[Linnsterr]

So the question is Do you have a long time crush?
If you do what do you when you see them?

long time crush is someone who you will always have a crush on no matter what happen.
even when you in love, in a relationship, whatever ... but when you see them, he/she are the only person that matter
at that moment.

make sense?

Well I have one. I saw him at a wedding since I was one of the people that help at the desk when people walk through the door. I was surprised to see him, since i haven't seen him since his brother funeral. He then texted me when the banquet started. He wanted me to go over to his table so I did, and he introduced me to his whole family. when he got drunk that night, I stayed with him to take care of him til it was time to go home. We talked to the whole night then said good morning & that was the last time I talked to him. This always happen to us. We wouldnt see each other for a long time and when we do its like we been together for a long time. wierd much?

So again my question is Do you have one?
Im just curious, cause my friend thinks im crazy.

[xo_sugar_ox]

oh man yes! i've had a crush oh this guy for technically 4 years
i remember the very first time i saw him(first day of freshman year), my eyes enlarged to his cuteness xDD but i shrugged it off thinking it would go nowhere because from past experiences i've never gone anywhere with a guy i've only noticed from his appearance since i was too shy to start a conversation with them and they never approached me either
BUT THIS WAS DIFFERENT!!
we ended up becoming really close friends and i started developing really strong feelings for him for the whole freshman year!! xD
i never confessed to him because of fear he wouldn't like me back and it would affect our friendship, i fell for this guy at the very end of the school year who turned out to be a player and i moved away and we lost contact for 3 years...but i've always thought about him and where he was(even when i liked or was with other guys) and i wondered what would've been if i had just confessed to him. then about a month ago he appeared out of nowhere and we got in touch! i realized that i've liked him all along and now i'm so happy that i'm given a second chance to confess before it's too late!

ahah ok i'm done with my essay. just super excited to be able to share this story haha XD

[<3StrawberryPocky<3]

I GET WHAT YOU MEAN! Once, I really liked this guy for about three years, but I realized my friend liked him, too. So yeah, that ended my crush. I think I was more infatuated with the idea of having a boyfriend in middle school and his cuteness which all the girls died over. Lol. Now, there's someone I've been having my eye on for about two years. He's very sweet, and although he isn't that traditional cute/hot Asian, I apparently blush like crazy around him. -__- Even people who don't know me well ask, "why are you so red?" but they never notice it's because I just saw him walk by. God, I hate blushing. Lol.

[EHNerJI]

mmm yeah. my old best friend.
had a crush on him since grade 5.
but, i screwed things up the following year,
(uhhhh new group of friends, they didn't like him,
i was angry and trying to move on and basically cut him out of my life
while he was trying to make an effort to be my friend -____-;;)
stupid, worthless, middle school stuff ;.; i wish i was smarter then.
i was able to become friends with him again a year after THAT,
but it was never really the same =/
then, we grew apart again because of some stupid rumors.
so uhhh yeah. it's been yearsss and i don't talk to him much now.
but i really wish we did.. i'm pretty much (not completely) over him now,
a part of me would still want to be with him, though.
at least close friends again like before =/

i mean, i probably should try to get closer to him again,
because i cherished him so much as a friend
but, i don't even know where to start >.<

[brownman90561495]

yea. an almost 4 year crush. it's right there in my blog in my sig.

[xKanane_1]

The longest I've had a crush on someone for was 2 years. Now I just find myself wondering where he is because he apparently moved back to his own country :C

[Yuyu<3]

I had a crush that lasted 3 years.
I haven't seen him since....

[thua]

I know this guy that has crushed on this girl for like 7 years and ongoing (I think).
That is devotion! lol.

[dainanda123]

i crushed on a guy for 2 years...
I look back on it and it so funny to me. I wonder if I'll have another one.

[MrPower]

I rarely develop crushes, but the one I had lasted 3 years.

[youandmee]

i don't , but theres this friend i know who likes this guy for over 10 years ,
from elementary and even till now .
i really admire her for that and im super amazed .

[~Tropical.Mists]

I do! =)
But it's only because there was never a set answer and we left things in the open T_T
I still like him a lot but only when I'm reminded of him.
On good days, he rarely crosses my mind and then, I don't consider it so much as a crash.

--xoxo.
TM

[einna23]

we used to be good friends, but we grew apart but i still have feelings for him.

[ZOMGITzHibari]

I had a crush on this guy for like 2.5yrs. OMG. I was SO EMBARASSED wen I asked him out. Like the WHOLE 6th GRADE KNEW I GOT REJECTED. bhut since I entered Middle School, we went to different schools so I got over it & people 4got bout it THANK GOD !

[damyoungji]

The longest crush I ever had was for two years. It was back in grade 6 and 7.

He was a year older than me and our mothers knew each other. I even went to his house, but I never said a single word to him. When they went on a tour of the house, I refused to go his room. O-well. We were complete opposites anyway haha Elementary school crushes!

[b_pa]

2 years --> my first real crush - layo xD he looked really athletic, cute, and carried a soccer ball. I <3 SOCCER ! LOOOL i rmber telling my bestfriend about my crush & she wanted to know who it was. I pointed at him. All she saw was his back. So, she grabbed me & followed him - i ran away >< From that day on, he suspected something i think he had mistaken my friend for liking him and avoided her ? LOLOL it all ended when he had a gf :'(

the next year --> Blondie (nickname cos he was blonde-asian xD) one day, i was in the library looking for books and i happen to notice rayo (a guy who REALLY reminds me of layo O_O). i just stood there staring at him. Then i saw blondie look in my direction and turned to his friends. Then, all his friends turned around and i quickly hid behind a bookshelf - pretending to read a book (how lame) D: he left school ???

[teelee]

haha yes!
i dont even remember when i started having my eyes on him (very rough guestimation would be 4-5 years). but when i see him it's not like he's the only one in existence, it's not THAT bad yet. But yea, i just kinda forget i like him from time to time, and when i see him, all the memories rush back and the chemistry is there again. we've known each other for so long it's almost impossible to not have a crush on him. Weird thing though, I actually enjoy listening to him talk about all his girl problems (he finds its irritating I never talk about my love life---its because i dont exactly have one, i dont crush on people too easily, and i'm single). Come to think of it, i might just really admire him. he asked me out three years ago, but i'm not allowed to date, and we both know its never gonna work, i have commitmentphobia, i dont stick to anything long enough, and he deserves to have long term gf, not someone who bounces off of walls, the exact opposite of clingy (believe it or not, that is just as bad), and will probably start to like another guy very soon. I actually don't know how to describe us... we're such good friends, people think we're going out. you know those people who look like they're made for each other, but they're just not going out? i guess i'm just not ready to risk not talking to him ever again (that would happen if we break up, he's exactly the type who'd stop talking/gets really awkward).


it's too bad i moved.

[Heroine]

Think I break the current record; I've had a crush on the same guy for 6 years. I only get to see him around once a year since he lives so far away. And now, he's moving overseas soon, I probably won't see him again until a few years later.

[gracelee_5508]

Mine lasted 3 yrs.
i just forgot it like 2 months ago.. lol
that was the longest crush i've ever had

[crappy22]

is it still a crush if you confessed got rejected but still crushing on them?