[Kumi1992]

ok soo.. theres a guy who likes my "friend" but the thing is she doesnt wanna date anyone who is NOT a virgin.. the guy that asked her out is in my description PERFECT his smart, rich, funny, extremely good-looking, GREAT personality, athletic, tall.. basically the ideal type of guy for almost every girl BUT his not a virgin.. its not like he mkes girls sleep with him, they offer >< i know girls that have offered to sleep with him even though their boyfriends are also perfect and extremely good to them soo the question is.. if a guy asked you out with teh above description would u go out with him?

[younglove]

Sounds like a Bobby Daterape to me.

[Oldwillow_brook]

It's just experience, it's not like you're going to marry him or anything. Your "friend" can just go on a date with him, and see how it goes. She doesn't necessarily have to put out. (and anyway whats the big deal of dating someone who isn't a virgin?)

[KanyeWEST]

his not a virgin?
then his must not be the perfect guy for her!

tell your friend that she's weird for wanting to have a virgin boyfriend.
its not his fault that his not a virgin.

[bonjour tristesse.]

Well let your friend decide whether or not she should let this so called perfect guy slip away all because of the fact that he's not a virgin no more. How do you know that he's slept with lots of girls too? I mean .. did you ask him or something? Just because girls 'asks' him doesn't mean he actually does and if he does then re-evaluate what the word perfect means.

[Kumi1992]

It's just experience, it's not like you're going to marry him or anything. Your "friend" can just go on a date with him, and see how it goes. She doesn't necessarily have to put out. (and anyway whats the big deal of dating someone who isn't a virgin?)

his not a virgin?
then his must not be the perfect guy for her!

tell your friend that she's weird for wanting to have a virgin boyfriend.
its not his fault that his not a virgin.

yeah their borth 17, i think she's just worried because if they do end up dating for lets say more then 6 months? he might want "somthing more" and shes not ready for "stuff" /:

[xDMufffins]

Your friend can always reject sex.
If he's 'perfect', he'll understand.


BTW, don't you mean "he's not a virgin" ?

[Hazy]

Your friend can always reject sex.
If he's 'perfect', he'll understand.

Word.


And if she really doesn't like the fact that he's not a virgin, maybe she should just not go out with him at all.

[shinji.]

yeah their borth 17, i think she's just worried because if they do end up dating for lets say more then 6 months? he might want "somthing more" and shes not ready for "stuff" /:

I'm not a girl but when I read the first post I thought that it was no big deal because I thought we were talking about college students. But when I read that my mind completely changed. I can see why your friend would think that way and I agree with her.

[doctorlee]

Good luck finding virgin guys.

[XangelXtranX]

thats really weird since most guys these days are non-virgin and since hes so perfect a ratio 9:1 is still pretty since NOONE IS PERFECT!
Ps...u want virgin guy that are at ur standard u gotta look hard girl

[JASON;]

girls offer to sleep with him. hahahahahaha

this is hilarious.

[peppermintsugar]

Tell your friend to grow up. There's nothing wrong with a guy not being a virgin, if anything, it just means the sex is going to be even better.
Seriously though, like someone already said, good luck finding a virgin as she gets older, and virgins can act crazy after break-ups (even moreso than non-virgins from what I've experienced)

Experience in all aspects is what makes relationships work.

[Mr. Chan]

smart, rich, funny, extremely good-looking, GREAT personality, athletic, tall..

If your friend isn't a 10/10, good luck to her.

[한스 ㅋㅋ]

Good luck finding virgin guys.

There's a lot more than you think you know?

Well if that is what she want, then you shouldn't force her or anything.
Whether there is many non-virgin guys or not, who cares?
Just let her learn for herself.
I geuss I understand where your friend is coming from.

[damyoungji]

I say that she should forget about him.

If it is against her likes and wants in a guy (has to be a virgin), she will never feel comfortable about their relationship if they get together. Not to mention, the guy has girls offering to sleep with him? Most likely he will not turn down their offers even if he is with your friend. It is better to save the pain and tears than to be with someone who is "Mr. Perfect except that he is not a virgin".

[linh5000]

hrmm.. i agreed with everybody who said "good luck finding virgin guys." Since she's still kind of young, it might be easier for her, but as she gets older this "idea" shouldn't be the reason she doesn't date guys. It's impossible to take a step forward when the first step is to ask the person "hey are you a virgin?"

I say if he likes her and respects her, then she shouldn't be afraid of saying no. if she just doesn't like a nonvirgin guy (this guy), then she should be his friend and see how he's like....if he's really perfect, like how you've described it, then he should have the perfect personality too....


by the way...how old is he?? AHAHAH! jk....

[XJShinoda]

Virgin guys... Chance of finding them decrease when the age goes up.

[WeezyEffBaby]

Virgin girls are like politicians, john teshing liars!

[wenwen]

My bf is almost 24 and he's a virgin. Actually, we both are. So in a nutshell yes such people do exist. If you have faith, you'll find one.