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#1 User is offline   monika j 

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Posted 28 September 2009 - 06:45 PM

So on the rule of guys calling girls ... if a girl gives you her number, do you call her right away? Do you abide by the 24-hour rule? Or do you wait a few more days? Just wondering!
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Posted 28 September 2009 - 06:59 PM

Depends on the guy and what they use the phone for (productive calls, racking up their phone bills, etc)
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Posted 28 September 2009 - 07:41 PM

yea i agree. it really depends on what's the call about. if it's something important like homework i would call right away
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Posted 28 September 2009 - 07:44 PM

Depends. I don't know why guys or girls will force themselves to wait a day before calling someone. If you call someone, most likely you'll have things to say, so it really doesn't matter. I don't understand why so many people make themselves suffer for day before calling. Just do it. Simple as that.

As a girl, I like my man to initiate things. I don't care if I give out my number and he calls me right on the spot as long as he has things to say to me.
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Posted 28 September 2009 - 07:47 PM

The rule according to my knowledge is the "3 day rule".....
But anyways, some guys do it and some guys don't.

Personally, I think it's lame, but I guess it's a guys choice to follow that rule or not.

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Posted 28 September 2009 - 10:41 PM

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The rule according to my knowledge is the "3 day rule".....
But anyways, some guys do it and some guys don't.

Personally, I think it's lame, but I guess it's a guys choice to follow that rule or not.


Yep, I agree with you. It really depends on the guy.
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Posted 28 September 2009 - 10:57 PM

Three days. There are a ton of girls out there that go crazy over guys that ignore them. Paying too much attention to a girl right away is the quickest way to lose her interest. It's just all part of the game. I don't like to play it, but many do.
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Posted 29 September 2009 - 09:27 AM

QUOTE (plegend2007 @ Sep 29 2009, 11:47 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
The rule according to my knowledge is the "3 day rule".....
But anyways, some guys do it and some guys don't.


yeah, i've never heard of a 24hr rule...

if you have the confidence, call her as soon as you want. it really shouldn't matter; in fact, i'd actually like it if a guy would call me within 24hrs for a change.
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Posted 29 September 2009 - 10:10 AM

QUOTE (monika j @ Sep 28 2009, 10:45 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
So on the rule of guys calling girls ... if a girl gives you her number, do you call her right away? Do you abide by the 24-hour rule? Or do you wait a few more days? Just wondering!

I call when it pops into my mind to call. Depends how busy I am, how eager I am to talk to her again, etc. I don't really agree with any of these dating rules. I'm a bit sentimental, sometimes needy, sometimes detached, annoying at times, I like to eat junk food, don't really exercise, stay thin by eating nothing but salads for weeks at a time, am into nerdy stuff, really enjoy sex, so on and so forth. These are all characteristics a girl will like, be okay with, not like, or be repulsed by, and we might as well figure it out from the beginning rather than follow arbitrary dating rules which to me are an obfuscation of the truth in an attempt to convince one another that I am or she is what the rules denote that we are.
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Posted 29 September 2009 - 10:47 AM

I think if the girl gives the guy her number, that means she wants him to call her.
I don't get why they have to abide any rules. Why go through all the hardships?

Call her if that makes you happy (:

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Posted 29 September 2009 - 10:51 AM

^ I usually think its bothersome to girls if you only met them once or twice and call them to chat about something random. I usually don't call until I have something important to talk to them about, otherwise they'll be like 'wtf is this guy doing calling me?'
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Posted 29 September 2009 - 11:18 PM

I call whenever I'm bored, but i follow the 24 hour rule when it is necessary.
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Posted 29 September 2009 - 11:24 PM

If it's not something important I find
it pretty annoying ~ but it kinda depends
on who the guy I guess : P

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Posted 30 September 2009 - 01:16 AM

what 24-hour rule? i've never even heard of it "-.-
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keh, i'd prefer them call the next day biggrin.gif oh that's pretty much 24 hour? huh.gif haha i don't get it.
but they really should call as fast as possible wink.gif
- haha why did i ever give my number anywaii ? biggrin.gif

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Posted 30 September 2009 - 03:09 AM

i always look down on guys who take days to call.... if they take more than 3 days, i'm like... = ='
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Posted 30 September 2009 - 04:11 AM

QUOTE (B L o T T - ii @ Sep 30 2009, 07:09 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
i always look down on guys who take days to call.... if they take more than 3 days, i'm like... = ='


Should've called first!
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Posted 30 September 2009 - 02:46 PM

I wonder where or how did this rule came into effect. If you feel like calling then call, if not then don't. You shouldn't really have to dwell over when to call cuz it'll probably make you go crazy. I did thats why if I feel like calling then I call. But just don't wait too long or else that person will forget who you are.

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Posted 30 September 2009 - 03:51 PM

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Posted 01 October 2009 - 05:28 PM

if i was out. i probably won't be thinking about that girl all night long while i'm with my friends.
wen u get home, and she randomly pops in your head...text her..
it's the modern world..TEXT lol
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Posted 01 October 2009 - 10:05 PM

haha idk about anyone but when/if i give a guy my number... i want him to text me... HAHA i think phone convo's are sometimes awkward... but a phone call now and then (after text) is nice =T

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