[donporkuloin]

My cousin let's call him Mike. He's a womanizer. He's been like this for years. Last year I watched him cheat on his gf with 5 other girls. While he was doing that he got his gf to clean up the bed sheets that he was having sex with other women on. She didn't know.

This year he has an apt in his current gf's name. His gf buys him stuff, etc. But he's cheating on her too like 90 going north. I ended up talking to one of the girl's he had sex with left. I ended up telling her the truth about Mike. On her fb she was talking about how she's going to his apt to bust the windows out of his car. I don't feel completely wrong for this, because of how Mike does females, and how he's treated me in the past. From an outside point of view do you think I'm wrong? Why/why not?

I tried talking to Mike about this a few times, and he gave me the I'm grown, and I do what I wanna do speech. The girl he cheated on went to his house, but he was gone. She left a note, and she's probably gonna do something to his truck. Mike is aware. He's threatened me, but I don't care. He's went on to slander me on fb. I called him, but he hung up on me. I replied back to him on fb.

[peppermintsugar]

Eh, technically, it probably wasn't the best decision, or the "right" decision, but "right" is subjective, and we can't always live our lives and make decisions perfectly.

[MiniAng]

Hm, I think you made the 'right' decision (At least in my opinion.) The girl didn't really make the right decision posting it on facebook though, but I can understand her anger at your cousin. Even so , I think your cousin would have had it coming soon enough since one of the girls would have figured your cousins eh hem.....adventures out.

[thisismyv]

You should have told her to put bologna on his car too. That'll teach him.

[KanyeWEST]

honestly it's none of your business so i would say you were in the wrong.

[Nana544]

You did what you have to do. You cousin is a bubble gum. He deserve what is coming towards him. Hope that teach him a lesson on cheating!!! Gosh, guys like that make me boiling inside!

[MRLEE]

i personally dont think it was wrong because he havent changed his ways and been hurting alot of people..and he is using her..for money..thats messed up. so personally no. i would do that to my own family member..but i would at least tell them first to change their ways..if not, then i will fix it for them .

[tigg]

ummm is it just me but i dont give a damn about what my cousin does or do.... so imo ur in da wrong

[<3StrawberryPocky<3]

Hm...well have you talked to him first? I think the best choice would have been to sit down with him and personally talk/lecture him about what he's doing. Unless if you already did that option, then I would consider what you've done right at least in my opinion. Maybe I would have told his girlfriend first though. Clearly, she doesn't deserve to be cheated on by her boyfriend; in fact, no one does. Moreover, she's technically taking care of him while he plays with five other women. So she probably should have been the first to be informed about his cheating, so she can end the relationship sooner. Some may say you have no right to get involved in his business, but honestly, he's family. Family members teach each other right from wrong, help us from our mistakes, and stay by us as we improve. He needs to learn to commit to one person, or he just needs to forget the concept of having a girlfriend for good. As for the girl...couldn't she go to jail or something if she breaks his car door windows? I mean, I know what he's done is wrong, but maybe another alternative that won't have her end up with fines or in prison would be better..lol.

[JoC-x]

i think you shouldn't have interfered with his business.

But i also believe that the person being cheated on should be informed before they get hurt. But since you knew that he has been cheating for years, i think you should have talked to him earlier about it first instead of blabbing it to one if his girlfriends.

;S

[MangoStar]

Eh, personally I don't see anything wrong with you telling one of his girlfriends. Karma will bite him where it hurts. You told him about his actions and he's ceased to change them.

[adiavoy]

Well.. you only told the truth, you'd want someone else to tell you if someone else was cheating on you too right? Guy's going to get what he deserves.

[HaplessChild]

My cousin let's call him Mike. He's a womanizer. He's been like this for years. Last year I watched him cheat on his gf with 5 other girls. While he was doing that he got his gf to clean up the bed sheets that he was having sex with other women on. She didn't know.

This year he has an apt in his current gf's name. His gf buys him stuff, etc. But he's cheating on her too like 90 going north. I ended up talking to one of the girl's he had sex with left. I ended up telling her the truth about Mike. On her fb she was talking about how she's going to his apt to bust the windows out of his car. I don't feel completely wrong for this, because of how Mike does females, and how he's treated me in the past. From an outside point of view do you think I'm wrong? Why/why not?

I tried talking to Mike about this a few times, and he gave me the I'm grown, and I do what I wanna do speech. The girl he cheated on went to his house, but he was gone. She left a note, and said she's going to get some ppl to shoot his car or house up. I don't remember which one she said. Will come back and edit once I find out which one it is.

His personal affairs and relationships with other women are none of your business.

[x SaRaNg HaE x]

If anyone has to know, it has to be his current girlfriend. A girl doesn't deserve to be treated like that. Cleaning up the bed sheets after her boyfriend had his way with another girl? That's messed up.

[myherox3]

If I was one of the girls he cheated on with, I would've been glad that you told me but if I were your cousin, I would have felt betrayed and would've been extremely mad at you because what I do is none of your business.

Just wondering, why didn't you tell the girlfriend he lives with about it instead?

[j1nxx]

what you did wasn't "wrong", but you definitely stuck your nose in his business where it wasn't wanted. and now you have to deal with what's to come. i doubt your cousin will talk to you any time soon. i would be pissed as crap if someone did that to me, whether it's an acquaintance or a family member. nobody likes anyone butting into their business.

[Mr. Chan]

honestly it's none of your business so i would say you were in the wrong.

I concur. It's his problem, telling the girls would only make things worse.

[A-choo]

I think yooh're rite..

He'll realize one day, that w/e yooh're doing for him, ish teh best. :]

Rite nao, he's either too young or too immature to think about teh consequences.

He'll end up regreting n everything if yooh didn't help him~

So i'm on yoor side for sho' :3

[moot11]

Why do you even care how he interacts with other women? You tread difficult territory deciding the morality of others.

[whatismyname]

you did the right thing.
the right thing is never the easiest thing to do.
he needs someone to put him in his place anyway, he thinks he can get away with anything.
obviously you felt some need to tell the girls whats happening behind their backs because it bothers you
and why does it bother you? because it's just not right.

whether it's your business or not, it is because you know the truth. now it's up to them to find out what to do next.