[piaoyi]

We broke up....and I miss him so much. I haven't seen him in 3 days, yet we're housemates in the same college apt. All my friends just keep telling me that time will heal, but every night before I fall asleep...my mind wanders and all I can think of is him.

I don't even know what's the point of this topic. But should I continue to give each other space? or should I try to befriend him, even though I still like him?

[taebins_luver]

no.
don't try to befriend him while the feelings are still there.
the hurt is fresh, let it marinade for a while before pursuing anything with him again.
you're feelings now will spill over and you'll do things you'll regret.

[junchan]

Hmmm...you didn't mention why you broke up with him...
If it was a lil problem btween you and ur bf, and there's a hope to you to get back why you don't talk to him?
B'cuz i think you still love him...

Be friend is okay but you have to be ready if he have a new GF (sorry)
i broke up with my bf and we're still friend, but it's so hurt when i saw him with other girls...like urfriend said 'time would heal'
that's true...i need 6 months 2 4get him..
=.=

don't worry world keep spinning around, you'll find other BF

[mintcracker]

woah can we say awkward?
he lives in the same place as you? ...


space and distance is the key. And time.
Don't worry, it's hard, but time heals things. Though of course it's easier said than done.

[bonjour tristesse.]

Befriending him when there's still feelings is a bad act. Why, you may ask; it'll just harbor more feelings for him. You'll have it hard considering that you still love him. There's nothing wrong about the thought of being friends after a break up of course but give time to both of you guys being alone.

[piaoyi]

yes, he lives in the room across from me.......and it's very awkward.

so I should just continue avoiding him? it's torturous being so close, yet unable to be with him.

[MNLV27]

Keep your distance. Sucks that you guys live just across from each other but no matter what, befriending him now is a bad idea, you still have feelings for him and if you become friends, it's just going to be harder for you to heal from it.

[Mr. Chan]

Congratulations! Welcome to the single life!

Better now than later. amirite?

[Nana544]

NO, just avoid him if he avoid you too. Only befriend him if you both are comfortable with one another. GL.

[AznDragon405]

My name is Sang and I miss my ex-bf too. He was cheating on me one day. Know how I found out? I came by to visit him one day and there were a whole bunch of acorns on him. I went around to see how they got there and I saw a squirrel engrave their names into him. I didn't know what to do after this. I went home and talked to my parents about it and they told me to call a lumberjack to cut him down. I think I will take their advice. Bye ex-bf, I'll miss you dearly.

[AS1AND0LL]

Honestly that truly sucks and you know it's just plain awkward to live in the same building with him and the healing process is going to be much harder but all I can tell you is that just stay strong, keep yourself busy and away from him even if you do live under the same roof.

[Emerald Snow]

KEEP YOUR DISTANCE! I cannot stress this enough. You still feel for him so much emotionally, and to be friends with him now is going to make getting over him much harder for you.

[piaoyi]

Thanks for all the advice and encouragement.


I thought I was doing fine and moving on, but I saw him today and just fell apart again....
fml

[taebins_luver]

you just have to be stronger, and better in avoiding him as well

[lindarh]

you can always go back together?
unless he doesnt want to .. cause my ex and me are always on and off practicularly every week
if you miss him go and hug him lol

[itsannies]

Falling apart when you see him, it happens. I remember when I almost fell apart when I had mistaken someone to be him. That feeling sucks but, just keep thinking to yourself, that you were fine before he existed, and you WILL be fine without him. Hope you feel better soon.

[duntellmi]

It is definitely not going to be good if you guys still have to see each other. But over time, it gets better...At least, your feelings will be numbed because you are already so used to it and all.

[jL-]

Follow your heart and mind. YOU should think about what's going to be the best.

[piaoyi]

Also everyone still thinks we're together and they keep asking me how (insert ex's name) is doing. And I don't want to say we broke up because then they'll ask stuff like what happened. etc. etc. What should i say instead?

[WeezyEffBaby]

Hmm, have you tried sleeping with his best friend yet?