[Namderful]

Have you ever helped your crush to get to know their crush?
have you ever supported their relationship with someone else when you still like them?
My cousin did this to a guy , becdause she set him up with her friend. Now she's happy, but I was wondering, how can you be happy? . . .

[Shuga]

I don't know. I have a crush on this guy and I actually feel happy when he's talking about other girls LOL.

I think initially, it could be the concept of eternal insecurity... that you're not 'good enough'. But then I came to realise that I've been seeing if I can fit into his mould and vice versa. After doing all the 'measurements', I see other girls better for him. Better SUITED, not better than me (we're all equal human beings). So in that case, I feel okay and not really that jealous helping him get together with another girl. It makes me happy when he's happy. I guess that's my extent of feelings for him.

I don't know. LOL. But yeah, I found it weird too. But weird is the norm, isn't it? X)

[chaumein]

Yes, although with evil EVIL motives. Thinking back now it was pretty mean of me. I was a mutual friend to my crush and my friend A. Crush liked friend A. I knew friend A didn't like crush. I still urged him on anyways. He ended up confessing in kind of an embarrassing way and was ignored by friend A for a week. I wasn't looking to pick up any broken pieces of heart or cheer on his happiness or whatever, I was just looking for some entertainment.

Anyway I think of it as character-building for him. He has a long-term girlfriend now (not friend A or me but someone who actually truly truly liked him), and we're all still friends so all's well that ends well. Except that none of them know this. This is a secret for the internets. lol

[youandmee]

i guess you're happy cause the people you care about are happy ,
& you feel that you've done something great & helpful .

[_unnie_24_]

I felt happy when i got my two friends together while i liked the guy.
But i knew they'd be soo cute together.
I tried my best to get them together.. and i was happier when they got together coz they liked each other.
I got over him in like.. a week LOL
But they broke up after going out for a year or so anyway ...

[Miyurin]

Maybe it's to officially label him as taken.

I do that too...for some bloody reason haha.

[nobody knows]

stupidly, yes
I tried giving pointers to him about his crush (also helped him realize it...), gave suggestions, listened to him ramble about how much he liked her, how she flirted with him, how he had the best whatever of his life and if he could relive anything it'd be the time it was with her

I lost count how many times I got that heart-dropping-into-stomach feeling
after a while, every time we talked always somehow turned to her so I stopped initiating conversation and he just generally doesn't initiate crap and we haven't talked in a long time D:

I wanna know if they did get together though arghh >_<

[,astrolicious]

Mmm Yeah. I did... it was hard.
We tend to do that though, don't we?
But I guess we were one in a million because
he and I got closer and then we went out.
: )

[squishie]

yeah.

it hurts.

and it keeps happening
ahaha im always the person they come to for help about their love life.
whyyyy

[bonjour tristesse.]

Sadly. When we like someone, we'd rather think of their happiness than our own.

[kawaiiai]

Sadly. When we like someone, we'd rather think of their happiness than our own.

^agree..i find i do this most times..because i want to see them happy..their happiness means more to me..than my own..& so i dont mind sacrificing..my happiness for theirs..i feel better knowing their happy in love..even if its possibly not with me...

[chipmunkey]

well yeah, happened once .

for his sake, i asked him to go for it . i encouraged him and helped him along the way altho deep inside, i was bleeding and i disliked the girl for a while . but after sometime, i realized that i didnt really dislike the girl- it was just jealously of the moment .

wanna know the best part? my crush later told me that he liked me earlier on, way before i liked him . but when i liked him, he has already moved on . LOL . i never knew so yeah, too bad for me i guess . :/

[alucard454]

That happened to me EXACTLY.
I was happy for him because if he's happy, I'm happy.
Sounds cheesy, but it's true.
Also the girl he is currently dating is super sweet and nice, so I'm fine with it.

[Regina Rae]

Why the hell would I do that? ~__~.

[Chi Shen]

Never.

Unless my s/o counts atm, when he was FLIRTING with some chick right after he dumped me.

[jodycolour]

I never did... maybe because I'm scared that they would just leave me behind...
): But I guess, if they are happy, I would be happy too. Deep down, I probably would regret everything.

[Alewares]

Never.

Unless my s/o counts atm, when he was FLIRTING with some chick right after he dumped me.

I'm sure he still loved you from the bottom of his heart, he was just hurt from the argument so he tried to make you jealous.

I've never done that, it would hurt too much. I have hinted at making her love different people though, because I thought I wasn't worthy of her :x

[Chi Shen]

I'm sure he still loved you from the bottom of his heart, he was just hurt from the argument so he tried to make you jealous.

I've never done that, it would hurt too much. I have hinted at making her love different people though, because I thought I wasn't worthy of her :x

Which made your s/o VERY mad.
Like you didn`t want her.

You know the song Nobody - Wonder Girls?

"Why are you trying to, to make me leave ya?
I know what you`re thinking,
Baby, why aren`t cha listenin`?
How can I just, just love someone else and..
Forget you completely? When I know you still love me~

Tellin` me you`re not good enooough~
My life with you is just too tooough~
You know it`s not right so,
Just stop and come back, boy.
How can this be, when we were meant to be?~
"

[XangelXtranX]

Sorta not really. I get jealous but I do it anyway. Especially if he likes that person, since why would you want to have him when both of you can't be happy. Also for me, right now I can't date anyone cuz time and other personal problems dont allow me to so yea.

[Heshie]

Nope... I helped a girl who liked my crush to get together with my crush. And it worked. And they thanked me .... D;
But it's okay, as long as they're happy.