Am I really friend zoned?

#1 chipao

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Posted 30 September 2009 - 05:06 PM

I have this girl that I like.
But then again, she told me to keep looking when I confessed to her via MSN.

So anyway, months and months after:

- she introduces me to her friends, to her sister and to her mom
- she asks me out for lunch and some mall trips (with or without common friends)
- we actually go out even though common friends aren't around
- we play around by poking and teasing each other
- she even offered me 'company' via SMS when i have nothing to do.
- she IM's be first 90% of the time.

Though she doesn't really hug me like what she does with other guy friends.

I don't really know.

Hoping for enlightenment. =D

#2 peppermintsugar

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Posted 30 September 2009 - 05:19 PM

If she told you to keep looking when you confessed to her, then I think the answer is pretty obvious. None of the other things she's doing are really that out of the ordinary if she still considers you to be a friend of hers.

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#3 visuelz

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Posted 30 September 2009 - 05:28 PM

I think what you're telling us is that you think she likes you. A lot of girls don't like it when you ask them online.

#4 my_monkey

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Posted 30 September 2009 - 06:23 PM

from what you are telling us, I think she do have some interest in you. But then again male and female can go out and have lunch together.

But you guys are kinda getting physical so I think more of it is that she do have some interest in you. From personal experience if me and a girl go out to eat or shop around its usually just a hangout AND Never get physical then we are just friends. But if we do get physical then yea there's some interest there.

What do you mean she don't hug you like other guys? do u mean she hugs you friendly or I like you kind of hug?

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#5 I Wonder

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Posted 30 September 2009 - 06:25 PM

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Posted 02 October 2009 - 02:27 AM

yep, friend zoned.
i wouldn't think too much about her actions.. she probably just enjoys the attention you give her.

#7 plegend2007

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Posted 02 October 2009 - 02:14 PM

When she told you to keep looking, that is a pretty big hint that she thinks of you as a friend, but you never know for sure.
The only way to know for sure is to ask her point blank, so instead of wondering and examining her every move...JUST ASK HER STRAIGHT UP AND DON'T BEAT AROUND THE BUSH. Believe me, it saves time and agony.