A friend of mine has this guy friend whom he has been telling everyone that he's gay. At first this friend of mine thought he was just joking and fooling around, however soon after time passed this friend of mine started to believe that he was gay. So, they are just friends and she thought that there wasn't much problems between them because well he's gay. He would never hit on her or anything so they could just chat about anything.
However recently this gay friend of hers has been saying really weird comment like, "You're really cute." or "Why don't you be my girlfriend?" So, my friend got really confused now she's just currently laughing it off and everything but the fact that the way i see it the way they talk and stuff it's like having a boy/ girl relationship. But my friend just laughs, and tells me that their just friends.
Furthermore, the guy recently told me how he's like 98% Gay and that the other 2% he loves flirting with girls. Personally, I REALLY DON'T KNOW what the guy says about ANYTHING are lies or truth. The guy is like 30 or so he says, he doesnt look 30 AT ALL and my friend is like 19
Should my friend still continue being friends with him? Like she doesn't really know much about one another.
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#2
Posted 01 September 2009 - 11:09 PM
If she feels like something is off and it creeps her out, she should definitely follow her instincts. Is it normal for gay men to flirt with women? Yes. But it's almost never serious and most of the time completely joking. If it's one of those issues where she thinks he's actually being serious, then something's probably not right.
#3
Posted 01 September 2009 - 11:19 PM
she shouldnt laugh ar him.. people can be bi and like both genders and maybe if he has feelings for a girl.. tell your friend maybe hes not actually gay and maybe give him a chance. just because his likes are different. its wrong to judge and accept people for what they are
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