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#1 User is offline   HanatheBrownEyedGirl 

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Posted 30 September 2009 - 07:01 PM

So there's this guy at my school who I met earlier this month and I was never really interested in him.
Then one day we were playing a game in one of our classes in which one person would state a fact about themselves and if you had that fact in common with that person then you would get out of your seat and move into another one, ther was only one seat left and that guy was closer to that seat than I was so I figured that he would take the seat but instead he made a hand gesture and offered me the seat so he ended up losing that round of the game. After that I kind of took an interest to him.

We never really talked much even though we have two classes together, sometimes we make eye contact and he quickly looks away if I catch him but other than that we haven't really interacted at all. In one of our classes, the teacher was praising me for passing in one of my assignments (which was to do a syllabus analysis) a week early and the guy was sitting next to me and said "She probably doesn't even need to do the syallabus analysis since she's so smart and organized."

I didn't think much of that but last Friday he came into class late and there were two empty seats. One seat was next to his good friend and the other empty seat was across the room next to me. When he came in he put his backpack on the seat next to his friend's desk and then he looked over at my side and took a seat next to me (leaving his backpack at the desk next to his friend). He initiated a conversation with me about homework and classes and throughout the entire class he whispered jokes to me (and I laughed) but I'm a really shy and awkward person so when he was speaking to me I gave three or four word answers. There was this one moment when he was leaning closer and closer to my side and his elbow fell off the desk (I have no idea if he was trying to get closer to me or not), I was kind of surprised so I ended up giving him a weird look (although I didn't mean to, it was just my natural reaction). While I was working on one of the class assignments he reached over to me and I was caught off guard so I gasped and then he apologized for scaring me and asked to borrow a pencil.

I have no experience with guys what so ever so I have no idea if he liked me or not. Do you guys think that he has a thing for me? Or am I just overthinking the entire situation? Also, I'm pretty sure that if he liked me and was trying to get to know me during that class, my general awkwardness and weird reactions probably made him think that I didn't like him so what should I do to let him know that I like him? (I'm really shy and we don't know each other too well so I feel awkward just telling him up front).


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#2 User is offline   sumoberrylu 

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Posted 30 September 2009 - 07:43 PM

i think he may have an interest in you.
the only way to find out is to talk to him more and see what he does.
try to make an effort in class to initiate a conversation or something...tell him jokes too, be more responsive.

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#3 User is offline   Patorikku 

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Posted 30 September 2009 - 08:07 PM

QUOTE (sumoberrylu @ Oct 1 2009, 04:43 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
i think he may have an interest in you.
the only way to find out is to talk to him more and see what he does.
try to make an effort in class to initiate a conversation or something...tell him jokes too, be more responsive.


I agree with Sumo smile.gif, just be comfortable with who you are and confident, talk to him more instead of a few words, I think he also might have an interest in you.

Remember waiting for something to happen will not work, take the step forward even how hard it might be for you, I used to be shy as well, just be yourself ^^, don't let the chance slip if its there =], trust me I waited and nothing happened. Eventually after speaking to him more and building up confidence you will feel comfortable around him, hang around more, and then see what happens. Good luck smile.gif
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#4 User is offline   Nana544 

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Posted 30 September 2009 - 08:11 PM

If you like him then talk to him more, don't be shy. When you begin to have conversions with him, your shyness will soon disappear. It seems to me he likes you, but then again, some guys act like that around girls. So, it's difficult to say if he likes you or not. He might just be interest in you and wanted to be friends or maybe more than friends. And yes, be more responsive to him. If you don't then he will start to think you don't like talking to him.
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#5 User is offline   Aiyla.- 

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Posted 04 October 2009 - 03:12 PM

Ehmm....I think he might have something for you..yep he does. Just try to show him that you have interest in hem too. Smile to him whenever you meet, say hi, ask him how he is doing. Try to make a connection between the two of you. ahahah I think he kinda likes your shy personality, but still try to open a little bit...Just so that you wont give him the idea that your not interested...
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#6 User is offline   FairyTales 

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Posted 04 October 2009 - 04:16 PM

heheh soo cute!
I think he might!
Go go go for it~
LOL. Talk to him. Laugh with him.
^^ gooood luck yo~
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