Interracial couple denied marriage license in La. "... most interracial marriages do not last long."
#1
Posted 15 October 2009 - 02:34 PM
"I'm not a racist. I just don't believe in mixing the races that way," Bardwell told the Associated Press on Thursday. "I have piles and piles of black friends. They come to my home, I marry them, they use my bathroom. I treat them just like everyone else."
Bardwell said he asks everyone who calls about marriage if they are a mixed race couple. If they are, he does not marry them, he said.
Bardwell said he has discussed the topic with blacks and whites, along with witnessing some interracial marriages. He came to the conclusion that most of black society does not readily accept offspring of such relationships, and neither does white society, he said.
"There is a problem with both groups accepting a child from such a marriage," Bardwell said. "I think those children suffer and I won't help put them through it."
If he did an interracial marriage for one couple, he must do the same for all, he said.
"I try to treat everyone equally," he said.
Bardwell estimates that he has refused to marry about four couples during his career, all in the past 2 1/2 years.
Beth Humphrey, 30, and 32-year-old Terence McKay, both of Hammond, say they will consult the U.S. Justice Department about filing a discrimination complaint.
Humphrey, an account manager for a marketing firm, said she and McKay, a welder, just returned to Louisiana. She plans to enroll in the University of New Orleans to pursue a masters degree in minority politics.
"That was one thing that made this so unbelievable," she said. "It's not something you expect in this day and age."
Humphrey said she called Bardwell on Oct. 6 to inquire about getting a marriage license signed. She says Bardwell's wife told her that Bardwell will not sign marriage licenses for interracial couples. Bardwell suggested the couple go to another justice of the peace in the parish who agreed to marry them.
"We are looking forward to having children," Humphrey said. "And all our friends and co-workers have been very supportive. Except for this, we're typical happy newlyweds."
"It is really astonishing and disappointing to see this come up in 2009," said American Civil Liberties Union of Louisiana attorney Katie Schwartzmann. "The Supreme Court ruled as far back as 1963 that the government cannot tell people who they can and cannot marry."
The ACLU sent a letter to the Louisiana Judiciary Committee, which oversees the state justices of the peace, asking them to investigate Bardwell and recommending "the most severe sanctions available, because such blatant bigotry poses a substantial threat of serious harm to the administration of justice."
"He knew he was breaking the law, but continued to do it," Schwartzmann said.
According to the clerk of court's office, application for a marriage license must be made three days before the ceremony because there is a 72-hour waiting period. The applicants are asked if they have previously been married. If so, they must show how the marriage ended, such as divorce.
Other than that, all they need is a birth certificate and Social Security card.
The license fee is $35, and the license must be signed by a Louisiana minister, justice of the peace or judge. The original is returned to the clerk's office.
"I've been a justice of the peace for 34 years and I don't think I've mistreated anybody," Bardwell said. "I've made some mistakes, but you have too. I didn't tell this couple they couldn't get married. I just told them I wouldn't do it."
http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20091015/ap_on_...erracial_rebuff
#2
Posted 15 October 2009 - 03:05 PM
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Most intelligent post on Soompi.
#3
Posted 15 October 2009 - 03:43 PM
Uh...
Obamas's parents separated when he was two years old and they divorced in 1964. (taken from wiki)
I think Obama wasn't a great example but I see what you were trying to get at.
He's discriminating against interracial marriages because he doesn't want to see beautiful biracial children suffering. What a
"It was tender and mild, like baby Jesus."
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#4
Posted 15 October 2009 - 03:51 PM
There are interracial couples who do divorce but there are ones that last.
This guy is prejudicing though. There's MORE than Blacks and Whites in terms of races
#5
Posted 15 October 2009 - 03:57 PM
Also, Halle Berry used to be sexy.
#6
Posted 15 October 2009 - 04:30 PM
I laughed.
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Posted 15 October 2009 - 04:58 PM
#8
Posted 15 October 2009 - 05:03 PM
the title is misleading, i thought he was getting in the actual way of them getting married. it's just that he won't do it. nothing wrong with that imo
a couple asked him to marry them, and he said he won't do it. so what? there's plenty of people who will. making a big deal out of this is like complaining a hot dog vendor refused to sell to you because of your race. basically who gives a mini cooper? there's plenty of other hot dog vendors who will sell you a hot dog.
#9
Posted 15 October 2009 - 05:14 PM
He's not interfering and he does not want to be interfered..
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i'm not breaking the sign rule..
#10
Posted 15 October 2009 - 05:22 PM
Truth.
Me and my black boyfriend wouldn't want to be married by a racist priest anyway.
Okay, so a lot of interracial couples divorce. Heads up: so do a lot of couples of the SAME race. A lot of couples divorce, PERIOD.
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Posted 15 October 2009 - 05:51 PM
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Posted 15 October 2009 - 06:15 PM
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#14
Posted 15 October 2009 - 06:19 PM
Whatever.
"Stick to your own kind, yar!"
"It was tender and mild, like baby Jesus."
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Posted 15 October 2009 - 06:20 PM
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Posted 15 October 2009 - 06:41 PM
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Posted 15 October 2009 - 08:54 PM
#18
Posted 15 October 2009 - 08:58 PM
Glory is forever
#19
Posted 15 October 2009 - 10:13 PM
He's not interfering and he does not want to be interfered..
I thought there weren't some good reasonable comments about this, but I read yours and felt vindicated.
#20
Posted 15 October 2009 - 10:19 PM
Reasonable?
Don't be ridiculous. Denying anyone basic rights solely because of their race is far from reasonable. This is blatant discrimination.
"It was tender and mild, like baby Jesus."
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