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Weird Stalker at School how do i get him to stop following me around?

#1 User is offline   VietBunnyChan 

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Posted 14 October 2009 - 03:10 PM

There's this weird kid I had an advisory period with last year and he keeps staring at me and following me around in school. I have no idea who this person is at all. He's in one of my friend's classes and once went up to her and whispered "I love you" while she was packing to leave. When I was at home sick and one of my other friends sat by herself at lunch he came up to her and asked where I was and he even knew my name. When I was doing my math homework in the library he came up to me and asked if he could take a picture of me. I just kept saying no until I was so annoyed and creeped out I left. He keeps following me around! It scares me. He once followed me until I rushed into the bathroom and when I walked out he was waiting right there!

I'm really freaked out. I'd tell a security member at my school but I have no proof. What should I do? I'm too scared to be alone at school.
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Posted 14 October 2009 - 03:20 PM

Wow, that is creepy. You should take out a gun and shoot him. LOL. NO. On a more serious note, you should just threaten him by saying, "I'm going to call a security guard if you keep stalking me". Or "I don't like you, just leave me alone". Well that's I all got. :/
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Posted 14 October 2009 - 03:22 PM

Tell the school. Even though you can't prove it, they may still be able to help you out.
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Posted 14 October 2009 - 03:30 PM

Have some of your guy friends around you.
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Posted 14 October 2009 - 03:33 PM

That's just too far, tell him to GTFO and stay away from you =/
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Posted 14 October 2009 - 03:34 PM

I agree with post #2. If you feel uncomfortable with him following you, definitely tell the school. Proof or no proof, that's harassment and they WILL believe you and what not. Go talk to the security, principle, counselor, or just some adult.
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Posted 14 October 2009 - 03:35 PM

you should threaten that he better leave you alone or else you'll tell the school or police (well, police is a bit much. but still.)

if that doesn't get him away, then actually tell the school/police.
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Posted 14 October 2009 - 03:40 PM

restraining order, duh
simple as that for your simple ass
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Posted 14 October 2009 - 03:40 PM

That's scary. What is wrong with people these days?

Tell him to eff off , tell him off, get it in his head that what he's doing is not normal and is scary.
Or slap him to show how angry you are, haha. I swear, I would. If he doesn't listen to what you say get one of your guy friends to tell him off. That might work? If you're feeling unsafe, always walk with a friend.

Or, get the school involved.
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Posted 14 October 2009 - 03:40 PM

QUOTE (bear474 @ Oct 14 2009, 07:35 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
you should threaten that he better leave you alone or else you'll tell the school or police (well, police is a bit much. but still.)

if that doesn't get him away, then actually tell the school/police.


I would but I'm too freaked out to come up to him because he's always smiling when I pass him. Maybe I should tell one of my guy friends to tell him to leave me alone and then tell the school authorities.
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Posted 14 October 2009 - 03:52 PM

QUOTE (VietBunnyChan @ Oct 14 2009, 04:40 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I would but I'm too freaked out to come up to him because he's always smiling when I pass him. Maybe I should tell one of my guy friends to tell him to leave me alone and then tell the school authorities.

yeah, do that. you're right. it'd be kind of freaky to go talk to him alone. o_o
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Posted 14 October 2009 - 05:03 PM

This is what you do. First you talk to him and tell him to close his eyes and lean his head forward for a kiss. When he does that, you take I'd say about 4-5 steps back. Then you run towards him at full speed and.....FLYING KNEE!!!!!

Problem solved.
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Posted 14 October 2009 - 05:06 PM

do your friends know about this?
something similar happened to me in middle school (but he was like rank A stalker or something -__-) and my friends found out and backed me up (they even went as far as cornering him and asking what his problem was :x)



however, (my friend said this to me) if you're not feeling safe enough to be alone in school (which is supposed to be a really safe place), then there's a problem. you don't need proof to be scared or someone, he's (technically) threatening your peace at school, and if you discussed it with a counselour or something, they'd prolly do something about it
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Posted 14 October 2009 - 07:31 PM

tell one of your guy friends

we are willing to beat up random stalkers if you feel truly creeped out.
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Posted 14 October 2009 - 07:48 PM

D; that's really creepi..

I dun't think yooh should be alone anymores.

it seem so un-safe ;X

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Posted 14 October 2009 - 08:08 PM

stalk him back =P
that was a joke lol.

ummm ya... just tell him you're slanted or something. It a pretty good way as an introductory step and remember to act it out too.
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Posted 14 October 2009 - 08:10 PM

theres actually people like that at school? O.o
anyway, if i were you id go get my friends to
back me up even though I can do it myself.


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Posted 14 October 2009 - 10:25 PM

oh damn. that's creepy. you should talk to your parents, friends, and teachers so they can help you out. and i think you should stay close to pple when yur alone, so that he wont do anything bad/disturbing to you. but i think you should definitely need to talk to an adult you trust :] good luck hunn <3

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Posted 14 October 2009 - 10:29 PM

QUOTE (k3you @ Oct 14 2009, 04:20 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Wow, that is creepy. You should take out a gun and shoot him. LOL. NO. On a more serious note, you should just threaten him by saying, "I'm going to call a security guard if you keep stalking me". Or "I don't like you, just leave me alone". Well that's I all got. :/


If you don't shoot him, I will. LOL
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Posted 14 October 2009 - 10:29 PM

if u catch him doing it again walk up to him and say whatsup i see u following me around..and he'll be scared and might confess or might not even do it again..if u keep it to yourself he'll just do it again...he probably likes you
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