[meiming8_1]

It's not okay he developed feelings for someone else in your relationship...some people may say it's okay to develop crushes, as long as you don't act on them, but personally I think that his was more than just a crush, he acted on it by spending time with her when he should have been spending time with you (especially if he knew he was developing feelings for another girl!) and is still wavering about his feelings. I don't think I could be with someone who liked someone else anyway, and acted inappropriately due to them, but the fact that he still is signals that you should break up, in my opinion anyway good luck! Sorry if my post is a little jumbled too XD

[x SaRaNg HaE x]

No more chances please.
You gave him a second chance and he goes back to liking her again. You think that if you give him one more, it won't happen again? He's still hanging out with her and looking up things on her Facebook. If he really loved you like he said he did, he would've cut connections with her immediately.
Sorry, but you got a douchebag boyfriend you need to get rid of.

[TammyL]

you guys dated for a year and something and he fell for a girl that he only maybe saw for a couple weeks or so? JESUS CHRIST. YOU DESERVE WAY BETTER. Let him go and make him work HARD if he wants you back. Not just a simple apology and a "i'll never do it again" BULLSH!T. That's how all the guys who take girls as suckers get their way.

[pinaiihoney]

Oh my, I totally understand how you feel. My last ex was the same way o_O. Dating over a year, The whole getting close to another girl, the texting, the "hanging out". then cheating, emotionally and physically.

Personally, I don't think you should give him another chance, only because from what I read, he doesn't seem like he's tried extremely hard to re-prove himself that he's sorry. (Or that he wants penance)

When I broke up with my ex, I layed a rule stating I wouldn't even think about giving him another chance if he still talked to 'that girl'. Well he couldn't even last 1 week with out talking to her again.
Sometimes you just have to be blunt and be strict. If he shows real effort that he's trying, I say why not.
If he's acting too chill, then he migh not really appreciate how great you are.

[x.3christine]

he did it more than once....this might just keep happening all the time
get yourself someone better. no one needs an on and off bf who is cheating emotionally

[Liinax3]

-deletes.-

edit: i jsut notice that this thread is old woow -_________-

[fredinsac]

Lol...wtf is "emotionally cheating!?"
So many people blasted on him even though he didn't technically cheat. Haha...

Bottom line is that he obviously thinks that you're not as cool as this other chick. I mean, do you want to be someone else's Plan B?

[Fui]

Continue with your search for a better guy. It seems as though Bobby is still hung up on Anne by the way that he still has the time to go and browse her facebook. Just continue with what you're doing and keep him as is.

[Mr. Chan]

DUMP HIS SORRY BUTT!!! what a d-bag!!
honestly..once a cheater, always a cheater.
he clearly didn't learn from his mistakes & it seems like he's back with you b/c he couldn't get with her. she's at fault too if she knows he's with you & she keeps flirting with him.
seriouslyy.. dump him! he doesn't deserve you.

Did you really had to bump this old thread?

[taebins_luver]

okay, gotta ask
if you're 'looking for someone better'
why do you care what bobby does?

why do you care if bobby eats with her?
holds her hand? kisses her? sucks her face off?
WHY? WHY? WHY?

the green eyed monster is coming out of you
careful

[SaintPink]

Do not...get...back...with...him!!!

Seriously I think emotionally cheating on a girl is much worse than physicaly cheating,
because physically it could just mean nothing a one night stand is still bad but
when your s/o starts to have feelings for another person it pretty much means
you dont mean anything to them...or at least not in the official bf/gf way.

Save yourself more heartache and just let him be, its his problem if he still wants to chase
you, chances are he's just really needy and is using you as a temporary rebound
while he keeps trying to win over Anne's affections. Once a cheater always a cheater.

[aly_ssa]

Don't get back with him.
It's obvious that he still likes her, and he may just be using you, maybe to make her jealous or stuff, you'll just end up getting hurt. There are a lot of fishes in the sea..

[the;andro]

say good bye to him.
why let yourself be 2nd place when there will be someone out there who will put you as their 1st?