[janjan13xx]

so, recently i fell for a players trap.
any ideas on how to get him back? or how to get over it?

[brap]

Oi! Changed my answer, legally blonde revivial 2009! Go study law!

[mintcracker]

Don't get back at him, or make any kinda reaction. He's a player, he ENJOYS knowing you were affected. Best thing is hold your head up high, smile and move on with your life. That's the best revenge, when they see you're happy and they didn't affect you in the way they wanted. Even if you feel sad, just vent out the emotion in other ways. Good luck.

[peppermintsugar]

The guy I was with before my boyfriend, was playing me. He still won't even admit to it, even though he told one of my best friends at the time "she just wants to be played, so I'm playing her."

Don't get him back, because guys like that want to do what they're going, and there's no convincing them otherwise. They have to want to not play around anymore.

Go find a nice guy. My boyfriend basically stole me away from that $hit head, so I look at it like I was rescued. Find someone to rescue you.

[KanyeWEST]

dont hate the playa, hate the game

[B0SS]

Tell everybody he was small.
He'll eventually suffocate in grief and never whip out his schlong ever again.

[joxxy]

Instead of getting him back, just get over him.
There are some people out there that you just can't change.
Remind yourself that you're better than him, and there are a ton of nice guys out there just waiting to be found.

And I agree with the poster above...
Talking about his "ego" will definitely affect him lol.

[Mr. Chan]

dont hate the playa, hate the game

[peppermintsugar]

Tell everybody he was small.
He'll eventually suffocate in grief and never whip out his schlong ever again.

That never works. Everyone knows that when a girl says that she's just doing it to get him back.

[papasmurf]

dont hate the playa, hate the game

yup hate the game, but anyways you learn from it so that you don't fall for it again. Ask 1000 soompi girls that i played with...

[Mr. Chan]

yup hate the game, but anyways you learn from it so that you don't fall for it again. Ask 1000 soompi girls that i played with...

I just sent 1000 PM's to all of them. They replied asking who the hell you were. Your lies didn't work.

[A-choo]

lol, reminds meh of wat i always sayy o;

the first one falls in love -> looses

D: that's y i always control myself from liking teh other person more than they like meh .__.

i'm sowwi, this mite sound offensive.

buh, it's a way of protecting myself? :3

[ElectroHime]

ah, im sorry to hear that girl ♥

I think the best thing to do is to THINK POSITIVE(because there really are a lot of positive things about this, so YAY you!) really in situations like this, and be glad he's gone because now you have the opportunity to go find someone better for yourself ! WHOOOOO!!! *claps*
In this world there are so many people, he's not worth it, dont bother unless you want to make a fool out of yourself. If you really liked him but it's best to try and shrug it off smile (even if it's a fake smile, it eventually becomes a real smile) and move on.
When you find someone better , sucks for him if he actually cared for you.
I agree with mintcracker , go on and enjoy life , perhaps he'll notice that he wasnt able to affect you.THAT NUT CRACKER! lol

In heartbreaks it's natural to feel down and sad about this for awhile so it's ok★ !

Btw, if that's you on you're icon, Hello GORGEOUUUUSS!
there are plenty of boys out there ;D GO GET EMMMMMMMM!

[Petuhbread]

Never go for the player types, thats just asking for trouble in the future. Dont go back to him, he's not worth it. Just find distractions away from him and you'll get over him.

[Kira_Hyuu]

Honestly players play girls to get a reaction basically their attention seekers so if u pay them no attention they'll frustrate and boil....the most painful thing that a player can experience is failing to play a girl....so just move on.....pretend nothing happened.....

[Ryojikari]

Man that sucks, i feel your pain. I still want to kick that jackass for what he did. But NO, he's immature and i don't want to be like him. Just keep your head up high, he's not worth thinking about. As soon as he sees how great you are w/out him, he'll be soo "Dayummm, i failed!".

[duntellmi]

Just be happy(or even look happy) and make him regret what he did?
Its not going to be easy, but when you look happy, you actually feel happy =)

[lindarh]

well you can always pretend to be another girl by making her up and find the hottest "natural" pic anywhere on the net (get a few of them) then start chatting him up. but rememebr not to fall again for him please LOL then when his whipped over tht fake girl jst reject him?

oh sweet sweet revenge

[jL-]

Go have fun. And just realize that the game is over now and not later

[Mr. Chan]

Go have fun. And just realize that the game is over now and not later

Sorry cupcake, game is never over.