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#1 User is offline   J.LOVE.K 

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Posted 17 September 2009 - 07:03 PM

so there is a cute boy in my school..

but this boy keeps avoiding me!

like he never makes eye contact with me or talks to me or sits by me!!
he talks to EVERYONE else... and he just always seems to avoid me

i feel so insecure & uncomfortable around him b/c he avoids me sad.gif

does he hate me? bahh help me understand!
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#2 User is offline   Mannosuke 

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Posted 17 September 2009 - 07:05 PM

He thinks you're cute and is afraid to approach you.
What a coward, can't reach for good things and can only settle with less.
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#3 User is offline   Miitsukii 

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Posted 17 September 2009 - 07:05 PM

Maybe he is shy? Haha sounds like he might have a crush on you or something ^_~
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#4 User is offline   Javus 

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Posted 17 September 2009 - 07:14 PM

If he's friendly with everyone else, and avoids only you, then he thinks your cute, likes you, but is shy.
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Posted 17 September 2009 - 08:16 PM

try to sit beside him, then observe him. i think he has the eyes for you, but too shy to show to you.
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Posted 17 September 2009 - 08:18 PM

he probably just hates you ph34r.gif
its a "conspiracy"
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Posted 17 September 2009 - 08:26 PM

awww. that's kinda cute. LOL. yeah like everyone else said he's just really shy and he obviously has some sort of attraction towards you cause he had the butterflies so he can't talk to you. LOL. Try asking him for help on something. Start with basic conversation starters. =)
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Posted 17 September 2009 - 09:37 PM

Well, you didn't mention your personality.. XD

Maybe you have an intensely serious aura about you and so he just doesn't want to approach you?

Or maybe you're just analyzing it too much and in reality, you're the one who likes him so you're blinded by the fact that since you like him, anything he does seems like a gesture towards you.

*cough* Or.. he likes you. >__>
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Posted 17 September 2009 - 11:19 PM

QUOTE (flycrazily @ Sep 17 2009, 09:18 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
he probably just hates you ph34r.gif

i was gona say the same thing, just not down that straight forwards biggrin.gif

maybe cause he just doesn't want to talk to you?
people connect to who they want, those they don't want, they choose to avoid.
not hate, but just because he doesn't want to.

maybe you're giving off a scary aura
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#10 User is offline   한스 ㅋㅋ 

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Posted 17 September 2009 - 11:20 PM

How are we suppose to know if he hates you or not?
I mean, that's just impossible to me.
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Posted 18 September 2009 - 01:26 AM

Maybe he finds you unapproachable. We can't determine if he hates or likes you, but something about you is stopping him from being friendly with you.

Instead of waiting for him to talk to you... why not just go over and say hi.

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#12 User is offline   Katee-Nguyen 

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Posted 18 September 2009 - 01:53 AM

heh, this once happened with me too, 2-3 years ago or sumthing..
I felt like he was avoiding me (like, not even looking at me) - and i haven't even done anything dry.gif
Despite that fact I still thought he was real cute xD

so i kept on approaching him! cool.gif and talk to him like nothing was wrong tongue.gif
(guess what, I even asked him to hang out with me a couple of times but he kept on turning me down, haha real deppressing ain't it?)

- Hehe, but now we're close friends.
he just said that i was thinking to much, when i asked him why he avoided me..
plus he added the fact that he where speechless in front of me "-.- haha shy guy, but awfully cute wink.gif

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Posted 18 September 2009 - 03:23 AM

I avoid people I don't like. I like my own space.

So maybe he doesn't like you. sad.gif
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#14 User is offline   woei 

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Posted 18 September 2009 - 08:01 AM

maybe he is shy...
or maybe u r too attractive until he din dare to look into ur eyes or
maybe he din like u..haha
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Posted 19 September 2009 - 07:58 AM

Does he seem like the quiet/shy type? Those types of guys have a hard time talking to girls they're interested in.
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Posted 19 September 2009 - 12:20 PM

Have you spoken to him before or have you never had a conversation? If you have had a conversation, there could be that horrible chance that he doesn't really want to associate with you. If you haven't spoken to him before, then he may just be really shy and possibly like you. You should go up to him and talk to him, if he seems really distant, you could as him why he's been avoiding you.
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Posted 19 September 2009 - 02:09 PM

Avoiding you is his way of saying I love you =)


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Posted 19 September 2009 - 03:00 PM

If he NEVER looks at you, it means he doesn't like you, hate you, nor even find you interesting. It probably means you are plain (in his eyes)

Why do I say this? think about it.
if you like someone, (and you are shy) you would still look at the person you like but when your eyes meet you will look away quickly. If he doesn't even look at you in the first place, that means he is uninterested.
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Posted 19 September 2009 - 05:11 PM

Have you been staring at him and the such? If that's the case and he has caught you doing it, you probably scared him off =P But since he talks to everyone, join in the conversation one day and talk to him first! If he still ignores you, I don't know what to say.
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Posted 19 September 2009 - 05:47 PM

QUOTE (Pocket_x @ Sep 19 2009, 06:00 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
If he NEVER looks at you, it means he doesn't like you, hate you, nor even find you interesting. It probably means you are plain (in his eyes)

Why do I say this? think about it.
if you like someone, (and you are shy) you would still look at the person you like but when your eyes meet you will look away quickly. If he doesn't even look at you in the first place, that means he is uninterested.


Agreed^ ! A lot of people just say that he likes you etc. Thats only gunna get her hope up since she said cute guy...
anyways, There's this guy that is exactly the same. Were not friend or anything. But we knew eachother since we was in grade 6. And grade 6 was my first year in Canada so I did many stupid things, language barrier etc. So I'm guessing I gave him a bad impression. Not that I care, since I know many people who doesn't like me...I have science class with him this semester. And as i was entering the class, he was like ..uggg sh!t.
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