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Is It Stupid To Ask A Guy If He Likes You?

#1 winksassy

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Posted 02 September 2009 - 03:56 AM

last night,we are texting each other, and weird thing comes to my mind...so i ask him if is it okay to ask him a question. then he said yes. but i hesitate to ask him so i did not reply.

tonight, he ask me again what is my question...so i text him in a joke way..."do u like me? hahaha then change the topic...then he text me back "what if my answer is yes, is it okay?"

i texted him "its okay, its normal for a person to like someone right?"

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#2 ajjang

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Posted 02 September 2009 - 04:05 AM

no, it's not stupid. it's cute actually, especially in your situation. =]

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Posted 02 September 2009 - 04:58 AM

aww so cuute [[:
i guess it kinda depends on the situation whether you should or shouldnt ask,
but it`s definitley not stupid. for me, though, it would just be awkward ^___^'

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Posted 02 September 2009 - 05:00 AM

i dont see any unethical implications so tis fine in my book

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Posted 02 September 2009 - 05:02 AM

I think its cute

as long as you recieve the answer you want.

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Posted 02 September 2009 - 05:09 AM

it really depends if it's a one sided like or not....it's good he said "YES" but it will still hurt you if he say "NO" and your relationship will change (i mean...it'll feel weird when he says "NO" and ya still hang out)

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#7 Mannosuke

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Posted 02 September 2009 - 07:26 AM

It's stupid if you don't actually have any interest in the person.

#8 shidchil

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Posted 02 September 2009 - 09:13 AM

It is really okay:D

Sometimes boys are afraid to ask us girls the same question..and will wait wait and wait until the feeling expires..

Since you already asked him..and he said something like that..asked him seriously..who knows..

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Posted 02 September 2009 - 09:30 AM

QUOTE (nanahikari @ Sep 2 2009, 07:05 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

no, it's not stupid. it's cute actually, especially in your situation. =]

that is really cute. i wish i had courage to ask the guy i like if he likes me.

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Posted 02 September 2009 - 09:56 AM

Not everyone has the courage to do it, and no I don't think it's stupid.

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Posted 02 September 2009 - 10:01 AM

Why is it even stupid to begin with? o_o. You don't gain anything from not asking.

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Posted 02 September 2009 - 01:39 PM

Of course there isn't. But of course, be sure to be prepared if he ever answers you with the answer you didn't want to get.

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Posted 02 September 2009 - 02:55 PM

It's not stupid. I do it all the time, except I ask "Do you hate me?" instead. I think I might have inferiority complex..? Lol.

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Posted 02 September 2009 - 02:57 PM

it's not stupid.(:
your situation is cuute. ^__^

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Posted 02 September 2009 - 09:18 PM

omg, i'm jealous.
that sounds like a Kdrama moment.

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thats really cute what he said

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Posted 02 September 2009 - 10:26 PM

haha in your situation it's so cute. :3
i don't think it's stupid, but it might be embarrassing if he answers no. for me at least ^^;

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Posted 02 September 2009 - 11:35 PM

lol its not stupid..guys do this too. once me and this guy (we kidna had a thing) were hanging out afterschool and all of a sudden he told me..our friends think we like each other..and i was like oh.. and after a minute of total silence he asked me if I liked him..i didnt know what to say so i was like umm..iono. and he was like i think i do. lol
so i guess it depends on how you say it..