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he wants me to go out with him. my friend's ex boyfriend

#1 User is offline   dongbang.suju.bigbang 

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Posted 29 September 2009 - 11:17 PM

My friend's ex boyfriend keeps on bothering me.
he wants to go out with me. i dont know what to do!
everytime i go online he's the first person who will PM me.

when that friend of mine ask advice from me on what to do, i dont know what to say
i feel guilty.
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Posted 30 September 2009 - 12:21 AM

QUOTE (dongbang.suju.bigbang @ Sep 30 2009, 03:17 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
My friend's ex boyfriend keeps on bothering me.
he wants to go out with me. i dont know what to do!
everytime i go online he's the first person who will PM me.

when that friend of mine ask advice from me on what to do, i dont know what to say
i feel guilty.


tell him to john tesh off. it's not hard to do that.
simple as that for your simple ass
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Posted 30 September 2009 - 03:44 AM

do u like him? if you don't just tell him you're not interested and chicks over dicks.
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#4 User is offline   dongbang.suju.bigbang 

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Posted 30 September 2009 - 04:54 AM

@Snowy_Angel: i keep on telling him im not interested for a week now but he wouldn't stop.
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Posted 30 September 2009 - 05:53 AM

QUOTE (dongbang.suju.bigbang @ Sep 30 2009, 01:54 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
@Snowy_Angel: i keep on telling him im not interested for a week now but he wouldn't stop.



wow you told him to 'fu.ck off' and he wont stop pursuing you? hahahaha

sorry. but if thats not what you said, then obviously it wont work. guys have a tendency to just ask again and again because some girls do give in after some time. so if you dont say the magic words 'fu.ck off' and block him and just continue to be the nice girl you are,then go ahead.

and i would tell your friend what he's doing too.
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Posted 30 September 2009 - 05:54 AM

QUOTE (whatismyname @ Sep 30 2009, 07:53 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
wow you told him to 'fu.ck off' and he wont stop pursuing you? hahahaha

sorry. but if thats not what you said, then obviously it wont work. guys have a tendency to just ask again and again because some girls do give in after some time. so if you dont say the magic words 'fu.ck off' and block him and just continue to be the nice girl you are,then go ahead.

and i would tell your friend what he's doing too.


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Posted 30 September 2009 - 06:05 AM

You only feel guilty if you like him or have a bit of interest in him.
Honestly, I would never go for my friend's ex, no matter what.
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Posted 30 September 2009 - 06:12 AM

If you're not interested in him just keep turning him down. It'll stop eventually. And if you feel guilty about it you should just discuss it with your friend.
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Posted 30 September 2009 - 06:52 AM

You shouldn't feel guilty unless you are sort of interested in him. You should tell your friend what he is doing and get her opinion on the matter. Then you need to just ignore him. It seems telling him no isn't working. You gave him a chance to stop bothering you and he hasn't taken it.
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Posted 30 September 2009 - 12:13 PM

Considering how you are not even interested in him, you shouldn't care too much about what he thinks, right?

If telling him off doesn't help, block him on AIM and such. He will have to face the truth sooner or later.

That way, he won't make assumptions like how you are only rejecting him because he is your friend's ex-boyfriend.
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Posted 30 September 2009 - 12:25 PM

Why are you feeling guilty about something that's not your fault? Just tell your friend the truth and tell the guy to get lost or just ignore him completely.
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Posted 30 September 2009 - 12:58 PM

are you intterested in him? if you are, then i would go for him but if not, just tell him to fcuk off
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Posted 30 September 2009 - 03:58 PM

If you don't want sacrifice your friendship,
just simply tell him you don't have any interest in him.

But since you said you felt "guilty," I'm assuming you
like him back... :?
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Posted 30 September 2009 - 05:35 PM

QUOTE (AS1AND0LL @ Sep 30 2009, 10:05 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Honestly, I would never go for my friend's ex, no matter what.

If that's the case, you could be missing out on a potentially good guy. Your relationship with your friend shouldn't change. Otherwise, you should probably reconsider being friends with that person.
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Posted 30 September 2009 - 06:04 PM

the ignore method works wonders tongue.gif
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exactly STEVEN YOU ARE MY HERO prince charming or w.e he was omg STEVEN IS MY HERO my brain is failure O_O

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Posted 30 September 2009 - 06:28 PM

This is what you do. You tell him to take you to the most expensive restaurant in the city. You know, the kind where you need a reservation for. When at the restaurant you order the most expensive thing. Then at the end of the date you tell him that no matter how delicious the meal was he's still a douche. I mean, you might as well get a meal out of the situation.
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Posted 30 September 2009 - 09:56 PM

^ haha food <3

I think you should just block him if it bothers you a lot.

QUOTE (damyoungji @ Sep 30 2009, 04:13 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Considering how you are not even interested in him, you shouldn't care too much about what he thinks, right?

I don't think that's necessarily true because you could still feel bad for rejecting him. I probably would. ><

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Posted 30 September 2009 - 09:58 PM

QUOTE (Stevent @ Oct 1 2009, 03:04 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
the ignore method works wonders tongue.gif

Exactly. It's not so hard to block someone, also if you have no interest in him at all why even bother responding?
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Posted 30 September 2009 - 09:59 PM

QUOTE (dongbang.suju.bigbang @ Sep 30 2009, 12:17 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
My friend's ex boyfriend keeps on bothering me.
he wants to go out with me. i dont know what to do!
everytime i go online he's the first person who will PM me.

when that friend of mine ask advice from me on what to do, i dont know what to say
i feel guilty.


I'm sorry, I'll stop bothering you now. dry.gif
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Posted 30 September 2009 - 10:36 PM

u feel guilty cos
u like him bak?

and wats the go between u two
did it come outa of the blue??

n how long did they break up
maybe hes just using u to get bak at his ex??

well either choose friendship
or that guy...




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