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What would your parents do if they found out you were pregnant or got a girl pregnant?
This question appeals more if you're a teenager and you live with your parents. For me, they've always threatened to kick me out of the house and that they wouldn't support me but I know my parents better. Though they'll be scarred and disappointed in me, they'll probably help me. Though I know that some people's parents are much more supporting than others.
What would your parents do if they found out you were pregnant? or vise versa.
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Posted 26 September 2009 - 07:10 PM
lol if it was the "OMG YOU GOT KNOCKED UP THE WRONG WEII" I think they'd kick me out to live with my brothers or something, that or ship me off to the philippines or somewhere. if they did the asian parent style beating when i failed math in grade 10 and when they kicked out my brother because they got tired of my oldest brother screwing around, then by extrapolating from those reactions, it'll be somewhere along those lines lol
buuut, like ickyvicky<3dongbang v said, if it was when I'm married or in a stable relationship that's like marriage, I don't think they'd mind much.
buuut, like ickyvicky<3dongbang v said, if it was when I'm married or in a stable relationship that's like marriage, I don't think they'd mind much.
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Posted 26 September 2009 - 07:18 PM
they'd give me the "evil" asian parent glare. tell me i ruined my life but they'd still love me.
They'd be disappointed and i think i'd be disappointed too.
BUT if i was married, then they'd be happy.
They'd be disappointed and i think i'd be disappointed too.
BUT if i was married, then they'd be happy.
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Posted 26 September 2009 - 07:29 PM
QUOTE (IckyVicky<3dongbang @ Sep 26 2009, 10:18 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
they'd give me the "evil" asian parent glare. tell me i ruined my life but they'd still love me.
They'd be disappointed and i think i'd be disappointed too.
BUT if i was married, then they'd be happy.
They'd be disappointed and i think i'd be disappointed too.
BUT if i was married, then they'd be happy.
If I was married, yes it would be different. But my mom would probably say something along these lines: WHAT!? BUT I'M TOO YOUNG TO BE A GRANDMA! Lmaoo.
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Posted 26 September 2009 - 07:34 PM
My parents would probably scream! OMG.
If I was married and graduated from college then it's ok[:
I bet'd they would be all speechless and such.
Just tell them and 4 hours later they'd stil be in the SAME EXACT SPOT.
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If I was married and graduated from college then it's ok[:
I bet'd they would be all speechless and such.
Just tell them and 4 hours later they'd stil be in the SAME EXACT SPOT.
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Posted 26 September 2009 - 07:58 PM
They would freak out cause im a guy.
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Posted 26 September 2009 - 07:58 PM
it mostly depends on WHEN I'm pregnant and by WHO.
Any age that ends in teen, I think they'd be really disappointed and angry at first but eventually support/help me. Even I'd be disappointed in me.
If it were after university and I had a steady job/was financially stable and was married/ had a significant other. I think they'd be happy for me and congratulate me.
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Any age that ends in teen, I think they'd be really disappointed and angry at first but eventually support/help me. Even I'd be disappointed in me.
If it were after university and I had a steady job/was financially stable and was married/ had a significant other. I think they'd be happy for me and congratulate me.
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Posted 26 September 2009 - 08:02 PM
They'd be REALLY confused, considering that I have a penis.
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Posted 26 September 2009 - 08:12 PM
right now? at the age i'm at right now?
they've never talked about this kind of thing with me before so i'm not too sure, lol. i'm definitely not one for this kind of thing to happen so they don't even worry. but, if it did happen, judging by what i know, i think they might try to make me get an abortion... :[
they've never talked about this kind of thing with me before so i'm not too sure, lol. i'm definitely not one for this kind of thing to happen so they don't even worry. but, if it did happen, judging by what i know, i think they might try to make me get an abortion... :[
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Posted 26 September 2009 - 08:16 PM
If I cry while telling them, I'm sure my dad will hug and comfort me, then give me a loooooong lecture the following day. My dad gets angry at little things, but when it comes to things that have a great impact on life like school and all, he's very nice and patient.
My mom will probably bombard me with questions and say stuff like, "I told you so...blah blah blah".
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My mom will probably bombard me with questions and say stuff like, "I told you so...blah blah blah".
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Posted 26 September 2009 - 08:18 PM
They probably would disown me.
not really...
maybe..get SUPER angry, and force me to get an abortion. Then they'd be super super protective of my going out with my boyfriend afterwards....(if they even let us continue going out)
not really...
maybe..get SUPER angry, and force me to get an abortion. Then they'd be super super protective of my going out with my boyfriend afterwards....(if they even let us continue going out)
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Posted 26 September 2009 - 08:19 PM
I was 19 when this happened to me. My parents took it rather well, as my mom said "it's not like you're 16, you're an adult and accidents happen." She helped me through everything that happened from then on, and without her support, I don't know how I would have handled the situation.
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Posted 26 September 2009 - 08:25 PM
QUOTE (PristineNyte @ Sep 26 2009, 11:19 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I was 19 when this happened to me. My parents took it rather well, as my mom said "it's not like you're 16, you're an adult and accidents happen." She helped me through everything that happened from then on, and without her support, I don't know how I would have handled the situation.
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Posted 26 September 2009 - 08:35 PM
My mom would be mad bc I`m not married.
shed prob be like "never ask me for money" or "never visit" and then "take good care of your kid"
shed prob be like "never ask me for money" or "never visit" and then "take good care of your kid"
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Posted 26 September 2009 - 09:15 PM
QUOTE (mandoo* @ Sep 26 2009, 11:25 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
OHMY, WOW. I'm just curious (of course you don't have to answer since it's .. erm .. rather personal, lol), did you give birth to the child? O_O"
No, I had an abortion. It was the right decision at my age and lifestyle.
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Posted 26 September 2009 - 09:24 PM
Personally, if I got a girl pregnant, I would ask the girl to really think about abortion. I'm too young to handle a child, and it would ruin my college career if it did.
I had a friend who had a kid when he was 16. He's been taking care of her ever since.
I had a friend who had a kid when he was 16. He's been taking care of her ever since.
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Posted 26 September 2009 - 09:58 PM
My parents would always tell me if I got myself pregnant they would beat me
and kick me out...or kill me lol.
But I had a pregnancy scare not too long ago and my mom told me not to tell
my dad (haha) and that she would help me out and to get it aborted thank goodness
it was just me being late. She was really scared but understanding, though.
What i'm trying to say is that parents like to say things to scare you but when it
actually happens I think they would be scared and dissapointed but supportive
because honestly they love you so what else can they do?
Parents, cant live with them, cant live without.
and kick me out...or kill me lol.
But I had a pregnancy scare not too long ago and my mom told me not to tell
my dad (haha) and that she would help me out and to get it aborted thank goodness
it was just me being late. She was really scared but understanding, though.
What i'm trying to say is that parents like to say things to scare you but when it
actually happens I think they would be scared and dissapointed but supportive
because honestly they love you so what else can they do?
Parents, cant live with them, cant live without.
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Posted 26 September 2009 - 10:19 PM
If I'm not married then my parents would seriously killed me. Also, they would kick me out of the house and tell me how such a bad girl I am. Well, if I'm marry then my parents would be happy for me and support me with baby clothes and anything I ask for.
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Posted 26 September 2009 - 10:36 PM
I would get disown no doubt. I will get kick out. or even killed. My parents will be so disappointed and not only them but my relatives my aunt uncles in Vietnam... I don't I'll be able to live I must runaway or something.
I don't mind seeing my parents reactions hopefully they would abuse me but help me also. But my relatives is a whole different story -.-. They had so much hope in me .
I don't mind seeing my parents reactions hopefully they would abuse me but help me also. But my relatives is a whole different story -.-. They had so much hope in me .
