[Serenity65]

So I recently met this guy through a friend and the two of us slept over at his dorm. My friend was sound asleep in the room and I ended up talking with the guy and finding out that we had so many similarities and get along well. It felt like we knew each other for a long time even though it was only a few hours. Somehow we ended up kissing for like two seconds and then he asked me to promise not to tell anyone. He currently has a girlfriend, but he is unsure whether he wants to break up with her or not because he says that she will have no one to lean on in college because she's shy and doesn't make friends that easily. He asked me what he should do and I told him to wait it out and stay with her until he was sure that he wanted to break up. He's not the type of guy to kiss random girls. He's only had two girlfriends before and has kissed two girls, so I'm the third girl he's kissed. I know for sure that he's not a player. I like him, but I'm unsure of how he feels about me. What should I do?

[bona fide*]

I know for sure that he's not a player.

He kissed you despite the fact that he's in a relationship with another woman - in other words, he played her. I suggest you avoid interfering with their relationship any further because if it ends, trust me, you don't want to be the reason it did. Imagine if you were the girlfriend in this situation - how would you react if you learned that all of this was happening behind your back?

[joxxy]

Don't do it again and don't pursue anything with him... If he can kiss another girl behind his girlfriend's back, he can do it to you as well.

[i_4got]

The above two are right.

And another thing. You say he doesn't kiss random girls. But honestly, you are a random girl. You`ve only known each other for a few hours and he`s willing to kiss you behind his girlfriend`s back? If he dumps his current girlfriend for you, he can do something similar behind your back as well.

[Swtess]

^Totally agree. You've been with this guys for a few hours and you think you actually know everything about him? Naive thinking

[makelovenoises]

Agree with all of the above

[LazyAzian]

Just read the title..,

Wutwerutinking.

If I found out my boyfriend did that I would smack him in the face and throws my shoe at the woman.

If a guy did that to me, I would kick him in the nuts and say you're an idiot.

[hishari]

Agreed with everyone else.
Don't be a homewrecker now.

[mintcracker]

aw you sound so naive o_O

back off. You should have pushed him away. He's in a relationship afterall, don't get in the middle of it.

[adiavoy]

Just read the title..,

Wutwerutinking.

If I found out my boyfriend did that I would smack him in the face and throws my shoe at the woman.

If a guy did that to me, I would kick him in the nuts and say you're an idiot.

Yeah.. just avoid him while he's still in a relationship, he'll decide if he wants to stay with her. Him kissing you is er.. well ya can't trust him, especially if you've only known him for a few hours.

[Hazy]

Don't do it again and don't pursue anything with him... If he can kiss another girl behind his girlfriend's back, he can do it to you as well.

Agreed.
What he did was just wrong.. even if he was 'going to' break up with his current girlfriend, it doesn't mean he can go and kiss someone else while they are STILL in the relationship.
You should just leave it at that and NOT contact him whatsoever.

[Want2LoveU]

Tell his girlfriend that you kissed him, and than tell her that you like him and she better break up with him. Hey, if your going to be a b itch might as well go all the way =)

[ultimoroboto]

Tell his girlfriend that you kissed him, and than tell her that you like him and she better break up with him. Hey, if your going to be a b itch might as well go all the way =)

and tell her she smells like hamburgers

[Rhawr]

I agree with everyone above.

Don't get into further involvement with the guy.
He definitely seems unfaithful :/

[the last hour.]

You're funny. Not a player, but kissed three girls who weren't his gf including you? Funny stuff. I feel bad for her. Shy, can't make friends, and now has a cheating boyfriend. And now, you're asking for advice as to what you should do? As if the answer isn't as plain as day. Go ahead and pursue him. You'll be a homewreaker, but what do you care right? Since you guys have known each other 'for years.' It's destiny!

[Stolen_waters]

I'm sorry, but I hate girls like you, and agree with the posters above.

[maharu.]

Man if that were my boyfriend, I'll end it with him immediately.
Not only is he a player by kissing another girl, he says that he is the only one she can depend on,
as if she'll not be able to go on without him...which sounds ridiculous.
It's as if he's saying he has all the power and his gf is kind of like his 'slave' or something.

I would def. not go further and you shouldn't be at the guy's dorm room sleeping over.

[MangoStar]

I'd hate to say this, but you are an idiot.

Think about it, what if he doesn't break it off with the current girlfriend? Then what?

You just got played.

[bonjour tristesse.]

Tch. This makes you 'the other girl' and you still insist that he's not a player?

[yeah]

if they break up because of you, then they weren't meant to be together anyway.
it's not like they're married or anything