i've dated before and like most girls have had guys chase after me. they range from smart law students to cool DJs to shy nerds. i dont want to sound conceited but to get to the point, im not totally un-date-able. just an average looking asian girl with a big mouth.
im a 2nd yr uni student now and at the beginning of this yr, spotted the hottest guy i have ever seen.
He is:
-eurasian
-approx 188cm tall
-president of a well-respected commerce student society
-4th yr law student
stupid me paid to join his society, but he didnt even give me the decency of just looking at me!
a few weeks later i literally bump into him. i was late for class and nearly knocked him and the wheeling cart over. turns out he works at the student enquiry center too.
since then, ive been stalking him. every wednesday i would walk by the center to get a glimpse of him. i even made a lame excuse once just to talk to him. i went in asking for the location of a lecturer's office (and i know the way off the back of my hand). my impression was that he was cold and mean. or maybe that was because he asked me general questions about what i was studying & why i wanted to see the lecturer, but i couldnt answer? regardless, he was quite indifferent.
then i go to a conference organised by his society just to see him. i bring my best office outfit to uni and get changed in the car, put on some makeup and stilettos THIS tall, and he didnt even look at me once. i was like a peacock trying to gain attention with a giant fan tail.
devastated, i confide in my sister who sweetly and without my consent, signed into my facebook account and added him.
surprisingly, he accepted. contrary to the cold and serious person i thought he was, he's actually cute- mega cute! all of his friends seem to label him the sweet one. and it makes me like the guy all the more!!
he has everything i ever wanted and more. (cringe, im so shameless).
one day he's status read that he was watching a soccer match. i "liked" his comment because soccer is a passion of mine. i hesitated for a moment but i thought, 'why should i be afraid to like your comment?!' and clicked the button. u could imagine what my expression was like when he started chatting to me thru fb. i think he was testing the waters, esp seeing as i was a random girl who added him on fb. he said 'hey', i replied 'hi'... and then i started talking about soccer and he reciprocated. eventually we began talking about our societies (since im an executive on another one now) and he wanted to know why i didnt join his executive team. if only he knew. the sad thing is i told him i saw him at the last conference but he never realised i was even there. i wanted to whine 'but we've seen each other so many times!'
by the end of the night he told me to add him on msn, if i wanted to. i did but we havent talked since and its been nearly a week now.
today i made another stupid excuse to see him in the enquiry center again but ended up being helped by another girl. for the first time, he actually looked-and stared- at me. i dont know whether he recognised me from my fb picture or not. i didnt have any plans, i just rocked up and thought id say "hi, we talked a few days ago remember?" but i felt uncomfortable with his staring and he has these really intense eyes that makes me lose my voice. so after the girl finished with the instructions, i backed out and ran off.
ADVICE soompiers! i know i sound desperate and a little calculated but honestly, i really like the guy. i thought he was serious, intelligent and cold- which i usu like. he turns out to be fun, cute and a really nice guy. id really like to get to know him and i know we'll be seeing each other at a party soon. what should i do? i know he'll never approach me first (even just as a friend) because he's arrogant enough for that. all im seeking is a chance.
