tears i dont know what is wrong with me
#1
Posted 15 September 2009 - 07:37 PM
i have a problem and i wonder if u guys can tell me what is wrong with me??
I cried really easy. My tears come out every time i get emotional. I hate it, it come out whenever im sad or mad. I can even make tears come out really easy too. I dont understand why the tears keeping coming out whenever my emotion get intense. I even hate myself when i get really mad then it comes.
Ughhh...its really annoying becuz i dont really want ppl to think that im a weak person, a cried baby. But i cant control it, its driving me crazy! Even when im too happy or too excited, the tears didnt come out but my whole face turning red and i look like im about to cries.
So what is wrong with me?? Is this consider psychology problems too??? Is there anyway i can do to stop it?? Becuz i hate that feelings when i am mad and people gets the wrong idea and thought i was sad so i cried
I tried to hold it down every time but its pointless, in the end, it come out...
#2
Posted 15 September 2009 - 08:36 PM
I've become weak after a a few things that have happened.
I get emotional so easily nowadays
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#3
Posted 15 September 2009 - 11:19 PM
I think it's just normal to cry.
We're human beings. We're emotional.
#4
Posted 16 September 2009 - 04:47 AM
i cry when i'm happy, sad, angry, irritated..etc etc.
very emotional. but yeah i understand you. the tears just came rolling down by themselves!
i usually tell my friends "hey i'm not crying you know..they came out on themselves!"
they understood me, and i'm learning to be stronger
tell yourself "YOU CANT FRIGGIN CRY." when you feel like you're going to
#5
Posted 16 September 2009 - 10:03 AM
#6
Posted 16 September 2009 - 12:16 PM
it's ridiculous how i cry, well not cry more like tear - my eyes just get watery, when i get excited
someone diagnose this please!
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#7
Posted 16 September 2009 - 01:45 PM
#8
Posted 16 September 2009 - 02:40 PM
#10
Posted 16 September 2009 - 03:42 PM
lol agreed xDD
when i was younger i didn't really have this problem
but now... weddings, babies, small animals or even chick flicks
forget it. i'm a wreck ><
i guess it's just part of being a hormone-y teenage girl
can't wait to see what'll happen when i'm pregnant =_=
#11
Posted 16 September 2009 - 04:30 PM
it's ridiculous how i cry, well not cry more like tear - my eyes just get watery, when i get excited
someone diagnose this please!
this is exactly what im talking about!!
#12
Posted 16 September 2009 - 10:27 PM
#13
Posted 17 September 2009 - 03:42 AM
when i get mad, i just start crying even though im not that emotional.
#14
Posted 17 September 2009 - 03:56 AM
For example. when I was PMSing, and say... I was late for school and couldn't find my socks... I started crying out of frustration. Or some kind of tear-jerking drama that I would normally laugh at for its ridiculousness - o'd get all mushy about it.
Exercise helps level your mood a lot. Try that.
Also, maybe meditation, or yoga breathing techniques or yoga in general. They really make you in tune with your body so you're not a slave to your moods.
#15
Posted 17 September 2009 - 03:55 PM
Or I've even teared up a couple times when I'm watching performances. o_O
Also when I'm angry and trying to resolve a like social problem I start to cry.
I don't know why, but I do sometimes.
#16
Posted 18 September 2009 - 09:12 PM
I would cry over very little things.
I don't know what happened, but now I'm the opposite.
I hardly ever cry anymore >.<
I guess I shed so many tears when I was younger that they won't come out anymore O.o
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#17
Posted 19 September 2009 - 12:50 AM
just over small things.. i guess i was just a lil baby ahaha
but yea im not as sensitve now but i am more then the average person.....
#18
Posted 19 September 2009 - 05:14 PM
Last year, I was an emotional wreck too :[
But luckily, now, I am able to control my tears better.
Just repeatedly tell yourself to man up!
#19
Posted 20 September 2009 - 02:12 PM
Seriously, hearing the actors and actresses say what they have to go through to properly complete a crying scene is devastatingly sad T .T Bringing up past breakups, family separation memories... it's so horrible > .<
I say don't hold it in and just cry. I used to be like you. Crying really easily, and then I started to force myself to not cry by saying "don't cry. you're such a loser, why are you crying." eventually it stopped. And I have never ever cried since. 1 Litre of Tears is the best example I have. I never shed one tear. :/ I felt REALLY SAD. But no tears. At all. It kinda makes you feel like a cold person... so don't hold in the tears. I consider tears as a gift now that my friends can cry and I can't.
Just my take on things.

























