[JULiE BOOTiE*]

hmmmmmmmmm nevermind sorry

[c-rayons]

Still look for a better person! I support you! Although I think it was wrong to check his facebook I think it's kind of good in a way because now you know he still thinks of her. By the way I think you're handling this so well o-o.. Especially since you've been with this man for 1 year and a few months? Amazing.

EDIT: Please don't be mean to me T^T... I'm just giving my opinion..><

[JULiE BOOTiE*]

Still look for a better person! I support you! Although I think it was wrong to check his facebook I think it's kind of good in a way because now you know he still thinks of her. By the way I think you're handling this so well o-o.. Especially since you've been with this man for 1 year and a few months? Amazing.

EDIT: Please don't be mean to me T^T... I'm just giving my opinion..><

Haha thanks! this helped me a lot and I wasn't checking his facebook, the search bar thingy dropped down all of his facebook history when i started typing facebook.com to login to mine and that's when it showed me that he was looking at it.

[heyitzthatfc]

Look for a new dude faaaaast. I mean, I don't know if he "cheated" (sounds like a lot of people on Soompi have different definitions of this) on you but it sounds to me like he is easily persuaded. If he's still going to buy food for that Anne (Annie?) girl you know if he ever got the chance to get with her, he'd take it. Just remember that.

[SailorBoy62]

Honestly, I don't really think that qualifies as cheating. Yes, it's a jerkish thing to like another girl when you're dating someone, but he didn't actually do anything with her, and he didn't try to get with her while he was with you. He was just... a jerk about it. But that's the beauty of high school. I'm going to assume you're in high school 'cause of the prom thing.

You really don't have to forgive this guy if you don't want to. You're still young, it's not like you're all settled down with him and married with kids. The fact is, you're too young to feel obligated to give someone a second chance, especially when he's not someone you can trust. A relationship flat out can't exist if there's no trust between the two people, but it's not like you're all super paranoid, you have good reason not to trust him. I think it's good that you told him you'd still be looking for another guy, but I think you should drop him like the dead weight he is. He'll only weigh you down if you don't want to be with him.

[kg123]

Use him to fool around just like he did to you and dont show you get jealous around anne or whatever.

[jsp]

Last week, Bobby planned on treating his guy friend to lunch, but his friend brought Anne with him too. Bobby bought BOTH of them lunch.. and when I asked him why he bought her lunch too, he said it would look rude, if he bought his friend lunch and not her.

Well, this is understandable. I generally won't treat someone unless I treat everyone, unless it's someone's birthday or something.


With everything else though, I think you should keep looking until you find someone that you're sure you mean everything to and proves that to him you're not just the next best thing that he has to settle for.

[Keion]

Find another boy to pleasure yourself and never trust anyone. Look where it got you? If you trust no one, you can never be betrayed. You learned the easy way.

You can take revenge if you cared that much, but I am sure there are easier ways of satisfying your desire.

...So, like I said, find a boy toy and never trust anyone again.

[Tea..]

I know that it might be a little hard for you, but just dump his sorry a.ss. Like seriously ..
You do realize that he just sees you as a rebound, right? I don't mean to sound harsh or anything, but he probably would've gotten with her if he had the chance. Also, you deserve way better than to be 2nd best. Just keep looking for someone else that will treat you the way you should be treated.

All the best,
Tea..

[peppermintsugar]

Cheating is never, ever, okay. Find someone who feels the same way.

[Jamila]

Don't take him back...take it from someone who knows..lol
How he acted wasn't ok even if he didn't do anything physical with her..(but who really knows if he didn't)

he probably would've gotten with her if he had the chance.

I agree

[jaeka]

You want someone who is willing to give you all of their heart and not what they can spare. =P

[Painterlyy]

Cheating is never ok.
And I personally think that cheaters shouldn't ever get a second chance because unless they were raped or drugged or something, it was their choice to cheat. And they should live with the consequences

[bonjour tristesse.]

Once a cheater, always a cheater.

[p u l c h r i t u d e i c]

To be honest, he didn't really cheat on you, but I know how you feel... emotionally cheated on. If you love him too much to let him go, I don't know what to say, but it doesn't seem to be the case. I suggest you find someone better before he grows on you.

[jsp]

Honestly, I don't really think that qualifies as cheating.

Yeah, the term "cheating" is being thrown around pretty loosely here.

[juicejuice]

He did cheated on you emotionally...I think its best to find a new guy and way better than him.

[mintcracker]

emotional cheating is worse imo. Don't be so darn weak, I'm getting quite annoyed actually, don't get back together with him. Don't give him another chance... bc when he does cheat, and TRUST ME, he will, you'll feel like shi it yet again.

[chifuni]

Save yourself the heartache and just move on. Like everyone said before, he would've probably cheated on you (physically) if the girl felt the same way he did.

[berryy :)]

Aww, girl.. You deserve a much better guy. You shouldn't be held on a string like that - getting booty calls when he wants to fool around or when "Anne" doesn't like him back at the moment. You're so much better than that! Don't be hanging around with that doucher.. he's so not worth you.
Trust me, I've been with guys that have just treated me like a ping pong ball - back and forth always pretending they like me just because they're bored at the moment or something. If you know he's wrong for you, then just bail. You gotta be in control, not following around this guy cause that's what he expects of you.
good luck!