[stellar_star]

I've been going out with this guy for about a month and recently i think i've been too 'touchy-feely' with him. Although i still havent kissed him or anything, we hold hands alot, cuddle, hug and rest on eachother and roll around laughing. Ive never been in a relationship before so i'm wondering if i'm moving too fast. He loves kissing me on the forehead or cheek but other than that i've been a 'no-kissing on the mouth' so far.

xD Should i be concerned that I'm going too fast and that he'll take me as an 'easy' person? What do you define as moving too fast or being too touchy-feely within a short time span??

[taebins_luver]

i don't think you're moving too fast, just try not to do it too often.
i personally don't like it when my bf and i touch too often.
i'd like to just hold hands here and there, hug if we're not gona see each other for a while.
only when it's needed.

but i think if you're doing it every day/every second, you might be giving him the wrong idea.

[forgottenmemories]

Nah, I think that's normal. I mean if you start sleeping with the guy like the 2nd week you start dating, then yes, that's moving way too fast. But what you're doing, I think, is normal.

[cheesedoodless]

u guys are dating for a month and still didnt kiss?
dudeeee thats not fast. your going slow lol
and those touchy stuff are not really touchy stuff anyways its what normal ppl do too
touchy is like feeling u up or something
but yeah imo you guys are taking it slow

[mintcracker]

dude ^ haha yeah I agree o_O
moving too fast is touching the other person all over on the first day or first 3 days
or having sex after a week...Depends on old you are, but DARN your guy is effn patient lol.

[cheerydumdum]

i don't think you're moving fast at all! well, i mean, if you feel like you're moving fast, then you should save something about it and suggest moving a little slower. but i personally think things are moving at a decent, normal speed. he doesn't sound that touchy feely to me. maybe you're just not completely comfortable with it yet. hmm. i would probably define moving too fast as sleeping with each other after a week or something or just touching each other in inappropriate areas after a really short period of time.

[peppermintsugar]

Depends on you, your significant other, and how you guys feel about your relationship. There aren't any definite rules, so you just do whatever feels right for your own relationship.
Personally, I'm a very physical, sexual person. My boyfriend and I were very physical a few days before we even started dating, but hey, it works for us. Do what works for you.

[bonjour tristesse.]

Lol, it's normal. Teen age hormones these days, it's crazzzyyyy

[JunsuLove]

You guys aren't moving too fast at all, lol. Shoot, after our first date, my boyfriend was already trying to make out with me, T_T. It made me really uncomfortable but I eventually opened up after a month, lol. Holding hands, cuddling, and all that stuff is normal for a relationship, it's not going too fast. Without the holding hands and stuff, I think the relationship would be kind of blah, you know? It's an innocent way of showing affection for each other [rather than having sex, etc] But if you're not ready to go on with kissing on the lips, if your S/O understands and is patient, don't worry about it Best of luck with you and your S/O/

[BoAFriend]

Light kisses and hugs are absolutely fine. Not like you two are having sex after 3 days of knowing each other or something (yes, I know a girl who "works" like that. Insert the condescending sl-word).

[peacee]

i think what ur doing is normal. after all, you've only been going out for about a month so you guys are still in that puppy love stage.

[stellar_star]

Thanks for everyone's replies~ The only reason why i thought i was being too touchy feely is because i don't get to see him on a daily basis, and we go out once a week (actual date) so wen i get tht day to see him he loves hugging/cuddling me.
I've told him that i've never kissed anyone before and he replied that i should have a really good first one then. Another reason i was wondering about my actions is because cuddling to me seems really intimate, since you're right up close to the person, but i feel a bit more assure that i'm not going too fast

[PRRRETTYGLiTTERRR]

thats pretty fast, i think .. especially if youre not official~

[FusionGT2]

moving too fast is like groping or having sexual relations in a month or less after getting together with another person. holding hands and kissing isnt too bad and wouldnt be regarded as touchy feely cuz thats how normal relationships are. You hug, you hold hands, you kiss.. how else would you show physical attraction?

[lovecubedlee]

haha no big deal.....
i made out with my bf the day we met.......................
granted we were drunk
but hey!
we're together now so it's all good? =X

[Want2LoveU]

Keep doing it he loves it to death.

[J00NGiEx]

Well, everyone usually has their own ideas of how fast to move, but generally, I don't think you two are moving all that fast.. A month and no mouth to mouth action? Impressive xP
I think my last bf and I had our first kiss like the third day after we officially got together and then started making out a day after :x

[sixth.]

it depends on how you personally feel. everyone is different, and every relationship is different.
with the guy i first dated, we only ever hugged, and held hands ONCE in the entire 2 month period of dating. it was crazy how nothing else ever happened. but then with another boyfriend, i made out with him before we even decided to start dating.
as long as you're not sleeping with him, i dont think he'll find you too easy.

[StephyT]

Don't worry. You're not being too touchy at all...

[Floatii]

hmm well it really depends on how comfortable you are with these things?
you're not moving that fast, no worries. =]
i'd actually call this...normal pace. LOLLL

if you feel like you really are moving too fast you can always do something to slow it down. ahahha