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Do you tell your mom about your love life?

#51 User is offline   Namderful 

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Posted 27 September 2009 - 06:56 AM

I notice most asian parents don't really let them get a BF / GF until they're a certain age LOL.
Well, my sister doesn't but my mom probably knows because she always hints "your friend" which means her boyfriend all the time.
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Posted 27 September 2009 - 07:14 AM

I never tell my mom abt my bf or crush...
Yeah...my mom always says i'm still a kid, not know abt love,
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but my mum always knows when i had a bf...she just said take care of urself...i wonder how my mom knew abt it...
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Posted 27 September 2009 - 11:17 AM

hahah for some reason yes, because i trust her and we have a good relationship smile.gif
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Posted 27 September 2009 - 12:04 PM

me and my step mum have a good relationship, i talk to her about my bf~
i ask her stuff about the pill and we talk about future plans...
or if i have any worries as my bf is an international student...i will go to her.
shes met him also and likes him smile.gif keeps inviting him over for dinner.
she says its very important for partners to be involved with the family.
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Posted 27 September 2009 - 12:44 PM

Lol, I thought my mom would strangle me if I told her at first.
I remember at the beginning of freshman year, I've asked her if she was okay with me dating.
She laughed at first, thinking I was joking around, so I decided to bring it up another time...

In that while, I introduced her to my guy friends,
so she would be more comfortable with me hanging out with boys.

I also made her watch many movies with me,
where I pointed out kids in middle school and high
school would have boyfriends/girlfriends.

Then one day, I just told her straight that I have a boyfriend.
(which I'm sure she kinda suspected already,
since she have noticed that I stay up talking on the phone late at night.)

Luckily for me, she just smiled and teased me about it,
which is like basically giving her approval.
*Phew* I passed. happy.gif

But honestly, even if she didn't approve,
I would rebel until she does. laugh.gif
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Posted 27 September 2009 - 06:08 PM

My mom would LOOOOVE it if I got a boyfriend...she's not the "typical" Asian parent (lol I don't even know what a typical Asian parent acts like) She told me she wishes I would bring home a very cute boyfriend. Yup. =__=; That makes me NOT want to tell her about my love life, if I had one DX She'd probably try to get all the details and stuff...
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Posted 27 September 2009 - 06:24 PM

I have a friend that has the closest relationship with her mom. I am envious of that because it's the opposite with my mother and I. As much as my mom prompts me to tell her things, I can't because 1) the awkwardness and 2) she would kill me for dating a guy or even liking one. She scared off all my guy friends too o_O. Like she'll tell me to meet only girls, and never have guy friends. She won't let me out as long as a guy is present. Sigh...
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Posted 27 September 2009 - 07:11 PM

Lol I tell my mom about my love life. My parents are very open about relationships - even their own... That sounds a bit off but I think it's really healthy in a parent-child relationship to talk about this stuff.
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Posted 28 September 2009 - 05:10 PM

Just small mentionings of annoyings guys in the past and being asked out. But never the current situation LOL
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Posted 30 September 2009 - 05:21 PM

Eeek, if I mention the word "boy" like, ever, she'll drag me to the closest room, shut the door and lecture me. "No boys, school first."
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Posted 30 September 2009 - 07:11 PM

I only tell my Mom tiny tiny parts.
I want her to know when there's someone there, but I don't want her to know everything.
She's a nutso. Lols
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Posted 30 September 2009 - 10:04 PM

sometimes i just wanna tell my mom..but i know she won't understand, she doesn't eveen know i have a boyfriend. if i tell her, she'll give me a long lecture on love and guys. sighh whenever i see her i JUST REALLY WANT TO TELL HER, for her to know, to give me advice but i just keep to myself and walk away... ];

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Posted 30 September 2009 - 10:22 PM

i don't exactly have a love life right now but if i did i think my mom would know about it using her creepy intuition. she teases me about my guy friend though, like many of my friends do -__-

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Posted 01 October 2009 - 01:09 AM

I don't have a love life.

So there's nothing to tell.


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Posted 01 October 2009 - 05:33 AM

No. haha. No. Or not yet.
I don't have a love life right now. haha

(But my guy cousin tells his mom about it and never tells his dad.)
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Posted 01 October 2009 - 01:52 PM

I tell my mom enough to keep her happy. Example, I say things to reinforce the idea that my boyfriend is responsible, respectful, helpful, caring, etc by telling her little things he does/says, so that she has a good impression of him. But I don't divulge details.

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Posted 01 October 2009 - 04:25 PM

My mom knows I have a boyfriend and yet I dont tell her anything about him whatsoever.
It's funny because she doesn't even want to know either LOL
.. not unless she asks ofcourse.

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Posted 01 October 2009 - 04:54 PM

My mom asks very rarely, "do you have a bf yet?" or "is there someone?" but whenever she asks, I'm coincidentally not in a relationship at that moment. I don't want to lie to her, so when she asks, I'll tell the truth. smile.gif
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Posted 03 October 2009 - 05:21 AM

not that much anymore...she doesn't accept my current boyfriend. and she doesn't even know he IS my boyfriend. she thinks he's too good to be true. which makes me a bit sad at times, because when i'm having a hard time, i can't even tell my own mother that i'm in pain.

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Posted 03 October 2009 - 07:25 AM

my mum is the typical asian parent towards me.
i would never tell her about my love life
or she'll just give me the cold shoulders.

my older sister on the other hand, tells my mum everything.
which i find kind of awkward to tell because just yeah...
she tells my mum about hugging her boyfriend when he sleepover our house.
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