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#1 User is offline   se7en 

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Posted 18 September 2009 - 07:29 PM

Been in one? Share stories with me, I feel as if I am in one and I don't foresee a future to it.
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Posted 18 September 2009 - 07:35 PM

With my relationship, it didnt even start.
but we were inseparable and he liked me the way i liked him.
he just didnt do anything and neither did i.
it went no where . i regret it .
though i sometimes so blame myself about it.
i know he isnt the boyfriend material tooo.

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#3 User is offline   kishycathiee 

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Posted 18 September 2009 - 07:42 PM

online relationship in 7th grade that lasted 2 days (or less? i really don't remember) ... i don't think i need to explain anything lol

i don't even think i should count it as one, some people say i SHOULD, and some ppl say i SHOULDN'T
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#4 User is offline   bonjour tristesse. 

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Posted 19 September 2009 - 07:43 AM

We were best friends. He liked me, I liked him but we never told each other till it was too late.

The irony.

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Posted 19 September 2009 - 08:05 AM

he was not what I was looking for. Not up to my standards and definitely boyfriend material
He didn't live at home, didn't talk to his parents, didn't go to school, was involved in shady business etc.
I only talked to him and hung out with me because he lives a life just so different to mine and I found that intriguing.
Once I faced reality that this would go no where and would just be trouble, I just slowly cut him out
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Posted 19 September 2009 - 06:03 PM

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We were best friends. He liked me, I liked him but we never told each other till it was too late.


Story of my life mellow.gif Everything is just peachy now... I no longer harbor feelings for him and he has a girlfriend that makes him happy. Anddd, we rarely talk anymore. Good thing? Maybe.

All my relationships didn't really go anywhere, to be honest. Maybe because I'm not a "committed" person so I end everything before anything happens. But my recent relationship I was willing to change... a shame that the person I had the relationship with was such an arse. huh.gif


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Posted 19 September 2009 - 06:12 PM

Yeah.
Was seeing a guy for a couple of months, I wanted a relationship, and he just sorta pretended to. We did lots of relationship-like stuff when we were together.
But I ended up leaving him for someone who ACTUALLY wanted a true relationship with me, because in the end, that's what I was looking for, and the guy I was seeing at the time was not looking for that.
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Posted 19 September 2009 - 06:19 PM

Yeah, my last relationship. I didn't want a committed relationship but he was so nice and I loved him so much that I didn't want to hut him so I went along with the committed relationship thing for 2 years. Then I realized that I was miserable in a committed relationship so I broke it off.
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Posted 21 September 2009 - 02:36 PM

AHHHHHHHHHHHH !
This reminds me of this boyfriend I had last year O.O

okay kso ,
he was a year older than me, and it was PRETTY Obvious I liked him >>;;
so on MSN , he asks me out, I was soooooooooooooooooooo happy .... until I found out he asks out every girl that sorta likes him on MSN.

so we went out for a week, and I was REALLLLYYY SHY
no like really, I was soooo shy
and then he was soo affectionate, and Im like "X.X aklwdjalsdja what should I doo??"
cause I dont wanna ruin it like I do in my other relationships, so I was giving alot of space.

then he dumped me O.O
IT WENT NOWHERE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Like He was all
Bye(L)(L)(L) I love youu
Im like
bye.

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#10 User is offline   bonjour tristesse. 

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Posted 21 September 2009 - 02:59 PM

QUOTE (illumiinate @ Sep 19 2009, 09:03 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Story of my life mellow.gif
RIGHT!? Gosh, people think that this kind of situation is so cliche but for the most times, with relationships that goes nowhere this is the case dry.gif

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Posted 21 September 2009 - 03:01 PM

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With my relationship, it didnt even start.
but we were inseparable and he liked me the way i liked him.
he just didnt do anything and neither did i.
it went no where . i regret it .
though i sometimes so blame myself about it.
i know he isnt the boyfriend material tooo.


this.. is wat is happening to me right now. but stuff did happen, just not the making it official or confessing, its horribly sad, cause i like him. and its going no where...

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#12 User is offline   courtneyy 

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Posted 21 September 2009 - 03:16 PM

...sorry.
i feel like... really slow.

what's your definition of "going nowhere"?
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#13 User is offline   bonjour tristesse. 

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Posted 21 September 2009 - 03:19 PM

QUOTE (courtneyy @ Sep 21 2009, 06:16 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
...sorry.
i feel like... really slow.

what's your definition of "going nowhere"?
Nothing happened, that sort of thing. Like, even though they knew you liked them and you knew they liked you back, none of you guys did a move and then .. the feeling's gone. That kind of situation
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Posted 21 September 2009 - 03:23 PM

hmm, i went out with this one guy for about 2 years on and off,
only the ily's and cute comments were what it was worth.
but it went nowhere,
he wasn't boyfriend material, he was too quiet, but sweet.
we didnt kiss, only hugged, and didn't talk much.

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Posted 21 September 2009 - 06:25 PM

haha we had something going on..everyone saw it..but we just didn't do anything..I was going to but bam something happened in my life..and soo after that it went no where..I didn't want to do anything with it..soo I let it be..

haha we're close friends still so *shrugs* lol


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Posted 21 September 2009 - 06:35 PM

I use to think my ex bf was the cutest!
But eventually it was just a simple like, nothing else.
That was during my soph year of high school though.
Then eventually senior year rolled by and bam we some how magically got together.
And then boom we broke up... for the best!!!
I guess the "thinking he was cute" died down after soph year.
Gah... that was so high school though... haha!
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Posted 21 September 2009 - 08:45 PM

we liked each other, but i was playing hard to get? lol
i had no idea what i was doing, i was immature/inexperienced and i dont think he knew what he was doing either. ha
thus it went nowhere... i dont regret never becoming a couple, its been awhile, but we're not even friends :/ so that's what sucks
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Posted 21 September 2009 - 11:42 PM

He was my very first boyfriend. We've actually just recently broken up on 9/11, a day I'll never forget of course.

We dated for 5 months but our relationship went nowhere. We talked but barely. We hung out but barely. He just simply doesnt make any effort to come visit me, spent time with me or anything along those lines. I had enough of it so I decided to end it. I dont regret my decision even now.
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Posted 22 September 2009 - 12:04 AM

goodness! also me! I dated one of my best guy friends this year. We didn't do anything and I guess it was .. easier to become just regular friends again since there was no real awkwardness-tension. But such a shame.
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Posted 22 September 2009 - 03:18 AM

I was in this problem not long before. I was crazy about the guy, but I don't know what he's thinking. I think he likes me too, but perhaps not as much as I liked him(or didn't express it). After a while I couldn't take that I was so deep into it when this guy isn't even my boyfriend, so I cut off all contact with him. You might say that was a bid to protect myself.

Now I want to be friends with him. Even though I know I still have feelings for him somewhere, he's still too good of a friend to miss.
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