[Yuki]

So my bf is currently on vacation now and the only way we contact each other is through facebook inbox messages. But the thing is, when he replies me....it's usually quite short and brief. Like he doesn't tell me how he's doing or actually anything much at all. When I write to him, it's pretty detailed and long. Do you think it's because he's losing interest in me? Or am I overthinking this?

But the thing is, when he replies my bestfriend (who he's also friends with) it's more detailed and lively. And drastically much longer answers too. It makes me a bit jealous.

[Mannosuke]

Talk to him about it. Or get your best friend to ask him if you can't. Who knows, he might give your best friend a longer answer.

[Want2LoveU]

It may not always be the case, you can't never know for sure what he is thinking about. It seems to me that you are really into him because you give so much detail and thought in your writing, and he doesn't give anything up to your expectation.

[whatismyname]

i would be jealous. i mean come on, this is an indicator.....

try to be random and asks things you know he is interested in. if his reply is still bland then...i dontknow what to say but why is he talking to your friend? o.O?

[peppermintsugar]

i dontknow what to say but why is he talking to your friend? o.O?

Hahaha, my thoughts exactly!

This could be a sign, but none of us can know for sure. You need to talk to him about it.

[rachilde]

My ex used to write me like three sentence e-mails when he was abroad. It was annoying at first but I figured there's just not much romantic goop you can write over an e-mail and not feel absolutely ridiculous about it.

[Yuki]

well my bf just casually talks to her through facebook wall-to-wall. and it's just like chatting....but still he writes more to her than me. And he talks to her because they're friends too. I introduced my bestfriend to my bf, but at the time he was not my bf though.

[AngieK]

If you're so worried then talk to him about it but, really, I think you're overreacting.

[hannieoon]

Woowwwww....... I would get so mad. Hahaha

Why would he be emailing her with long replies? There's probably something going on between the two.

[chibifish622]

As a guy, I didn't like writing much in the form of an email or letter. It's like writing in a journal/diary which guys don't usually like writing or even have one. Maybe it's the same for your boyfriend. However what puzzles me is the fact your boyfriend writes more on your bestfriend's wall. Maybe write something sort and simple on his wall and see how he replies.

[bonjour tristesse.]

Oh .. this. Gosh, I hate it when guys do this. The best thing you can do is tell him that it bugs you.

[donporkuloin]

Woowwwww....... I would get so mad. Hahaha

Why would he be emailing her with long replies? There's probably something going on between the two.

Lol @ the sarcasm
Yes, you're over reacting.

[witchery]

Hahaha wow I'm not usually a jealous or clingy person at all, but man I'd be so pissed about this.
Maybe he's just finding replying to her messages more fun? Try to be more joke-y and funny in your responses to see how he reacts.

[Gytha]

Talk to him about it. Or get your best friend to ask him if you can't. Who knows, he might give your best friend a longer answer.

yeah , ask him...dont be cheat by him .

[xo_sugar_ox]

you never know what he's thinking, but i'd be pretty suspicious about it too..
you can maybe bring it up casually or jokingly or something and see what he says.

[Lie]

There could be a lot of different reasons for the disparity between his msgs to you and his msgs to her. For example, maybe the particular conversation he's having with her interests him more than the one he's having with you (i.e. it's easier to go on forever about my interests than it is to about something like what I did today, for example). Maybe he hasn't talked to her as much recently as he's talked to you, so they have things to catch up on. Maybe he's begun to take talking to you for granted, if you talk really frequently. It's really situational, unfortunately. Could be many things, so I might try to avoid over-analyzing it.

[Garadaz]

There could be a lot of different reasons for the disparity between his msgs to you and his msgs to her. For example, maybe the particular conversation he's having with her interests him more than the one he's having with you (i.e. it's easier to go on forever about my interests than it is to about something like what I did today, for example). Maybe he hasn't talked to her as much recently as he's talked to you, so they have things to catch up on. Maybe he's begun to take talking to you for granted, if you talk really frequently. It's really situational, unfortunately. Could be many things, so I might try to avoid over-analyzing it.

^ Agree completely.

[Yuki]

There could be a lot of different reasons for the disparity between his msgs to you and his msgs to her. For example, maybe the particular conversation he's having with her interests him more than the one he's having with you (i.e. it's easier to go on forever about my interests than it is to about something like what I did today, for example). Maybe he hasn't talked to her as much recently as he's talked to you, so they have things to catch up on. Maybe he's begun to take talking to you for granted, if you talk really frequently. It's really situational, unfortunately. Could be many things, so I might try to avoid over-analyzing it.

thanks for the advice, i feel much better now.