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Ever Wish; ...you could do more?

#1 User is offline   Innocent_Asian 

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Posted 04 October 2009 - 07:27 PM

have you ever wished you could do more to help someone you loved?
Like it doesnt even matter who they are; Family, friends, just a loved one.

-My cousin is going through rough times and i wish i could help her. I just wanna take all the pain and issues off her shoulders so she could relax and actually ENJOY her life, she is still young; 16, and yet she has NO FREEDOM at all. she can't even simply call and talk to me; HER COUSIN!
I am only 14 so i can't do much for her and i know i shouldnt be making it MY PROBLEM, but i can't help it; she's my cousin and i LOVE HER.

-And the Jaebeom thing, i just wish i could do something about it too. But i can't; all i can do is sit back and watch what's happening. I hate that so much...

Have you ever wished you could do more? Share your thoughts and stories. (if you want happy.gif)
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#2 User is offline   sukixyume 

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Posted 04 October 2009 - 07:47 PM

Yes .___. plenty of times. Sometimes my close friends would tell me about their problems and it irks me the fact that they're very bothered but it's out of my reach. My ex... was always busy with his work. He was constantly stressed out and exhausted from trying to balance school and work at the same time... and there was nothing I could do about it. I mean, I can't exactly work in his place because it's a family line of work...thing... and I didn't have the same classes as him/he refused to let me help with his stuff. It made me feel a bit...helpless/useless sometimes? And I do wish that I was capable of doing more.

But... it's a depressing feeling. D: I hope things get better for your cousin and you. Best of luck, take care.
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#3 User is offline   xxxxxxx 

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Posted 05 October 2009 - 12:31 AM

I always wanted to do more but I have nothing to offer sometimes or there's times when I feel like its out of my hands to help.
I'm very shy and so I can't get out of my way to help some people :\

My friend was going through a rough time. Her mom was dying , her step mom & biological dad didn't care. She gave up a leadership position because she really wanted to focus on getting a job to pay for her mom's hospital bill. She would cry to me and it was sad because I never knew what to do. The best I did for her was pay for dinner for her or buy her a box of ramen so she didn't have to use her money.

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#4 User is offline   hmoob_girl549 

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Posted 14 May 2010 - 08:32 AM

awe! is this for me?! I THINK SO! lmao! thanks babe! ik its hard and i understand that you and houa want to help, but you guys can't do a lot. but for the best part i only have til next year! once i turn 18 i am leaving. no doubt. its ok. being 16 its not that bad, but having a mother that separates me from other family members is just wrong. i'll get out of this soon. i'm just the asian cinderella that will find her happiness soon.
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Posted 14 May 2010 - 08:54 AM

Yes. Always. I hate feeling useless/helpless.
#1: Can't help when he's sick.
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"I don't know what God took MERCY and bestowed you upon me, but I thank him that he has."
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