Not have a high sexuality is a huge turn off for men around 20-30 years old. This is a time when guys are trying to find potential future wives. My best friend has sex with his girlfriend everyday. I wonder how he has the stamina!
Sure there are those who aren't interested in sex. But the way I see it, it'll end up like my parents. A no sex relationship usually ends in divorce, or trying to find another method to make up for it. My friends parents go dancing (not club dancing) all the time.
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I've read all the posts above, and I appreciate your input. Jerseycity summarized several important issues especially well. Thanks guys!
Don't worry. Guys who care only about sex will bring it up early on in the relationship or leave. Those types don't stay for long.
However, for the rest of us, it's unrealistic to expect anyone (especially those without experience) to know exactly what they want in a relationship ahead of time. People's needs change as relationships develop. Girls are often reluctant to give in to anything beyond a simple kiss at the onset of the relationship. After all, the last thing a girl wants is for others to think that she's a slut. In fact, some will adamantly refuse to have sex before marriage. Nevertheless, only a minority of them live up to their claims, suggesting that trying to have a deep conversation about sex early on in the relationship is often futile (and awkward). Provided that the girl loves the guy, it's reasonable to believe that she may eventually change her mind. Most guys are aware of this, and realistically, it's what happens.
I think all she's saying is that it doesn't hurt to have more money. Comparing two otherwise identical guys, a girl would go for the one with more wealth. The vast majority of girls aren't gold-diggers, but they aren't entirely immune to dreaming about marrying a wealthy prince either.
Lastly, in response to what you said earlier: What I value most is education and the pursuit of knowledge. My humanities professor once told me that the enlightened man is never content with his current self, but instead, continually strives to improve himself. You probably didn't notice that whenever I commented on money, it was about money management and not about how much I actually have ... in other words, about the education of handling money.
QUOTE (little mixed girl @ Sep 15 2009, 06:19 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
i don't think that ppl'd talk about sex on a first date, but i don't think that they'd skip over it if they'd been dating a while.
if you are looking to get serious with someone, and you find sex to be important, then it's something you should let them know early on.
if you are expecting sex and you're not getting it, and then get pissy because of that, maybe you should have let that person know that that was something important to you before you got to the point where you were going to get annoyed over it.
if you are looking to get serious with someone, and you find sex to be important, then it's something you should let them know early on.
if you are expecting sex and you're not getting it, and then get pissy because of that, maybe you should have let that person know that that was something important to you before you got to the point where you were going to get annoyed over it.
Don't worry. Guys who care only about sex will bring it up early on in the relationship or leave. Those types don't stay for long.
However, for the rest of us, it's unrealistic to expect anyone (especially those without experience) to know exactly what they want in a relationship ahead of time. People's needs change as relationships develop. Girls are often reluctant to give in to anything beyond a simple kiss at the onset of the relationship. After all, the last thing a girl wants is for others to think that she's a slut. In fact, some will adamantly refuse to have sex before marriage. Nevertheless, only a minority of them live up to their claims, suggesting that trying to have a deep conversation about sex early on in the relationship is often futile (and awkward). Provided that the girl loves the guy, it's reasonable to believe that she may eventually change her mind. Most guys are aware of this, and realistically, it's what happens.
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i don't know what "most women" you get your information from, but "most women" aren't looking for a baller to finance their high-class lives...no matter what you see on tv.
if you are broke or you don't have a lot of money, and there's a good reason for it (and the girl likes you), she's gonna go out with you.
if you are broke because you gamble, don't want to work, etc., then it's going to be harder to get with a girl.
if you guys are only going after the gold digging crowd, you're going to get what you lay in...
if you are broke or you don't have a lot of money, and there's a good reason for it (and the girl likes you), she's gonna go out with you.
if you are broke because you gamble, don't want to work, etc., then it's going to be harder to get with a girl.
if you guys are only going after the gold digging crowd, you're going to get what you lay in...
I think all she's saying is that it doesn't hurt to have more money. Comparing two otherwise identical guys, a girl would go for the one with more wealth. The vast majority of girls aren't gold-diggers, but they aren't entirely immune to dreaming about marrying a wealthy prince either.
Lastly, in response to what you said earlier: What I value most is education and the pursuit of knowledge. My humanities professor once told me that the enlightened man is never content with his current self, but instead, continually strives to improve himself. You probably didn't notice that whenever I commented on money, it was about money management and not about how much I actually have ... in other words, about the education of handling money.
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I aint saying she a gold digger she aint messing with no .......................................
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this is a hard topic because some want sex in their lives, while others would wish to wait until marriage.
But in a way, it could be pointing out that some guys are horny and date girls just so they can sleep with them, while others actually want to share a romantic relationship.
I guess it's a turn off for some because they do want some excitement in their lives. This is a difficult topic, as i have both pros and cons to this question.
but what i don't like about is.. how some people would buy girls lots of things, to win their affection, just so they can sleep with them.. is this any different than getting a hooker/ paying someone for a "good time". I'm sorry if i had said any bad words and or made anyone upset. no name calling or pointing fingers.
But in a way, it could be pointing out that some guys are horny and date girls just so they can sleep with them, while others actually want to share a romantic relationship.
I guess it's a turn off for some because they do want some excitement in their lives. This is a difficult topic, as i have both pros and cons to this question.
but what i don't like about is.. how some people would buy girls lots of things, to win their affection, just so they can sleep with them.. is this any different than getting a hooker/ paying someone for a "good time". I'm sorry if i had said any bad words and or made anyone upset. no name calling or pointing fingers.
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I'm currently dating a girl that has a pretty decent sex drive, and even though I'm not particularly horny, I don't think I would ever want to go back to a girl who wasn't into having sex pretty often. It's just...so wonderful lol. Everything in my life is suddenly better. It's not just the sex, but it's the physical intimacy the sex represents, and the emotional intimacy that physical intimacy is tied to. I'm not sure if I would feel the same sense of physical intimacy with her if we weren't having sex, honestly.
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QUOTE (Rainbow-lotus @ Sep 9 2009, 10:20 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
we dislike horny pervy guys and find those who arent so horny are the guys who are into their ambitions and schoolwork etc..
but it really seems clear guys like horny girls.
but it really seems clear guys like horny girls.
I highly object to this statement. That's such a gross generalization. I have a high sex drive and that can sometimes come off as just being horny, but I'm also very into my ambitions and don't think the comparison you made has any correlation at all.
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but what i don't like about is.. how some people would buy girls lots of things, to win their affection, just so they can sleep with them.. is this any different than getting a hooker/ paying someone for a "good time". I'm sorry if i had said any bad words and or made anyone upset. no name calling or pointing fingers.
In America, that's called dating. As grim as it seems, men are always paying for sex either with monetary investments, emotional investments or both. I'm not exactly saying buying a girl all the handbags/whatever she wants, I'm saying - buying dinner, taking the girl out to nice places/events. Pretty much paying for sex.
Men are basically trying to spread their seed, that's how we're programmed biologically so naturally sex is a major factor in any of our relationships and that's why flirty women initially attract us. Women, for the most part, are trying to find a man that can tend to their offspring so they find things like confidence, good sense of responsibility, wealth, and so on, attractive.
I feel like the women who don't enjoy sex are either having bad sex or aren't that attracted to their partner. I've been with a few different girls who all told me they've never had as much sex with previous partners as they do with me. I'm not saying I'm a sex god or super attractive by any means to initiate all the sex, I just think I make sex enjoyable by not rushing into it and by always trying to please my partner before myself. Due to that, it's comfortable and easy so it becomes more frequent.
p.s. no sexuality isn't a turn off, sexuality is just a turn on imo.
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I highly object to this statement. That's such a gross generalization. I have a high sex drive and that can sometimes come off as just being horny, but I'm also very into my ambitions and don't think the comparison you made has any correlation at all.
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In America, that's called dating. As grim as it seems, men are always paying for sex either with monetary investments, emotional investments or both. I'm not exactly saying buying a girl all the handbags/whatever she wants, I'm saying - buying dinner, taking the girl out to nice places/events. Pretty much paying for sex.
Men are basically trying to spread their seed, that's how we're programmed biologically so naturally sex is a major factor in any of our relationships and that's why flirty women initially attract us. Women, for the most part, are trying to find a man that can tend to their offspring so they find things like confidence, good sense of responsibility, wealth, and so on, attractive.
I feel like the women who don't enjoy sex are either having bad sex or aren't that attracted to their partner. I've been with a few different girls who all told me they've never had as much sex with previous partners as they do with me. I'm not saying I'm a sex god or super attractive by any means to initiate all the sex, I just think I make sex enjoyable by not rushing into it and by always trying to please my partner before myself. Due to that, it's comfortable and easy so it becomes more frequent.
p.s. no sexuality isn't a turn off, sexuality is just a turn on imo.
Oh, Aziraphale~ how you brighten my day with your intruder alerts. Wonderful. lol
In America, that's called dating. As grim as it seems, men are always paying for sex either with monetary investments, emotional investments or both. I'm not exactly saying buying a girl all the handbags/whatever she wants, I'm saying - buying dinner, taking the girl out to nice places/events. Pretty much paying for sex.
Men are basically trying to spread their seed, that's how we're programmed biologically so naturally sex is a major factor in any of our relationships and that's why flirty women initially attract us. Women, for the most part, are trying to find a man that can tend to their offspring so they find things like confidence, good sense of responsibility, wealth, and so on, attractive.
I feel like the women who don't enjoy sex are either having bad sex or aren't that attracted to their partner. I've been with a few different girls who all told me they've never had as much sex with previous partners as they do with me. I'm not saying I'm a sex god or super attractive by any means to initiate all the sex, I just think I make sex enjoyable by not rushing into it and by always trying to please my partner before myself. Due to that, it's comfortable and easy so it becomes more frequent.
p.s. no sexuality isn't a turn off, sexuality is just a turn on imo.
and actually. in ancient times, woman wanted to be fertilized by men. so woman had to beef up their seduction and libido.
so sex should be a two way thing.
men wants to spread and give.
woman wants to relax and receive.
don't talk about sex on a first date, use your discernment. try to get intimate. hold hands. poke her, see if she reacts. etc.
I used to hug my ex for hours. I never talked about sex. just hugged her for hours, and just by that i somewhat discerned that she liked to be physical. I was correct by most part.
i used the same technique on a different girl, thinking that strategy would work again, i was wrong.
that's why it takes long long patient dating, to really get to know each other.
but not all girls are similar. it's a fruit basket, they all taste good. but i like my oranges, if you catch my drift.
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Oh a lil bit of a different topic but similar im just a lil turned off about how nowadays
Men would wanna sleep with a girl.. he ends up easily sleeping with that girl and then falling inlove with her
versus ... a girl waiting perhaps half a yr until she wants to have sex...
what happen to "i like girls who are hard to get"?
What happen to men liking loyal conservative girls VS horny im not shy girls who go around showing how horny they are at clubs by flirting with every men they see? Too be honest i have a friend like that and it seems alot of guys dig her.
Men would wanna sleep with a girl.. he ends up easily sleeping with that girl and then falling inlove with her
versus ... a girl waiting perhaps half a yr until she wants to have sex...
what happen to "i like girls who are hard to get"?
What happen to men liking loyal conservative girls VS horny im not shy girls who go around showing how horny they are at clubs by flirting with every men they see? Too be honest i have a friend like that and it seems alot of guys dig her.
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Posted 17 September 2009 - 05:57 PM
Date someone that like you for who you are..... a relationship is not ALL ABOUT SEX....
Advice from me....
You have to be attractive to your partner body to give you the crave for sex.... or wanting for more
Date for awhile and know that they aren't after you just for sex and leave you....
I only have one partner and i have to say.....sometime he look very sexy and i want him now but somtimes he can be a turn off......i'm a person who don't like to plan with my partner when and where to have sex....
i like the thrill of having sex unexpected. Sometimes my body gives me different hormone and gives me different mood swings. I once go without sex for one month, two a week or once a month or nostop sex in a day.
ITS ALL ABOUT YOUR MOOD SWINGS AND CRAVING.....
i do have close friends that are like that but trust me...they are always in and out of relationship.....because they end up dating guys that only like them for their body and use them thenleave and never call back unless they need more sex...lol
Advice from me....
You have to be attractive to your partner body to give you the crave for sex.... or wanting for more
Date for awhile and know that they aren't after you just for sex and leave you....
I only have one partner and i have to say.....sometime he look very sexy and i want him now but somtimes he can be a turn off......i'm a person who don't like to plan with my partner when and where to have sex....
i like the thrill of having sex unexpected. Sometimes my body gives me different hormone and gives me different mood swings. I once go without sex for one month, two a week or once a month or nostop sex in a day.
ITS ALL ABOUT YOUR MOOD SWINGS AND CRAVING.....
QUOTE (Rainbow-lotus @ Sep 17 2009, 05:55 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Oh a lil bit of a different topic but similar im just a lil turned off about how nowadays
Men would wanna sleep with a girl.. he ends up easily sleeping with that girl and then falling inlove with her
versus ... a girl waiting perhaps half a yr until she wants to have sex...
what happen to "i like girls who are hard to get"?
What happen to men liking loyal conservative girls VS horny im not shy girls who go around showing how horny they are at clubs by flirting with every men they see? Too be honest i have a friend like that and it seems alot of guys dig her.
Men would wanna sleep with a girl.. he ends up easily sleeping with that girl and then falling inlove with her
versus ... a girl waiting perhaps half a yr until she wants to have sex...
what happen to "i like girls who are hard to get"?
What happen to men liking loyal conservative girls VS horny im not shy girls who go around showing how horny they are at clubs by flirting with every men they see? Too be honest i have a friend like that and it seems alot of guys dig her.
i do have close friends that are like that but trust me...they are always in and out of relationship.....because they end up dating guys that only like them for their body and use them thenleave and never call back unless they need more sex...lol
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QUOTE (Rainbow-lotus @ Sep 17 2009, 05:55 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Oh a lil bit of a different topic but similar im just a lil turned off about how nowadays
Men would wanna sleep with a girl.. he ends up easily sleeping with that girl and then falling inlove with her
versus ... a girl waiting perhaps half a yr until she wants to have sex...
what happen to "i like girls who are hard to get"?
What happen to men liking loyal conservative girls VS horny im not shy girls who go around showing how horny they are at clubs by flirting with every men they see? Too be honest i have a friend like that and it seems alot of guys dig her.
Men would wanna sleep with a girl.. he ends up easily sleeping with that girl and then falling inlove with her
versus ... a girl waiting perhaps half a yr until she wants to have sex...
what happen to "i like girls who are hard to get"?
What happen to men liking loyal conservative girls VS horny im not shy girls who go around showing how horny they are at clubs by flirting with every men they see? Too be honest i have a friend like that and it seems alot of guys dig her.
FUNNNYY. MAKING SO MANY GENERALIZATIONSSSSSS. I don't know how you got the conclusion that flirting = horny. Or that flirty or horny != loyal.
I don't know, sounds like someone hasn't been out in the dating world very much and is jealous if you're making those kinda generalizations.
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FUNNNYY. MAKING SO MANY GENERALIZATIONSSSSSS. I don't know how you got the conclusion that flirting = horny. Or that flirty or horny != loyal.
I don't know, sounds like someone hasn't been out in the dating world very much and is jealous if you're making those kinda generalizations.
I don't know, sounds like someone hasn't been out in the dating world very much and is jealous if you're making those kinda generalizations.
And that's...THE UGLY TRUTH.
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OH YEAH. I just wanted to say .... a low sex drive isn't just a turn off for guys. It's a turn off for women too.
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Look, at the end of the day, sex is merely a deep level of communication between two people.
Sex is more fun when both partners are into it. If the girl is rarely sexual and the guy always has to initiate sex, then it can be fun for awhile but it gets tiring after awhile, not to mention, giving a girl a night of great sex and then not getting the emotional feedback and return is very discouraging to a man. A guy is therefore going to choose a girl who can appreciate a great night of pounding when he gives it to her. It's just natural. I know i do.
Sex is more fun when both partners are into it. If the girl is rarely sexual and the guy always has to initiate sex, then it can be fun for awhile but it gets tiring after awhile, not to mention, giving a girl a night of great sex and then not getting the emotional feedback and return is very discouraging to a man. A guy is therefore going to choose a girl who can appreciate a great night of pounding when he gives it to her. It's just natural. I know i do.
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FUNNNYY. MAKING SO MANY GENERALIZATIONSSSSSS. I don't know how you got the conclusion that flirting = horny. Or that flirty or horny != loyal.
I don't know, sounds like someone hasn't been out in the dating world very much and is jealous if you're making those kinda generalizations.
I don't know, sounds like someone hasn't been out in the dating world very much and is jealous if you're making those kinda generalizations.
HUH???? when did i say i was making generalizations???
Im saying this is meand my friend situation and yes she has cheated on her bf several times she can get alot of guys,
she is really flirty and horny and boys still like her, you dont know her so please dont act like you do.
And dont put words in my mouth
BTW. i dont see how flirting with guys is called loyal, you know, ppl have different perceptions of flirting and im sure u were not there and see how my friend flirts.
QUOTE (samanatha_xyooj @ Sep 18 2009, 09:57 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
i do have close friends that are like that but trust me...they are always in and out of relationship.....because they end up dating guys that only like them for their body and use them thenleave and never call back unless they need more sex...lol
shes been in 2 long term relationships, she got dumped by one of her bfs.. maybe thats what makes her insecure and go all wild out (cuz she use to not be like that before) her current bf whom she cheated on forgave her by the way... i dont think ppl use her.. i think its the otherway around actually. Shes a smart girl she wouldnt let guys use her
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HUH???? when did i say i was making generalizations???
Im saying this is meand my friend situation and yes she has cheated on her bf several times she can get alot of guys,
she is really flirty and horny and boys still like her, you dont know her so please dont act like you do.
And dont put words in my mouth
BTW. i dont see how flirting with guys is called loyal, you know, ppl have different perceptions of flirting and im sure u were not there and see how my friend flirts.
Im saying this is meand my friend situation and yes she has cheated on her bf several times she can get alot of guys,
she is really flirty and horny and boys still like her, you dont know her so please dont act like you do.
And dont put words in my mouth
BTW. i dont see how flirting with guys is called loyal, you know, ppl have different perceptions of flirting and im sure u were not there and see how my friend flirts.
Lol. Generalizations you're making:
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What happen to men liking loyal conservative girls VS horny im not shy girls who go around showing how horny they are at clubs by flirting with every men they see? Too be honest i have a friend like that and it seems alot of guys dig her.
Thus saying loyal = conservative. And not shy/horny/flirty = not loyal. And, you didn't say it in a way where you're specifically talking about your friend, you're talking mini cooper and then giving your friend as an example. I don't think I said anything about your friend LOL nor did I say I know her or know how she acts like. Sooo I don't get why you're bringing up your friend now.
SOOO... just because I'm flirty I'm not loyal? And since I'm flirty I must be horny too?! Just because someone has a higher sex drive than you they're not loyal? DANG, I didn't know that! Thanks girl for opening my eyes.
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HUH???? when did i say i was making generalizations???
Im saying this is meand my friend situation and yes she has cheated on her bf several times she can get alot of guys,
she is really flirty and horny and boys still like her, you dont know her so please dont act like you do.
And dont put words in my mouth
BTW. i dont see how flirting with guys is called loyal, you know, ppl have different perceptions of flirting and im sure u were not there and see how my friend flirts.
Im saying this is meand my friend situation and yes she has cheated on her bf several times she can get alot of guys,
she is really flirty and horny and boys still like her, you dont know her so please dont act like you do.
And dont put words in my mouth
BTW. i dont see how flirting with guys is called loyal, you know, ppl have different perceptions of flirting and im sure u were not there and see how my friend flirts.
Well, the way you stated things in your post was a generalization. Nowhere in that post did you mention anything about your friend, so we can only take it at face value as a generalization. No one is putting anything in your mouth.
And just because someone is flirty, does not mean theyre not loyal. As long as nothing happens besides a few friendly verbal exchanges, I don't see anything wrong.
Also for the original topic, yes, no sexuality is a turn-off. If one is in a long-term relationship, sex should be a part of the relationship. Lack of it means something is lacking in the relationship. And that won't last.
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BTW i didnt "just" bring up my friend, she was in the other post. This is the second time i wrote it.
BTW i wasnt trying to generalize OBVIOUSLY there are guys who like non-conservated girls, thats a given, im exhadderating meaning why isnt the majority liking these kinds of girls. *your probably gonna say this is also a generalization* but guess what? in my city it isnt, its the majority
U werent reading i just stated she is unloyal and flirty. I think yuor confused. I never said it in general i was talking about my friend.English is my second language, but i honestly wasnt talking and stating about the whole world, otherwise i would have wrote that, this my my personal thread so obviously its going to be about my personal life and not your city or other ppl's gfs. or the whole world in general. Its a question. thats all.
QUOTE (Rainbow-lotus @ Sep 18 2009, 09:55 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Oh a lil bit of a different topic but similar im just a lil turned off about how nowadays
Men would wanna sleep with a girl.. he ends up easily sleeping with that girl and then falling inlove with her
versus ... a girl waiting perhaps half a yr until she wants to have sex...
what happen to "i like girls who are hard to get"?
What happen to men liking loyal conservative girls VS horny im not shy girls who go around showing how horny they are at clubs by flirting with every men they see? ********Too be honest i have a friend like that and it seems alot of guys dig her*************.
Men would wanna sleep with a girl.. he ends up easily sleeping with that girl and then falling inlove with her
versus ... a girl waiting perhaps half a yr until she wants to have sex...
what happen to "i like girls who are hard to get"?
What happen to men liking loyal conservative girls VS horny im not shy girls who go around showing how horny they are at clubs by flirting with every men they see? ********Too be honest i have a friend like that and it seems alot of guys dig her*************.
BTW i wasnt trying to generalize OBVIOUSLY there are guys who like non-conservated girls, thats a given, im exhadderating meaning why isnt the majority liking these kinds of girls. *your probably gonna say this is also a generalization* but guess what? in my city it isnt, its the majority
U werent reading i just stated she is unloyal and flirty. I think yuor confused. I never said it in general i was talking about my friend.English is my second language, but i honestly wasnt talking and stating about the whole world, otherwise i would have wrote that, this my my personal thread so obviously its going to be about my personal life and not your city or other ppl's gfs. or the whole world in general. Its a question. thats all.
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Posted 19 September 2009 - 04:22 AM
she's obviously talking in a very general manner with the generalizations of 'shy + conservative' vs. 'flirty + horny' which translated in to say, stereotypes = choir girl vs. the femme player and yeah they are the very extreme opposite ends of a stick or pole? shrug ahh~ i've lost my train of thought but uh..
+ rainbow referred to a 'white and black' of girl types; but if you're say pink, blue.. a fancy colour like lilac or.. pearlgoldennsomethingsomethings, some inbetween colour or whatever your own mix is then that is your own business
+ she just wanted to discuss this often asked question which yes, concerns stereotypes so don't make it or take it on a personal level
+ when reading 'horny im not shy girls who go around showing how horny they are at clubs by flirting with every men they see' - i think she's referring to her friend here but if that doesn't sound like you..if that doesn't fit you to a T and you know it, then why be offended by it.. cos she ain't talking about you
+ of course she'd have to make generalizations because it is afterall a very GENERAL topic/question.. there's too many types of girls - individuals, different situations/circumstances to explore for an easy discussion unless you want to go into crazy depths
but yeah.. love and peace man! iloves me love and peace xD ah and yes i can't comment on that question cos its too general for my liking and i'd type some lame essay.. cos it always depends on the people involved, the situation, circumstances yadda yadda for me lol! and for the original question about no sexuality.. i'm not a guy but my opinion is relationships are all about compromise.. but that is just my 2 cents! wohoho
+ rainbow referred to a 'white and black' of girl types; but if you're say pink, blue.. a fancy colour like lilac or.. pearlgoldennsomethingsomethings, some inbetween colour or whatever your own mix is then that is your own business
+ she just wanted to discuss this often asked question which yes, concerns stereotypes so don't make it or take it on a personal level
+ when reading 'horny im not shy girls who go around showing how horny they are at clubs by flirting with every men they see' - i think she's referring to her friend here but if that doesn't sound like you..if that doesn't fit you to a T and you know it, then why be offended by it.. cos she ain't talking about you
+ of course she'd have to make generalizations because it is afterall a very GENERAL topic/question.. there's too many types of girls - individuals, different situations/circumstances to explore for an easy discussion unless you want to go into crazy depths
but yeah.. love and peace man! iloves me love and peace xD ah and yes i can't comment on that question cos its too general for my liking and i'd type some lame essay.. cos it always depends on the people involved, the situation, circumstances yadda yadda for me lol! and for the original question about no sexuality.. i'm not a guy but my opinion is relationships are all about compromise.. but that is just my 2 cents! wohoho
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Posted 19 September 2009 - 06:10 AM
QUOTE (Rainbow-lotus @ Sep 17 2009, 08:55 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Oh a lil bit of a different topic but similar im just a lil turned off about how nowadays
Men would wanna sleep with a girl.. he ends up easily sleeping with that girl and then falling inlove with her
versus ... a girl waiting perhaps half a yr until she wants to have sex...
what happen to "i like girls who are hard to get"?
What happen to men liking loyal conservative girls VS horny im not shy girls who go around showing how horny they are at clubs by flirting with every men they see? Too be honest i have a friend like that and it seems alot of guys dig her.
Men would wanna sleep with a girl.. he ends up easily sleeping with that girl and then falling inlove with her
versus ... a girl waiting perhaps half a yr until she wants to have sex...
what happen to "i like girls who are hard to get"?
What happen to men liking loyal conservative girls VS horny im not shy girls who go around showing how horny they are at clubs by flirting with every men they see? Too be honest i have a friend like that and it seems alot of guys dig her.
Does he really end up falling in love the girl he sleeps with? What about every other girl he sleeps with? I don't understand this statement you made...
Some guys don't like "playing hard to get"...And honestly, there are a billion guys out there, some of them like sexuality in a girl, some can wait.
People change.
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