[Everlasting Melody;]

I've known this guy since middle school, and I've known for a fact that he had a huge crush on me. We don't really talk or anything, but we've had really awkward moments together =_=;; Examples: He gets too close to me and I end up hitting my face into his chest (he's a tall Asian guy) when I turn around. There's too many people that I end up being squashed against him on the wall. Some random girl that confessed her feelings to him by kissing him right in front of me, and he was still looking at me and many other weird events >__< When he had a gf, you can still tell that he liked me b/c he always checks over me and stares at me right away when I'm having a good conversation with another guy. Now that we're in high school (2nd year), he's still awkward to me. My friend pointed out that every time we pass by he walks all stiff putting his chest out and head up high trying to not show eye contact. -____-;; I do have to admit that I did have a crush on him once, but now, it's just ridiculous. I joined Key Club this year (aka Asian Club lol) and he's also in there too D: I'm just wondering how I can deal with the awkwardness T____T;; The club isn't that big and he's friends with most of the people there. I really want to stay in the club, but I just hate how I would feel awkward with him watching me. I would just get tensed up and it's hard to ignore him >.< What should I do?

[Want2LoveU]

Whenever he is near yell out sexual harassment, and keep doing it. He will eventually leave you alone =)

[bonjour tristesse.]

Well .. why don't you give him a chance to be friends with you? What's so bad about the guy that you despite the thought of having him to look at you?

[emysiu]

Eeek. I can relate because I had a similar situation. I would say that the only way to respond is for you to stop feeling awkward. It might be (I'm not saying that it is) that your reaction is somehow encouraging him to act the way he does because he thinks it is affecting you. Show him that his behavior won't get that kind of awkward feeling from you. If he addresses you, be short but polite. The key is for you to show that you could care less whether he's there or not. I know that it's gonna be hard, but that's what helped me!

And if things escalate, I really would report him for harassment.

[naoto]

aww creeperism. the girl kiss him and he kept staring at you? man I wish I had these problems..

anyway. You confront him. say it, tell him you don't know what he's thinking and his behaviour makes you feel kind of awkward (do not say creepy or scared if you want to salvage a friendship). Ask him how he feels and to be truthful. If you want to give him a chance then do it, if not kindly explain to him you aren't interested.

[XangelXtranX]

Lucky You met wonder girls.

[adiavoy]

^ So random...

But HONESTLY, become friends with the guy! It'll totally make thing less awkward. Start a casual conversation with him, it can't hurt. If you still feel the awkwardness, uh, just ignore it.. think of other things, awkwardness shouldn't cause you to drop out of a club. Your awkward boy crushes on girl situation just sounds 'cute' to me.

[Everlasting Melody;]

XangelXtranX: Lol I'm guessing you clicked on my facebook link

Well, I guess I can try being friends with him since I tried so hard to ignore him for how long? fail.
The only thing is that I don't know how to start a casual conversation with him despite all those weird moments = ="
Don't mind me. I'm a shy person T___T;;

[Chi Shen]

Simply ignore him, if you really don`t want him in your life anymore.
YOU CAN DO IT.

If you really wanna be friends, just talk to him like you are friends.
Then he`ll be like "oh okay, we`re friends."
and everything will prob be less awkward and okay.

[sus]

just look at him and say hi
haha then he would turn away

[Javus]

Whenever you catch him staring at you, just stare right back and have like a staring contest lol.

[peacee]

break the silence & just keep ur cool. it wouldnt harm u to talk to him. after all, you guys are probably gonna be in that club for a year at least, dont make it any more awkward than it already is

[MiNIwo0b]

Ask him about it. Just be straight up.

[YoungNegro]

you should tell him to wear briefs so that it's harder to get stiff cause none of the blood goes there lol.

[x-rays-r-b-yu-t-ful]

He likes you. He can't help that.
He's awkward. He can't help that.

As said, confront him:
a) Tell him he has no chance with you, no matter what he does, and just give up.
or be his friend, keep a 'safe distance', and guide him into socially acceptable normalcy by steering him away from the error of his ways.

One last thing. With all that passion he seems to have for you, I'd be careful not to turn it into hate.

[Ayuu~]

the only way to make an awkward thing unawkward is simply to ignore it.
think "who cares"..or "whatever" and shrug it off....
it workz in time.. really..

[B L o T T - ii]

perhaps you should try talking to him? or show through your that you definitely don't like him and that you're getting annoyed

[brownman90561495]

wow, the OP is part filipina. you cannot deny a pinay lol hahaha kidding.

just go on with your school life. treat him as a clubmate. it's not that he's asking you to strip or something.