[Atmosphere.]

I think you are afraid of hot guys, even though you said you are not afraid. You just can't admit to know the real truth about yourself with hot guys, right? It happens, don't worry about it. It takes awhile to realize to know the real truth about what you think. Anyways, I do too get freaked out too, but sometimes I just take the risk. When I first dated my boyfriend, I was shocked how cute/handsome he was, and I was scared he could be cheating behind my back if we do date longer. So you know what I did? XDDDDDDDDDDD I made sure he ate a lot of foods, so he gained a lot of weight.. gained like 40lb XD So he would look unattractive LOL jk.. he's still my handsome prince<3 But I regret for feeding him too much foods, now I want him to lose those pounds back to his old self LOL! Scared at the same time, but I'm scared of him turning obese >__<

So yeah just take a risk, but don't give your whole heart. Never ever give whole heart to anyone. Maybe after few years later, that's when you can or should give whole heart, after realizing he IS THE ONE.

Lol before I dated my current boyfriend. My best friend that I've known since childhood, we dated and he is the most handsome guy I ever met, and I'll tell you this that he is way handsome than my current boyfriend >__<;; But yeah.. I was always paranoid that he may be cheating on me behind my back or with a lot of girls. I would get super nervous and worried, but you know what's the sweetest thing he ever did for me? Even though I felt bad :X He made sure he didn't talk to a lot of girls, only me T_T;; And he would never hang out with ONLY GIRLS, he would always have more guys in the group. It's funny how when we broke up, I thought my next boyfriend will be never be like my ex, so I was scared.......................... but my current boyfriend pretty much does the same thing, it's pretty surprising, and very happy about it ^__^

So yeah just take risk, but never give whole heart.

[lilvanillaxo]

You should consider yourself lucky that a guy is even asking you out. Most of the guys are now homosexual. Please do yourself a favor and stop rejecting straight men as they are becoming extinct.

hahaha you made me laugh!

[pink.strawberrie;]

I am intimidated by them at first but if I get to know them and they have an awesome personality then I'm not so intimidated anymore.

[A-choo]

D: yeesh, i am scared of dating hawt guys..

1. I think they're usually man wh0res :]

2. Too many girls like them n they mite h8 meh becuz of this o;

3. Too many girls flirt wif them, ugh -___-

4. Feels insecure around them >___>;;

I want a good lookin bf :3 buh .. i mean, not too good lookin pweez?
sumone that matches meh ish fine :]

[sparkerly]

you don't have to be a hot guy to be a player. Ugly guys can be just as bad, and just because they're not hot doesn't mean they're loyal either. Give guys like me a chance at least before you judge. It's tough being hot sometimes. We're not pieces of meat, we're human beings. ok enough joking around hehe, in all seriousness, it's not good to assume.

100% AGREED.


but do give those guys a chance, just...don't fall too deep (:

[Rainie Yu]

I get intimidated or scared they're going to think I'm a weirdo, not in the good way. @.@

[Kreize]

D: yeesh, i am scared of dating hawt guys..

1. I think they're usually man wh0res :]

That is stereotyping and mean...

[loveabella♥]

Give him a chance but make him work for it (:
I've dated some attractive guys that other girls thought were super cute and I can understand where you're coming from. Most of them were really cocky and didn't really work at the relationship, plus it gets annoying when they call themselves attractive - __ - And sadly it was more than one guy that complimented their own looks, sad... LOL XD

[x-rays-r-b-yu-t-ful]

same.

'cept i think of female beauties as evil beings.
kinda like the man-eating sirens of Greek mythology.

[winksassy]

it's not actually true..
most guys i know who are players are the not-so-good-looking guys haha

but hey..it depends. so just give them a chance.

[OneChance]

Ahah... Yes I am probably intimidated by their incredibly good looks and think that I'm not good enough for them xD

[atomicangie-]

i just don't like the fact of dating or seeing hot guys because there's probably 398438203 other girls chasing him as well. o_o
and that sucks, LOl

[MR. LEE'S]

same thinking as mine. give me five. heh but sometimes, hot guys aren't players. but i'd rather to make them as friends, it would be nicer.

[Xian]

I am intimidated by good-looking (especially of the "hot" variety) guys. However, from experience, they usually turn out to be the coolest, nicest guys lol. A lot of the not-so-good-looking ones tend to have insecurities or an inflated ego for some weird reason (perhaps it's their attempt to counter their low self-images by having really shallow and high standards of other people?). =/ My boyfriend (to me anyway lol) is tall, good-looking, and really stylish...When I first saw him, I really did believe he was a player and, especially, a non-virgin LOL. But as time went on, I realized I was so wrong. So please don't think some things are too good to be true. For a while I kept thinking this and it kinda hurt our relationship, to be honest. I kept being suspicious of him and getting upset at little things. As girls (and guys too) we should never sell ourselves short. And really, looks aren't everything either.

[PH4T]

you sound like my sister!
oi, whenever she tells me her problems, i get so frustrated with her.
i tell her to take the chance because she will never know unless she throws herself out there.
ahaha, and it kills her as much as it kills me everytime i give her some sort of a pep-talk.
with her, she's scared that her boyfriend's appearance will overshadow her.

[SarangHeyo <3]

Wait, im assuming since hot guys ask you out.. youre hot.
are you a player?

[loladelrio]

I wouldn't say I have a fear, but I can relate. I don't think I'd have some pre-concieved notion that he's a player or whatever, but more of like I'd feel inferior or feel like I don't deserve him. I thank my lack of self-worth for that. sldfjdslkj

But, hey, if knowing he's genuine and really not just trying to get in my pants (trust me, I know), then there has to be a reason why he's interested, right?

I don't even know what I'm talking about.

[iLuvreYou]

yup! extremely good looking guys are quite intimidating~
once, an above average guy showed interest in me and i kinda freaked out because I kept thinking that he was playing some kind of prank / bet / spitting his usual game? & i was also so insecured (maybe thats why )

but then, there are times when i become a nervous wreck / can't think straight / total fangirl when a attractive guy talks to me...



whatever, Great Looking guys are a gift. we should enjoy them when we get a chance. LOL! XD

[hitokiri007]

wow....i can't believe there's somebody else other than this girl i dated that thinks like that .
i really liked this girl, seriously liked, but the entire time she thought i was a player who didn't want a serious relationship and just wanted to fool around, but she was totally fine with it. we were friends first for about a month, then we started going out and hanging out and doing stuff for another month, then she suddenly tells me that she's gonna go out with this other dude cause he confessed to her, and i was just like "what!? O_O" and she told me that she thought i was a player the entire time, and that she never really developed feelings for me cause of that.

[zazinteractive]

wow....i can't believe there's somebody else other than this girl i dated that thinks like that .
i really liked this girl, seriously liked, but the entire time she thought i was a player who didn't want a serious relationship and just wanted to fool around, but she was totally fine with it. we were friends first for about a month, then we started going out and hanging out and doing stuff for another month, then she suddenly tells me that she's gonna go out with this other dude cause he confessed to her, and i was just like "what!? O_O" and she told me that she thought i was a player the entire time, and that she never really developed feelings for me cause of that.

Trying to say your're hot lol?