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[YoungNegro]

lol say rumors about her

[secretlyjustyours]

hes kidding ^


I think you should seperate yourself from her and become more social, get more friends.
Did you try to talk to her about your problems? as in work it out?

[Storm121693]

if she makes you feel like you're not special like her than stop hanging out with her. she doesn't deserve your friendship if she tells your secrets to other people she's not supposed to tell it to.

[MNLV27]

Well you should stop telling her personal stuff, if you don't want others to know about it as well.
You can just stop being friends with her, she's a big girl, she has other friends to leach on.
Just go and meet new people, every time she tries to make you go with her, just say, go ahead, I'll catch up later or something.

[c[:]

Well you should stop telling her personal stuff, if you don't want others to know about it as well.
You can just stop being friends with her, she's a big girl, she has other friends to leach on.
Just go and meet new people, every time she tries to make you go with her, just say, go ahead, I'll catch up later or something.

I agree. You don't need people who will spread your personal things to everyone. Close friends don't do that.

[damyoungji]

She is not the only person in this world to become friends with =)

Next time, when she insists you to do stuff, you have the right to reject it.

[OtakuVersusWorld]

... But sometimes she says things that make me feel... like i just want to punch her. I just smile in these kind of situations. She makes it sound as if she knows everything and I don't.

You should be more honest with yourself, especially in situations like this between friends. I know you said you were shy and all, but you really need to stick up for yourself in this situation. Plus, if you can't be open to your friend, who can you be open to? The more honest and open you are, the faster you'll realize who your true friends are.

Anyways, do you want to stay friends with her or not? I mean, from your post, the only thing your friend could really be guilty of is giving away some of your personal info. That's definitely not cool and you should confront her about it.

If she says stuff that makes you want to punch her, then just tell her to shut-up (but more eloquent and female-like). If anything she does bothers you, you shouldn't just smile and pretend nothing happened. Voice your opinion. Let her know about it. A lot of popular outgoing people are naturally cocky... some don't even realize they're being idiots till you point it out. If she doesn't know she's being obnoxious to you or whatever, it's never going to change. But if she does know and she's just pulling your strings, it's time to find new friends.

And...

She always insist I walk with her to our next class

Isn't this just a friend being... well... a friend? Sorry, if I'm taking things at face value here. Does it feel like she's invading your personal space or something? Again, you need to let her know if that's the case.

Anyways, I hate to sound harsh but unless there are other pieces to your story, most of what you said just sounds like one big complaint about having a popular friend that you don't know how to handle. In my opinion, you should try to be more confident and stick up for yourself. It sounds like if you can just overcome your shyness (I know it's not easy) your problem wouldn't even be a problem.

[dramaprincessxox]

She's just taking advantage of you because you're shy and indecisive. You need to be stronger than this. I don't even know how to say it...start thinking for yourself and stop allowing others to push you around. If she says something to piss you off, don't sit there and smile. Answer her back and she will realise that you aren't what she thought you were (you do know how to be witty and sarcastic, right?).

When you do answer her back, the result will either be:
-she'll distance herself from you
-she'll begin to respect you and you guys will become good friends.

For now, she has no respect for you and thinks you're a pushover.