[spiral_flare]

So basically, this guy at school asked me to homecoming. I told him "I can't" and obviously that wasn't a good enough answer because it just made him curious as to why. He didn't even get the hint that I just didn't wanna go with him so he kept bothering me about it, then stopped for a bit and then brought it up again. He's one of those people that just never gives up. So he still kept bothering me till I said "I'll tell you on Facebook because it's hard face-to-face", just to get him off my back. That did get him off my back but just for a little bit, because when I came home from school I had a new message in my inbox and it was from him asking me to tell him why I can't go with him to homecoming.

I have my own personal reasons why I don't wanna go, one of them being he's creepy and weird and a lot of people don't like him. I feel really really bad that I'm saying this but it's true. Like, I know many of you probably think "oh, give him a break. Just go and have fun." Honestly, I would probably have the worst time of my life forcing myself to do such a thing. he's one of those people who talks about the most random things ever and just doesn't STOP. It's really annoying.

And now I don't know what to tell him on Facebook. What should I do? I can't just say "it's just that I don't like you".

[hbunnynote]

Just say because you dont want to (because you just dont want to. Like if someone told you to go jump in a lake, you dont want to so you dont do it), or because you were planning on going with someone else. Its probably close to or is the truth anyways :)

[bonjour tristesse.]

You should have just told him face to face. Yes its harder but he'll take it easier because that way, he would have been able to see your facial expression to end this following you scheme. Tell him what's on your mind face to face.

[MNLV27]

Just say you want to go alone not with a partner.

[WallaceJiang]

Easy solution, tell him you've got another date
don't worry about showing up

[muffinx3]

Just tell him you had someone in mind that you wanted to go with and you're waiting for that guy to ask/are planning to ask him.
If he asks who, just tell him that you're going to ask one of your friends.

[c[:]

Just tell him that you have someone else in mind and isn't ready to ask that person yet or just tell him the honest truth. If you tell him the honest truth, I doubt he'll ask you to be his date for other dances.

[spiral_flare]

AHAHAHA, you guys are funny. I took some of your advice and just told him the truth that I just didn't wanna go and he shouldn't force me. He said ok, I won't ask you anymore.

I'm sure I sounded mean, but I think he understood me clearly. it's gonna be awkward tomorrow seeing him but I'll be fine,

Thanks, it's resolved now.