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Trying to sort out my feelings.. please help me

#1 User is offline   GiRlli3 

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Posted 03 October 2009 - 11:10 AM

Right now I'm very confused...
please help me on what i should do.

There are two guys in my life right now.
1 i like and 1 like me.

the one that likes me.. He asked me out to homecoming and at that time i had somewhat an interest in him so i said yes. But now after hanging out for more than a week i found out that i have no feeling for him. He's turn out to not be my type of guy and when we talk i just feel like i'm talking to a friend.. and I know that he would ask me to be his girlfriend [he wanted to ask me out but then he didnt want to freak me out yet so..he just asked me to hc].
He's very nice and sweet but I just don't have the same feeling that he has for me.. he's also my friend's friend and she kinda match make us...
the thing that is holding me back about rejecting him is ..tis will be his first time going to hc and his first time dating a girl...
i don't want to break his heart like that

and the second guy who i really like. it's just something about him that draw me in. He's not a good guy and my friend keep telling me to forget about him. We talked, we flirts and i really want to be more than that with him.. He's also really nice to me and his eyes when he look at me is just loved. However he's not a guy of a lot of words so I don't know how to get to know him more and stuff without looking very clingy.

So what should I do bout these two guys? Should I forget about the crush and give the other one a chance? or should I just break it off with him and turn over to my crush?
I really don't know what to do.
please give me some advice

I know tis is kiddish but please be nice?
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Posted 03 October 2009 - 08:27 PM

bottom line is it all comes down to you. If I was in your shoes, I'd chose the person that I have feelings for and not the other person who only has feelings for me.

For that guy that is his first time, it shouldn't be an excuse for you just to accept him. Most likely he's going to be heart broken sooner or a later. Only go for him if u truly feel like you will like him other wise you might be wasting your time. the other person u like, it shouldn't matter what others opionions are for u to date. Unless that person is really bad then u might want to rethink or something.

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Posted 03 October 2009 - 09:54 PM

i'd say first of all, go to hc with the guy that likes you and make sure he knows that you have no feelings for him in that way.. just go to hc "as friends" and let him know of it too. just don't lead him onto something that's not gonna happen.
second, go for the guy you like. you can't force yourself to like someone and once you do, you'll be hurting him and yourself.

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Posted 04 October 2009 - 05:10 PM

in this situation you should go to HC with the guy first. but as a friend don't lead him on because that will only break his heart more. maybe you'll like him nd if you dont then it's ok too

nd the other guy he is risky.. but it's all ur choice. If you really like him then go for it. but think if he is really worth it.
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Posted 04 October 2009 - 08:32 PM

thank you for the advice guys

I really want to give the guy a chance but i start to like my crush more than a crush now
nd my crush is telling to just break it off with the other guy nd he was serious bout it too
im confused if he does like me too

i'll just let the time answers
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Posted 04 October 2009 - 08:41 PM

don't compare and whoever you're feelin' more you should go for.
don't sit and compare and be like, but guy 1 does and guy 2 doesn't or you know?
whoever YOU like more. don't just 'settle' for the one who likes you
if you like your crush, pursue him. don't give uppp!
girl I'm not tryin' to sound mean but yeah.
hope it all works out for you smile.gif
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