and DON'T go on about it, it just makes it obvious your interested. She wouldn't/shouldn't think any differently of you, it's just a general question. Unless you and her don't really talk about this sort of stuff.

Good luck smile.gif

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#7 User is offline   visuelz 

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Posted 31 August 2009 - 05:39 AM

You really don't need to ask her that question. If she goes out with you most of the time you ask her out, she probably likes you. Even if she's taken at that point, you can still win her heart. Besides, if she thinks like "what's he up to" then she probably doesn't like you.
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#8 User is offline   kenny3435 

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Posted 31 August 2009 - 07:36 AM

i need like 20 chars
so yeah..

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#9 User is offline   Mannosuke 

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Posted 31 August 2009 - 09:34 AM

Now look back at your previous posts and reflect on how much you over-thought about it LOL
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#10 User is offline   bruna0815 

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Posted 31 August 2009 - 12:24 PM

start a conversation be like ''heyy was upp....'' den when u two start talkin be like '' oh wait wont your boyfriend get mad if you talk to another guy cusz sometimesz guys are like that'' den she will saii if she has a bf or not
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#11 User is offline   hannieoon 

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Posted 31 August 2009 - 12:29 PM

Why don't you just ask her.
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Posted 31 August 2009 - 01:18 PM

Ask. Simple as that
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Posted 31 August 2009 - 01:26 PM

be like hey.
and she'll say hey.
and have a random convo,
and somewhere in that random convo, be like so who's ur bf?
and if she says i have no bf be like wah, a pretty girl like u. no bf?
and if she says the name of her bf be like hmm, lucky guy.

haha, i would love it if this happened to me.

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Posted 31 August 2009 - 01:52 PM

Ask him if she has a boyfriend? It's not that hard
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Posted 31 August 2009 - 02:17 PM

HAHA yeah i gotta admit, its kinda strange if soemone ask me if iw as single, but then again its kinda flattering becus that question means they the person asking is into you. just waitt, she would tell yu if she has a bf or not. just keeep spittttin yo game at herr (:
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Posted 31 August 2009 - 02:23 PM

since you say you been talking to her a lots , just keep doing that. I;m sure that the topic
of dating will pop up. I guess what i'm trying to say is just get to know her a little bit more then ask her, so by then
it wouldn't be weird or anything. =] good luckk
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Posted 31 August 2009 - 10:26 PM

QUOTE (kenny3435 @ Aug 31 2009, 11:36 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I asked her just a whilee ago..
and she said no
and I was like wooooot!
smile.gif thanks for helping
I guess I should tell u how I did it then..
okay..

Me: so u got anything planned for the weekend? movies?partys?going out with friends/bf etc ?
her: nothing planned yet
me: oh okay
Me: just a question outta curiosity, and no I'm not trying to be a stalkerishh person, but do u have a bf? I'm just really curious today haha >.<
her: nahh its okay, I dont mind, well the answer to ur question is no =)


Thanks to all those helped <3


good call! smile.gif now you two can date.

or not yet. LOL. hahaha good luck bro!

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Posted 31 August 2009 - 10:29 PM

'do u have a boyfriend' ask her in a cheeky way, u know, like a playboy.
i reckon the way playboys ask is really cute biggrin.gif

edit: i didn't read the other posts, oops. but now u know the answer biggrin.gif i like the way u did it? lol.
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#19 User is offline   kenny3435 

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Posted 01 September 2009 - 12:21 AM

i need like 20 chars
so yeah..

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Posted 01 September 2009 - 12:34 AM

just ask simple questions.. like ask bout family. close friends ans relative..
AND IF SHES NOT SINGLE she'll mention her bf.


if not.. chat to her bout old relaionships, break ups etc




oops. read your afyer post. anyways good luck getting the girl.. u know now shes single
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