[Javus]

I think pretty much most of us have the notion that one we're older or have a stable job that eventually we'd start dating to look for a SO and eventually when the time is right that you'd eventually marry and have a family etc. But has anyone ever thought about just being single and not marrying at all. Most people(myself included) usually feel the need or urge to be with someone, but I was just curious if there's anyone out there who really doesn't plan on getting married or doesn't really care either way. Do you think you could live a happy full life without a partner by your side?

[Maria87_01]

I have thought about it... It would be cool to be alone,I have to worry only about myself and there is no one to bother me if I´m moody! But in the other hand..together would be easyer. Money problems would be less and company... And if I´m feeling myself alone,then there is my husbend,who will be with me...
Besides - I´m too weak too stay alone! If I will find somebody who I love,then deffenetly I will get married !!!

[tulove]

I don't plan on getting married.
The only time i would care to get married would be if i wanted to start a family! (which i won't, i'm no good with kids = =
I'd be perfectly happy living with a "boyfriend" rather than a "husband" o-o;; besides i tend to think marriage is just a troublesome contract T . T;;
A boyfriend can be a life partner too without the strings attached (the marriage contract) ~

[sixth.]

i'd never be able to live my entire life single.. but then i don't care if i get married or not, so long as i'm happy with my s/o.

[Want2LoveU]

I don't think I can ever live alone forever, I need someone to be there for me =)

[kikujiro8]

I want to be with someone for the rest of my life and because of religious, cultural, and traditional reasons, to me, it means getting married.

I can't handle being alone anyway. I just finished college and sitting home alone searching for jobs while people I know/family work or go to school during the day is killing me.

[Gofishus]

I don't want to get married and I don't intend to. I've been living my entire life single so far and have been completely comfortable with that.

[Amethist]

I do wanna get married someday, having a family with a husband and kids looks wonderful ..
Ok you don't have to get married to get kids, but a wedding itself also sounds like so much fun ~
Lol I'm scared I end up all like Bridget Jones though, being still single and people around you that keep nagging why you don't have a man yet XD..

[4ever_sweet]

To never get married.....I don't know, I'm not the type of person who likes to go out every night & have fun....or the type that can entertain myself from watching movies & doing some kind of hobby, etc. I don't think I would be able to live the rest of my life alone (or even if I lived with my parents).

I don't know if Marriage would be the answer, but I would definitely want someone to be there for me....and want to be there for someone else as well.

[terrorist]

actually... i don't
i don't have any feelings to get married or even get a girlfriend.

it's not because i'm not emotionless or don't care of love.

it's just my situation. I don't think my situation will ever change. so in order to save my future gf's torment.. i rather not

[screamxlove]

Before, I used to be against the idea of being in a relationship and of marriage, especially -- mainly because of all the drama and problems that can come around with it. I see it in my parents, my relatives, and just... a lot of people who are married, and I don't ever want to deal with that.

But then... I find myself changing my mind about it as I got older. I want to fall in love and get married some time later on in the future. And I want to have a family one day, as well. However, sometimes when I think about it, it makes me go... No, that probably won't ever happen cuz I can't really see myself as a married woman or a mother (even though a lot of my friends tell me that I'd make one awesome mother, haha) But who knows. I'm still young. Still have lots to see and experience, lol.

I don't HAVE to get married. I would just love to one day. If I don't... then I don't. Haha.

[emma007]

I could if it is the will of God. However, I believe that God has placed a desire in my heart to get married and to have a family.

[babiloveyoo]

My parents want me to get married but I don't plan on getting married.

[mmm0403]

When I was younger, before graduating from college, I never thought of settling down with a man and have kids, but now, I feel something is missing. I saw my two cousins married and gave birth to two adorable kids, which has made me want to have too, but when I think about being pregnant and going through labor, I just freak out everytime. It's getting more boring as I got older; the things I used to love to do are not special to me anymore--I don't feel the same way about them anymore. I still don't know if I want to or not. Marriage is such a pain to deal with. It comes with tons of responsibilties, which I don't think I'm ready to handle. If I could, I would like to experience it once in a dream to see how it is like. Haha...

Anyway, my parents don't care much. In the old days, they might care if I don't get married, but so far I haven't heard much complaints from them or anyone else that I know of. Although, they have not pushed me into marriage, they do want and expect me to get married, just because I'm a woman.

[yaewoneee]

Actually, I never imagined NOT getting married..haha. I don't think marriage is a contract which is controversial with many people, but marriage should be everyone's own decision. Also, for me, my family play a big part in my life, so marriage and a family seem the route for me haha, and also, in my own thoughts, I love the idea of my own children <3 (plus, I don't plan on having sex till marriage ;P so I better be getting married..puahahaha...just kidding. But seriously, marriage is your own choice Do as you will as long as you're happy.

[Lionheart]

If you're Asian and enjoying regular contact with your family-- yes.

[maharu.]

You don't have to at all. It's your personal choice and comfort.
I feel that some people are just better off not being in relationships and having a family of their own.
So if those types get married, it'll be problematic and may end up in divorce.

I would like to get married but if I enjoy my work and my time alone, I think I'll be content without the marriage.

[bonjour tristesse.]

I don't believe in marriage. I don't think that tying the knot with them is something that one should do to prove to them they love their s/o. I'm content enough to know that he loves me.

[visuelz]

It's funny how many you say you don't intend to get married, but all the girls that I've ever met wants to....

[LUVSSOURCREAM]

im single and im fine being alone. i am currently single and not dating. with that said, it doesnt mean i love being alone hahaha........i would love to someday settle down with and have my own family. thats my big dream.