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I'm Still Alittle Shy. i need to fix it.

#1 User is offline   conmigo61 

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Posted 11 October 2009 - 01:05 PM

i'll try making this as short as possible lol
a few years ago i was basically really shy.

i started realizing im wasting my social life, so i began to talk to more people and stuff,
and now i chill wit all the jocks, and the girls (i'm seriously not showin off..)
but i realized today that i find myself being really awkward at sometimes...
i'll be isolated sometimes....just really akward positions where i dont wanna find myself in.
i'm improving..but i still got some flaws.

and i realize im in my sohpomore year of high school,and i wanna live it up now.

any tips to just swallowing that shyness?
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#2 User is offline   Mannosuke 

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Posted 11 October 2009 - 01:20 PM

Does it have to be strictly "random"?

Cause an alternative would be to get to know them a little and then get their numbers. They wouldn't be "random" nor "strangers" since you two are now familiar, but you still get a number.
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#3 User is offline   chubakalover 

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Posted 11 October 2009 - 03:23 PM

you have to be really cute slash hot for random girls to give it to you.
just go have eye contact with them from far away. hold their gaze and if she smiles, that's an invitation for u to come over
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#4 User is offline   conmigo61 

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Posted 17 October 2009 - 09:05 PM

EDDIITTT/ TOTALLY DIFFERENT
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Posted 17 October 2009 - 09:53 PM

Go join a club, meet some people, and practice communication.
It becomes a key skill to know when you're in college.
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#6 User is offline   conmigo61 

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Posted 17 October 2009 - 10:27 PM

QUOTE (x SaRaNg HaE x @ Oct 17 2009, 09:53 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Go join a club, meet some people, and practice communication.
It becomes a key skill to know when you're in college.

i'm fine with communication and social communivation...
but just SOMETIMES i get shy
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Posted 17 October 2009 - 11:18 PM

QUOTE (conmigo61 @ Oct 18 2009, 06:27 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
i'm fine with communication and social communivation...
but just SOMETIMES i get shy


You may just be over thinking things then.
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Posted 18 October 2009 - 09:47 AM

QUOTE (dahmanegi800 @ Oct 18 2009, 12:18 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
You may just be over thinking things then.

probably. i have a porblem of that...but i really need to loosen up i guess
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#9 User is offline   Hwan 

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Posted 18 October 2009 - 09:52 AM

Maybe you are thinking too much about the consequences and you dont want to face them;

If you give things more shots, then you will loosen up eventually, knowing that it isn't that bad to step up.

"If you won't shoot, it'll always miss."
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