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Do you tell your mom about your love life?

#101 User is offline   PH4T 

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Posted 20 October 2009 - 10:53 AM

i tell my mom about my love life -to an extent.
sometimes i'll share whatever jokes i heard from my boyfriend.
or some interesting fact he may have said.
and every month, i would go bouncing to her, saying "it's my 7 months today~"
and she would always tell me "only noobs count months. your dad and i count years"

^^ i love my mom, ahaha.
but it's not like she ever ask about it. i just tell her some stuff and we have a good time laughing about it.
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#102 User is offline   CloudyDays 

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Posted 20 October 2009 - 01:27 PM

i only tell her if she asks. sometimes she'll ask if i'm seeing someone and if its serious enough... i tell her. when im fighting with my s/o.. she asks me whats wrong and i tell her... she constantly reminds me to use protection hahaha. so yeah we're pretty open with each other.
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#103 User is offline   dothat36 

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Posted 20 October 2009 - 01:28 PM

that would be a big no.

well, i once saw one of my exes at a bus stop :

me: ..wow...i used to date this guy" *regrets saying anything*
mom: do u want us to stop the car and pick him up?
me: errrr....i think he'll be fine
mom: u don't talk to your exes? i talk to all my exes
me: okay, mom....i haven't seen him in years, so...just keep driving.. -.-
mom: *laughs*

we don't really talk about that...boyfriends are kept away from parents...just
how i like it.

..let's meet in our dreams at 2AM

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#104 User is offline   furiae 

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Posted 20 October 2009 - 08:46 PM

she doesn't need to know
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#105 User is offline   cheerydumdum 

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Posted 20 October 2009 - 08:49 PM

noooope. that'd be awkward. my mom has this problem where if something's wrong with my attitude/behavior, she'll blame it on whoever seems closest to me and communicates with me the most at the time. so if i get a bad grade or something, she'd probably blame it on my bf if i had one and she knew about it. and she's a typical asian parent who thinks i should focus on my studies. tongue.gif i think my mom knows when i have a boyfriend because i make it really obvious when i talk on the phone with them. she mentions it and i just deny it. she told me to break up with my last bf. sad.gif
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#106 User is offline   jho 

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Posted 20 October 2009 - 10:49 PM

Yeah I do... I annoy her like there's no tomorrow hahaha.
And she asks me about them too =)
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#107 User is offline   MrsKoizumi 

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Posted 20 October 2009 - 11:55 PM

When I had a big crush on one of my friends in high school, I told her about every single encounter I think. And now that I have an actual boyfriend, my love life has been pretty hush hush! Hahaha, she still gives me the same responses though:

"You know, don't believe in every man."

"You don't know if they're going to run away."

"Focus on your school."

That whole package :)
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#108 User is offline   insanelyCRAZY 

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Posted 21 October 2009 - 12:05 AM

im lucky. my mom is really chill.
she trusts my judgement on who my friends are.
and who i date.
i dont tell her our problems, although somehow she nails them. -.-
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#109 User is offline   NauticalJanine 

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Posted 21 October 2009 - 07:11 PM

NOPE hahaha! my mom is more strict about boyfriends than my dad is. I do tell my dad about certain crushes i have in school because he's really relaxed about it. My mom usually warns me about date-rapes, and pregnancies. hahaha! i like her protectiveness though~ There's sort of a rule in my house that we can only date when we're in college, and I'm sort of okay with that since i don't have any love interest at the time, and i don't think i will because the guys aren't physically or mentally appealing. xD
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#110 User is offline   Regina Rae 

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Posted 21 October 2009 - 10:36 PM


I don't voluntarily tell her things about my love life. If she asks, I tell her.
But for the most part I try to keep my life private.

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#111 User is offline   queenxmabel 

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Posted 06 November 2009 - 02:18 PM

My mom would kill me.. :/ she said no dating until after college. :x Can't wait to tell her about my bf tho. LOL!
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#112 User is offline   linhdahae_x 

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Posted 06 November 2009 - 03:45 PM

ohmyohmy. because my mother is not afraid to show how loud and open she can be, like yelling my asian name throughout walmart, she thinks it's cute that i like boys when i was young, and although last year my mother & i werent as close because i was going through that silly rebellious teen phase, this year we grew closer.
Whenever i'm up late at night crying, she would talk to me that theres always other guys and don't think to much about love, your still young. Loose one, gain another y'know? Although she's fobby and i speak fluent english, I'm glad she tries to speak english to me. smile.gif Besides, i have nothing to hide. I want to have a mother and daughter connection. my family has met my boyfriend as of now and adore him.
i recall this one time when i was waiting at my bus stop freshmen year and she goes out and wait with me.. sleep.gif "mother why?" hahaha anyways, she sees my friend which is older then me and goes, "hey you boy, you know my daughta? wow you vewy cute boy.." she kinda interrogated him but he thought it was funny haha. what can i say, she resembles me. I probably would do the same with my daughter. ahaha
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#113 User is offline   fredinsac 

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Posted 06 November 2009 - 03:50 PM

Back in the day when Buffy the Vampire Slayer was the best tv show in the history of television, I would always tell my mom that Sarah Michelle Gellar was the flyest chick in the universe. 3 weeks later Mario Lopez was on some talk show and she said that he was cute.

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Yeah, I threw up in my mouth a little bit.
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Posted 06 November 2009 - 09:28 PM

i tell about all the guys that i've liked and i'm interested in..
the guy has to show his face to my parents no matter what.. hahaha
buuut of course, i don't really tell her the "couple stuff"..
she doesn't know i've kissed when i was younger, BUUT my dad knows. lol cause he accidentally saw pics.
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#115 User is offline   Danieruchann 

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Posted 06 November 2009 - 09:58 PM

haha I'd never tell her anything.
She's really nosy.
I don't have a close relationship with her, I'd tell my stepmom before I'd telll her.

I mean, yea, she asks about some stuff like how is he doing? And she's met him and adores him aha, but I just dont like telling her about problems, or anything love related. Its just akward. i dont really show that side to my parents.
I only tell her the minimum so she feels somewhat included, cause she's very jealous of my stepmom lmao.
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#116 User is offline   bhaby gurl 

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Posted 06 November 2009 - 11:15 PM

haha... NO WAY!!! she and my father would definitly tease me about it

seriously they would tease me for 1 week and i dont usually open up with them about my problems or love life

and yeah i dont like telling them about someone i like either its PRIVATE

the one who only know it is me or sometimes im blurting it out to my bestfriend
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#117 User is offline   mintywinter 

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Posted 06 November 2009 - 11:22 PM

No, it's none of her business. Unless I'm getting married.
(mean daughter is mean.)
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#118 User is offline   c0llz10 

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Posted 06 November 2009 - 11:53 PM

gosh, i would love to tell her.. but i'm scared of what she'll say about it. i wish she could just chill and start trusting me dry.gif
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#119 User is offline   happybeee 

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Posted 06 November 2009 - 11:58 PM

No..because im not sure if i have the right one yet..
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Posted 06 November 2009 - 11:58 PM

tell mom?
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nah!
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