[xoxdumkrngirlxox]

Would you date your ex's best friend and is it wrong to do so?

[kimmi.kami]

I wouldn't mind,
then again I could be just dating him to see my ex.
who knows .

[ny-sw / ny_sw.]

no, it's too awkward and i guess some people could do it if both parties are completely over it/don't give a crap, but...that's a rare case.

[bonjour tristesse.]

Even if she was my ex-bestfriend, I would still consider her feelings. I would find out first if she still has feelings for him and if she doesn't mind.

[rachilde]

Probably not unless we'd spoken explicitly about it (the three of us). I really don't recommend trying to do so because boys have their 'own code' that frequently defies the bounds of logic and reasoning and one of the primary tenants is that they don't date the same girls as each other--especially if they are best friends. You could call it some kind of custom or culture. It can be very quaint when you're all sitting around singing drinking songs, but very tedious when you're left wondering what the hell to do.

[brownman90561495]

I wouldn't mind,
then again I could be just dating him to see my ex.
who knows .

the hidden agendas lol

[SarangHeyo <3]

Ahh that's kinda.... weird.
Like for your ex, and if your ex's best friends dates you, isnt he unloyal to his best friend?
i may be wrong, but its just my opinion.
Like honestly, doesn't really matter.

[tsai_jolen]

No! Never! There are just some (even the unspoken rules) that you don't break. That's one of them. It just reeks of drama.

[Regina Rae]

Sure. If I liked the guy.
But, why it would be wrong to do so? -___-;

[x3.jelLee]

It's some unspoken rule where you're basically betraying your best friend. I would find it okay but only if they have no feelings for each other. If they do it's best to back away unless you want drama. Lots and lots of drama!

[mz_imperfect]

It all depends on the situation IMO.

If my ex and I broke up on good terms and was okay with me dating his best friend, then sure why not.

However, that's usually not the case... so I would probably talk to the best friend and tell him that it probably won't work out and we have to consider his best friend/my ex's feelings. Besides, the guy should know better with their code -- bros before... 'shovels' haha. I've seen too many of my friends have conflicts with their brothers from another mother over a girl. Sigh...

[sixth.]

yeah i did once.. we all discussed it and my ex was more than happy that we were dating.

[lido0LmisSundersto0D]

no.
well I'm sort of mixed on this, I know, I personally wouldn't do it.
but if others do it, its fine with me.
so its just my standards.

[Shuga]

If I really loved the guy, I would try for it.

The bro code can be pretty strong though...

[squishie]

me and my friends were just discussing that the other day

definite no.
out of bounds...

[Jbii]

if u think u have lots of common things with ur best friend...which you should
then you have a chance of really doing well with her ex...and same and better chances you'll break up too
get the drift?
but even so...it gives u a wrong IMAGE to do that

[SwtStarlight-]

I would.
You date who you like.
The ex ain't got no part in it.
Aside from the fact he might be talking smack but I would care less.

[J00NGiEx]

I dated my ex's best friend 3 days after we broke up, which was probably one of my biggest regrets. It caused them to.. uh. Break up? I can't think of a word for it right now but yeah. Not good. I felt guilty and broke up with the best friend after 6 days. I still don't think they're talking to each other. But both relationships were relatively short anyways. Not the best decision on my part.

[evolution_]

I don't think I would date his best friend. It just sounds weird.

[JAMIEE]

i'd never do that.
what if it's the other way around? say your best friend started dating your ex??
i wouldn't accept either way. other people might have diff. opinions about it.