[jew-lee]

I was thinking is it wrong to have a sad feeling left out when your not in a relationship but all your friends are?

[Kira_Hyuu]

Yeah i got to admit the feeling honestly sucks!

Like you see all the cuddling/intimacy, and then you look at yourself and yea it feels crap....

But still just cause your friends are dating don't just leap at the first opportunity to get a date - never settle for second best...

[Ayame-chan]

I know what you mean. Back when I was in high school, during lunch time, I'd be eating my lunch, when all the couples would be eating together, and I'd be alone. Well not alone exactly, since we were hanging out with a big group of friends, but like the couples are together and I was the only one without a bf. xD

But now I'm in my second year of college, I don't really care as much about stuff like that anymore.

[Bubbie]

At happens all the time, but for me, as long as they are happy, i'm happy. that's my rule to friendship, other words, put them ahead before myself.

Don't try to be the center of attention TOO much, meaning don't do something stupid just to get your friends/peoples attention, which you will regret.

[Daylightful]

Nope! Totally nothing wrong with that! We all feel left out sometimes! But we have tons and tons and tons of time to find someone or someone to be there with us.. love happens in mysterious ways! It'll just pop right at'cha when you 'least expect it! So I figured I should just wait, because even if there are times when I feel lonely something good will happen!

[Tarik]

it can be.

if you feel incomplete alone, then it is probably pretty obvious that you'd feel crappy.

however, if you don't need a partner to be happy and life a fulfilled life, then you wouldn't give a crap about your friends being in a relationship

so i think you need to get things straight with yourself.. either get a boyfriend, or accept the fact that you can be happy without one, as well.

good luck

[xiaomei]

I totally agree with the above.
I never dated before b/c there wasn't anyone particular that I like like that much. But whenever I see couples together at the mall, when I'm traveling, or even friends with b/f I feel like I'm missing out on something.
Like I want a relationship because I want to care for another person on a more personal level but there just doesn't seem anyone for me like that at the moment. =(
Sometimes it can be depressing..haha. Not like I want to jump into a relationship with a random person but I just wished I had some more experience in that department...LOL...
anyways I just wanted to give my two cents...=)

[Nana544]

No, it is not wrong to have that feeling at all. I used to have that feeling, but not anymore. Just think that your time to have a bf hasn't come yet. Your friends have their turn, and soon you will too. Just wait, one day, it will happen. Even if it doesn't then make sure you're successful and living a happy life.