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Do you want a boyfriend/girlfriend ? o.o Like sometimes you feel like your missing something...

#101 User is offline   Irony. 

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Posted 14 October 2009 - 01:56 AM

QUOTE (XJShinoda @ Oct 13 2009, 06:50 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
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Well... I meant 'cuddle' in a good way. Don't get me wrong.


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Posted 14 October 2009 - 02:14 AM

Yeah I do admit....I kinda want a girlfriend but then again the other half of me says will I be able to cope with work and a girlfriend and my main life hobby and job [photography] cause yeah I know I'm not the most reliable person and I'm pretty immature..

but meh I'm just gonna let it drift into something, I'm not in desperation to go out suddenly and think I WANTS A GF lol it's just one of those things to me that It's not really a main concern at the moment, don't want to rush things haha
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Posted 14 October 2009 - 06:48 PM

*sigh* i do sometimes.
I mean at the table me and my friends sit by, theres always these lovey dobey kissy kissy couples and i makes me feel lonely.
I don't have that one that i could talk to anymore.
Plus, seeing my friend with him makes it worse....
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#104 User is offline   Kreize 

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Posted 14 October 2009 - 09:54 PM

Honestly I REALLY would want to have a girlfriend. Of everything that ever happened to me, I would give ANYTHING for a lasting relationship. Money + fame + career + achievement + everything else < girlfriend. My whole life the one time I was happiest was when I was with my ex girlfriend.

But the problem is I only had one relationship because in my whole life I only had one crush when I was much younger and only found one person I really liked to get into a relationship. That relationship is done and we both just want to stay friends.

I might not ever find someone. It's just too hard for me to fall for someone.
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Posted 14 October 2009 - 10:35 PM

I wish i had a girlfriend. I've been so depressed lately because alot of my friends who are/were single got girlfriends or in the process of chasing for one. And it depresses me because they all come to me for advice on what they should do and it just makes me sad by reminding me how i have no one, no girl to chase, no girl to call, etc. The main reason for me is because i've already graduated college and all of my friends are still in school so they get more opportunities. It also doesn't help that i'm in the phase of a fresh college grad who can't seem to get a job. I can't go to clubs to meet and interact with girls because the people i hang with are still under 21. hmm listing all that down i'm in just a really mini cooperty part of my life right now haha.

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Posted 14 October 2009 - 10:37 PM

It's not that I want a boyfriend, it's more I want someone (meaning, I already have someone in mind). *frowns* I mean, it's not like I really need a boyfriend but at times it does get to a girl when you see your friends being pursued by a bunch of guys. I've unfortunately come across guys trying to get at me but it's just not the same as having someone really love you, and not just want your sex (I AM A VIRGIN, thank you very much and I'm in no way a slut—I wear t-shirts and jeans, doll). >:[ Another thing is probably I'm very selective and picky. I'm not a girl that goes for the looks, I look beyond that. I just have to feel it. (i.e.: I thought I REALLY liked my former guy best friend, but I had a dream.. We were holding hands and the second we did, I didn't feel anything. That's how I knew I wasn't so 'in like' with him anymore..) I wouldn't say I'd give anything to have a boyfriend though, it'd just be nice to have someone call you names in a cute way, to make you giggle with every word they say, to call you up every hour to make sure you're okay. <-- I don't really think any boy is like that, but that would be my ideal boyfriend.
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Posted 14 October 2009 - 11:03 PM

not now, im in highschool now and there are no goodlooking/nice guys over here >O<
better off concentrating on my studies and going to uni (: I'll meet "him" there <3
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#108 User is offline   judii 

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Posted 15 October 2009 - 04:07 AM

hahahaha LOL I laughed at the first post reply xD

hmm I don't really feel this way...the couples in my grade are so mis-matched 0-0 LOL
well I had a friend who was lonely like you and she wanted a bf badly...well she ended up with one "seeing each other" and not telling anyone cept our close group of friends and she'd say one day she didn't like him and she'd pick her other crush over him but then another day when she feels HE doesn't like her anymore she goes she likes him =_= thankfully its over.

well another friend of mine was kinda seeing this guy but from the way it was told it could've never worked, similar to your story...and she liked him HEAPS. It ended that he stopped liking her after he kinda liked her for a bit and all that talking but nothing really happening...I suggest to not keep wishing sadly for one....when the times right the guy will come along smile.gif in the mean time you can just have nice dreams about it tongue.gif
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Posted 15 October 2009 - 05:34 AM

Not really, I like being single. No commitment tongue.gif
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Posted 16 October 2009 - 04:00 PM

uhm, YES.
i have this crazy idea that bf = happy. which i know it doesnt.
and i need to learn that just because I (and almost EVERYONE ELSE i know) think that me and someone would be perfect together, that its meant to be. sad.gif

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Posted 17 October 2009 - 09:39 AM

Yes sometimes I do. It feels good to have someone there for you, someone who cares for you and would be there with you when you are sad and blue.
But it's been a year since I last have someone to talk to till morning, to share everything together and can pretty much talk to each other every day. sigh ~
I currently like a very smart guy who's definitely not good-looking. He's so shy that I don't know how to approach him (he has a very cold and mean outer appearance too). Plus I never really approach a guy before so this is pretty hopeless. Worst thing is I think he's in love with some other girl I don't know. Geez my friends say I can aim for better but I don't know why I'm still stuck with this one.
When will a guy appear and bring love into my life again sad.gif

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Posted 24 October 2009 - 09:57 PM

QUOTE (.moony. @ Oct 17 2009, 11:39 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Yes sometimes I do. It feels good to have someone there for you, someone who cares for you and would be there with you when you are sad and blue.
But it's been a year since I last have someone to talk to till morning, to share everything together and can pretty much talk to each other every day. sigh ~
I currently like a very smart guy who's definitely not good-looking. He's so shy that I don't know how to approach him (he has a very cold and mean outer appearance too). Plus I never really approach a guy before so this is pretty hopeless. Worst thing is I think he's in love with some other girl I don't know. Geez my friends say I can aim for better but I don't know why I'm still stuck with this one.
When will a guy appear and bring love into my life again sad.gif

Yes lol its nice when you have someone like that. I had one still do but were long distance =/ haha . fail
beside he only sees me as a friend ( A bit more than that but not really)

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Posted 25 October 2009 - 12:11 PM

naah , i'm fine being single.
no drama , no commitment , all fun.
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Posted 26 October 2009 - 02:10 AM

Well, seeing as how my last relationship ended ... I better meet one hell of a guy if I'm even going to THINK about getting a boyfriend and throwing myself into that emotional roller-coaster again.

Boyfriends definitely bring the drama and I want someone that will be worth going through it all for.

For now, I'm completely satisfied with being single though.
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Posted 26 October 2009 - 02:31 AM

Uhm! I've been single all my life! I kind of want a boyfriend, but I'm kind of okay without one at the moment. It does get kind of lonely sometimes, but it's not all that bad!
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Posted 26 October 2009 - 07:54 AM

maybe you're not used being single yet? you will get used to it later, just wait. for me, i think being single is better than having a relationship with a guy. it could gives me loads of problem.
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Posted 26 October 2009 - 07:55 AM

When i get bored and lonely. When it's late and don't want to sleep.
Makes me wish i have a boyfriend. ..

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Posted 26 October 2009 - 02:22 PM

To be honest, there are times when I want one.
When I'm lonely, or when I feel that I need someone around that makes me feel wanted.
But then, I come back to reality and remember that I don't need a guy to be happy.
... It would just be nice if I had one. :]


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Posted 26 October 2009 - 04:19 PM

I do want a boyfriend, but I'm not desperately in search of one.
I kinda treat my best guy friend like I would to a boyfriend, so it's not as bad.
It's kinda nice, and makes me feel like I don't need a boyfriend when he's always there for me.
He'll sleep with me when I get scared at night and will listen to my problems, and defends for me.
But once he starts wanting to be the girl he likes, I feel lonely.

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Posted 26 October 2009 - 08:07 PM

QUOTE (lovemelody. @ Sep 27 2009, 04:12 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
story of my life, haha.



This is just what came to my head after reading this post.
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