Would you ever do this? preferably guys..
#1
Posted 15 October 2009 - 10:53 PM
1) It takes 20 minutes from your house to his/her house. Would you drive there early in the morning just to drive him/her to school and back and to work and back every single day?
2) If she/he is mad or upset at you. Would you go down on your knees, pawing your hands out, giving your puppy dog face and whimpering sorry just because you know that would make him/her smile?
3) If she/he is working. Would you go out and buy her something you know she likes to eat and deliver it directly to her work just because you wanted an excuse to see him/her?
4) If you are hungry and your friends want to eat but she/he is still working. Would you tell your friends that you are going to wait til he/she gets off work just to have dinner with her and ask her about her day at work?
5) If all your friends are going out to a party/club and you are invited. Would you tell them that you are busy but you just rather do nothing with your girl/boy friend?
6) If you were a heavy smoker for 5 years and your best friends asked you to come have a smoke. Would you tell your friends NO because you remember him/her saying that you should quit?
7) If you had an ex girl/boy friend of 4 years. Would you be able to yell at him/her just because he/she messaged you asking you if you guys could be on good terms but it almost cost you your current relationship?
8) If it was your 6th month anniversary. Would you buy him/her something that cost $2000.00 just because you know she/he wanted it?
9) If you had a best friend from your childhood. Would you be able to stop hanging out or talking to your best friend just because your girl/boy friend doesn't like them?
10) If you lost him/her and wanted him/her back. Would you sneak into his/her house and lay out rose peddles forming a heart on their bed? Would you go down on your knees in front of all his/her friends proposing a tiffany&co promise ring asking for him/her back? Would you cry to your friends about him/her? Would you drive 4 hours away and back just to buy him/her a puppy and surprising him/her with it not knowing whether he/she will take you back? Would you still try after doing all this when he/she still didn't take you back?
I was just wondering because my ex boyfriend did all that for me and I didn't appreciate any of it.. : (
#2
Posted 15 October 2009 - 11:00 PM
#3
Posted 15 October 2009 - 11:08 PM
1) It takes 20 minutes from your house to his/her house. Would you drive there early in the morning just to drive him/her to school and back and to work and back every single day?
2) If she/he is mad or upset at you. Would you go down on your knees, pawing your hands out, giving your puppy dog face and whimpering sorry just because you know that would make him/her smile?
3) If she/he is working. Would you go out and buy her something you know she likes to eat and deliver it directly to her work just because you wanted an excuse to see him/her?
4) If you are hungry and your friends want to eat but she/he is still working. Would you tell your friends that you are going to wait til he/she gets off work just to have dinner with her and ask her about her day at work?
5) If all your friends are going out to a party/club and you are invited. Would you tell them that you are busy but you just rather do nothing with your girl/boy friend?
6) If you were a heavy smoker for 5 years and your best friends asked you to come have a smoke. Would you tell your friends NO because you remember him/her saying that you should quit?
7) If you had an ex girl/boy friend of 4 years. Would you be able to yell at him/her just because he/she messaged you asking you if you guys could be on good terms but it almost cost you your current relationship?
8) If it was your 6th month anniversary. Would you buy him/her something that cost $2000.00 just because you know she/he wanted it?
9) If you had a best friend from your childhood. Would you be able to stop hanging out or talking to your best friend just because your girl/boy friend doesn't like them?
10) If you lost him/her and wanted him/her back. Would you sneak into his/her house and lay out rose peddles forming a heart on their bed? Would you go down on your knees in front of all his/her friends proposing a tiffany&co promise ring asking for him/her back? Would you cry to your friends about him/her? Would you drive 4 hours away and back just to buy him/her a puppy and surprising him/her with it not knowing whether he/she will take you back? Would you still try after doing all this when he/she still didn't take you back?
I was just wondering because my ex boyfriend did all that for me and I didn't appreciate any of it.. : (
No on 8 and 10. yes to all.
my thoughts exactly.
#4
Posted 16 October 2009 - 01:17 AM
yes. maybe not every morning. because i'm not even a morning person. but i do wake up at 9, even though our date is usually set at noon or something. just to get ready. >w<; i don't know if he would do the same though hm.
2) If she/he is mad or upset at you. Would you go down on your knees, pawing your hands out, giving your puppy dog face and whimpering sorry just because you know that would make him/her smile?
what the hell? act like a dog? no thanks. i would just kiss him and apologize (if i was in the wrong). or do something weird. i don't think my boyfriend would go on his knees and act like a dog either...
3) If she/he is working. Would you go out and buy her something you know she likes to eat and deliver it directly to her work just because you wanted an excuse to see him/her?
yep. sometimes i'll drive 40 minutes to his college with food. lols. i think my boyfriend would do this.
4) If you are hungry and your friends want to eat but she/he is still working. Would you tell your friends that you are going to wait til he/she gets off work just to have dinner with her and ask her about her day at work?
yeah. ;0 i think my boyfriend would do this. although he didn't wait for me today. :l but whatever.
5) If all your friends are going out to a party/club and you are invited. Would you tell them that you are busy but you just rather do nothing with your girl/boy friend?
yeah. not really into parties. i would rather just bum around with my boyfriend. or maybe go with my boyfriend to check it out.
6) If you were a heavy smoker for 5 years and your best friends asked you to come have a smoke. Would you tell your friends NO because you remember him/her saying that you should quit?
yes.
7) If you had an ex girl/boy friend of 4 years. Would you be able to yell at him/her just because he/she messaged you asking you if you guys could be on good terms but it almost cost you your current relationship?
er, i wouldn't yell. i'd just be like, uh. i probably wouldn't take up the offer though. ex's are of the past.
8) If it was your 6th month anniversary. Would you buy him/her something that cost $2000.00 just because you know she/he wanted it?
no. i don't have that kind of money. :| maybe if i actually had a well-paying job. i usually spend more on him than i do myself. he doesn't have that kind of money either, rofl. we're both poor college kids.
9) If you had a best friend from your childhood. Would you be able to stop hanging out or talking to your best friend just because your girl/boy friend doesn't like them?
i'm not sure. my boyfriend has a childhood friend who's a girl. not really fond of her. and he knows i don't like her. and her saying cute things to him (i.e. let's hold hands/let's get married/our kids are gonna be so cute) doesn't help her... but i don't think he would stop talking to her just because i wasn't fond of her.
10) If you lost him/her and wanted him/her back. Would you sneak into his/her house and lay out rose peddles forming a heart on their bed? Would you go down on your knees in front of all his/her friends proposing a tiffany&co promise ring asking for him/her back? Would you cry to your friends about him/her? Would you drive 4 hours away and back just to buy him/her a puppy and surprising him/her with it not knowing whether he/she will take you back? Would you still try after doing all this when he/she still didn't take you back?
..i wouldn't go that far.. i don't think my boyfriend would either. :/
but that sucks for you.
for losing such a great guy.
i guess he'll be making some other girl really happy. ;0
#5
Posted 16 October 2009 - 01:43 AM
Depends on how easy is it for him to get there by himself? If it normally takes him wayyy longer to get there taking public transport or something, then yes. Gawd it takes me 2 hours to get to uni. I wish someone would do this for me
2) If she/he is mad or upset at you. Would you go down on your knees, pawing your hands out, giving your puppy dog face and whimpering sorry just because you know that would make him/her smile?
uh. That's really degrading. I wouldn't do that, and I don't think I'd want to see anyone else do that either. Why would I want to put anyone in such a pathetic and humiliating situation...
3) If she/he is working. Would you go out and buy her something you know she likes to eat and deliver it directly to her work just because you wanted an excuse to see him/her?
Haha yeah that's really sweet, yes I would.
4) If you are hungry and your friends want to eat but she/he is still working. Would you tell your friends that you are going to wait til he/she gets off work just to have dinner with her and ask her about her day at work?
Depends on how long I have to wait. I'd probably just want to eat straight away though....and then tell my bf he can drop by later at the restaurant.
5) If all your friends are going out to a party/club and you are invited. Would you tell them that you are busy but you just rather do nothing with your girl/boy friend?
If I really wanted to go the party, then no. Don't really like the idea of doing nothing. It doesn't matter who it's with, I'd rather opt for the party (if I did really want to go).
6) If you were a heavy smoker for 5 years and your best friends asked you to come have a smoke. Would you tell your friends NO because you remember him/her saying that you should quit?
Not really. If I was actually in that situation I'd say no because of my own personal motivation, it wouldn't be solely because of my bf's influence.
7) If you had an ex girl/boy friend of 4 years. Would you be able to yell at him/her just because he/she messaged you asking you if you guys could be on good terms but it almost cost you your current relationship?
Well I wouldn't yell, I'd just ignore the ex.
8) If it was your 6th month anniversary. Would you buy him/her something that cost $2000.00 just because you know she/he wanted it?
no......lol
9) If you had a best friend from your childhood. Would you be able to stop hanging out or talking to your best friend just because your girl/boy friend doesn't like them?
No, what the hell? Why would I let someone else choose the people I talk to/hang out with? I wouldn't want to sacrifice such a strong friendship on someone else's whim. Unless it was a male friend who kept on flirting with me or something, I wouldn't hang out with him so much.
10) If you lost him/her and wanted him/her back. Would you sneak into his/her house and lay out rose peddles forming a heart on their bed? Would you go down on your knees in front of all his/her friends proposing a tiffany&co promise ring asking for him/her back? Would you cry to your friends about him/her? Would you drive 4 hours away and back just to buy him/her a puppy and surprising him/her with it not knowing whether he/she will take you back? Would you still try after doing all this when he/she still didn't take you back?
Er...whoa. If someone doesn't want me, why would I put them on a huge guilt trip/practically force them to take me back? It's someone else's decision, I can't force them. No matter how much I like someone I have no right to do all this excessive crap to make them feel "touched" and so overwhelmed by my undying love for them. I'd also be making him look like a HUGE douchebag if he didn't take me back after I did all this for him- and that puts even more pressure on him to do so, if his reputation was at stake.
#6
Posted 16 October 2009 - 02:47 AM
1) It takes 20 minutes from your house to his/her house. Would you drive there early in the morning just to drive him/her to school and back and to work and back every single day?
no what the john tesh. huge waste of gas and time. AND you have to wake up early? no, john tesh that
2) If she/he is mad or upset at you. Would you go down on your knees, pawing your hands out, giving your puppy dog face and whimpering sorry just because you know that would make him/her smile?
not only is that degrading but also really gay
3) If she/he is working. Would you go out and buy her something you know she likes to eat and deliver it directly to her work just because you wanted an excuse to see him/her?
why the john tesh would i need an excuse to see anyone? john tesh that.
4) If you are hungry and your friends want to eat but she/he is still working. Would you tell your friends that you are going to wait til he/she gets off work just to have dinner with her and ask her about her day at work?
no, bro's before hoes. i doubt her day at work is interesting enough to wait that long to just john teshing eat.
5) If all your friends are going out to a party/club and you are invited. Would you tell them that you are busy but you just rather do nothing with your girl/boy friend?
lie to my friends and turn down an invitation to go have fun for nothing? no, once again, john tesh that mini cooper.
6) If you were a heavy smoker for 5 years and your best friends asked you to come have a smoke. Would you tell your friends NO because you remember him/her saying that you should quit?
no, it's not like they'd find out. it's one smoke. holy mini cooper.
7) If you had an ex girl/boy friend of 4 years. Would you be able to yell at him/her just because he/she messaged you asking you if you guys could be on good terms but it almost cost you your current relationship?
she has to be really john teshing insecure if a message could cost me my current relationship. and yell at them for wanting to be on good terms? what the john tesh. they must have some sort of issue to want me to yell at someone for something small like that.
8) If it was your 6th month anniversary. Would you buy him/her something that cost $2000.00 just because you know she/he wanted it?
6th months is nothing. $2000? what a HUGE waste of money. i'd rather use that money on booze and stupid mini cooper like a new fridge to put the booze in.
9) If you had a best friend from your childhood. Would you be able to stop hanging out or talking to your best friend just because your girl/boy friend doesn't like them?
no, once again they must be really john teshing insecure to want to break up a good friendship for no reason. bros before hoes
10) If you lost him/her and wanted him/her back. Would you sneak into his/her house and lay out rose peddles forming a heart on their bed? Would you go down on your knees in front of all his/her friends proposing a tiffany&co promise ring asking for him/her back? Would you cry to your friends about him/her? Would you drive 4 hours away and back just to buy him/her a puppy and surprising him/her with it not knowing whether he/she will take you back? Would you still try after doing all this when he/she still didn't take you back?
that is incredibly embarrassing and a huge waste of time for someone that wants to control your life and make you turn on your friends for no good reason. crying is also for pussies. what the john tesh. your ex boyfriend and you must have some really really deep psychological problems or something.
I was just wondering because my ex boyfriend did all that for me and I didn't appreciate any of it.. : (
#8
Posted 16 October 2009 - 07:09 AM
#9
Posted 16 October 2009 - 07:50 AM
What do you mean?
#11
Posted 16 October 2009 - 09:24 AM
most of my answers are NO. so i don't get the award.
#12
Posted 16 October 2009 - 09:41 AM
1) It takes 20 minutes from your house to his/her house. Would you drive there early in the morning just to drive him/her to school and back and to work and back every single day?
No. i'm not a morning person nor will i ever become one regardless of who you may be
2) If she/he is mad or upset at you. Would you go down on your knees, pawing your hands out, giving your puppy dog face and whimpering sorry just because you know that would make him/her smile?
No. ... i'm not a pinkberry
3) If she/he is working. Would you go out and buy her something you know she likes to eat and deliver it directly to her work just because you wanted an excuse to see him/her?
Yes. why not?
4) If you are hungry and your friends want to eat but she/he is still working. Would you tell your friends that you are going to wait til he/she gets off work just to have dinner with her and ask her about her day at work?
No. I'd eat a little bit with friends then little later.
5) If all your friends are going out to a party/club and you are invited. Would you tell them that you are busy but you just rather do nothing with your girl/boy friend?
No. doing nothing is boring
6) If you were a heavy smoker for 5 years and your best friends asked you to come have a smoke. Would you tell your friends NO because you remember him/her saying that you should quit?
Yes. if i quit, i quit
7) If you had an ex girl/boy friend of 4 years. Would you be able to yell at him/her just because he/she messaged you asking you if you guys could be on good terms but it almost cost you your current relationship?
No. why yell at a text message? freedom of speech is still in play as far as i recall
8) If it was your 6th month anniversary. Would you buy him/her something that cost $2000.00 just because you know she/he wanted it?
No. i'd buy something along the lines of 200.00
9) If you had a best friend from your childhood. Would you be able to stop hanging out or talking to your best friend just because your girl/boy friend doesn't like them?
No. bros before hoes. but more seriously, girls come and go but you only get 1 childhood best friend
10) If you lost him/her and wanted him/her back. Would you sneak into his/her house and lay out rose peddles forming a heart on their bed? Would you go down on your knees in front of all his/her friends proposing a tiffany&co promise ring asking for him/her back? Would you cry to your friends about him/her? Would you drive 4 hours away and back just to buy him/her a puppy and surprising him/her with it not knowing whether he/she will take you back? Would you still try after doing all this when he/she still didn't take you back?
No. that's like john teshing stalker status. and creepy.
I was just wondering because my ex boyfriend did all that for me and I didn't appreciate any of it.. : (
didn't appreciate? well that sux. i know it'll never happen, but i hope i never get into a relationship with you.
#13
Posted 16 October 2009 - 10:20 AM
#14
Posted 16 October 2009 - 10:50 AM
Damn i hate girls who doesnt know how to appreciate good things.
#15
Posted 16 October 2009 - 11:36 AM
I'm a girl, but guys really don't have to pull of those kind of stunts to be appreciated by me
Omg that's cruel man! I can't believe he did that for you, no offense, but what how would you feel if your childhood friend would stop being friends with you just because of some guy or girl?!
"I am simply myself. No more and no less. And I want only to be free." - Ashelia B'nargin Dalmasca (Final Fantasy XII)
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#16
Posted 16 October 2009 - 11:45 AM
I will only do things for my gf because I want tooooooo and because I love her, and not because I have tooooooo or because she wanted or expected things out of me.
If that is what I have to do in order to keep you or make you happy, then I say...HOMIE DON"T PLAY THAT!
Relationship is about give and take, and not just receiving.
Side note: If I was single right now, and if I dated a girl like you, I would definitely put you in your place...No doubt.
Just remember...What goes around, comes around
#18
Posted 16 October 2009 - 12:06 PM
Ironically, my ex did more little gestures for me but somehow my bf never had to b/c I just know he loves me without him overcompensating. Besides, I can't do all these things for him so I think its' only fair that I take what I can give..
* = a very close friend of his was just repeatedly rude to me so he just wrote him off for a while. I don't think it was out of line for me to tell him that it would piss me off if he continued to treat his friend with respect when his friend showed none at me. It's fine now and his friend and I are on much better terms.. but I can kind of see how #9 isn't so ridiculous.
And I think you owe your ex an apology for taking him for granted. wtf.. $2,000... is he made of money? lol
#19
Posted 16 October 2009 - 12:13 PM
You, my net friend, has lost someone who treasures you more than himself. You will never ever ever find another guy like him ever ever again. How sad.
Lets just say, most of the stuff you asked, I would do most of them for my bf except for some of them.
I can answer for my bf too, some of them he will do, but most of them he doesn't do and will never do.
#20
Posted 16 October 2009 - 01:36 PM
1) It takes 20 minutes from your house to his/her house. Would you drive there early in the morning just to drive him/her to school and back and to work and back every single day?
For school. Yes. For work, no. Unless on a weekend
2) If she/he is mad or upset at you. Would you go down on your knees, pawing your hands out, giving your puppy dog face and whimpering sorry just because you know that would make him/her smile?
As a real apology, no. To get her to smile, yes.
3) If she/he is working. Would you go out and buy her something you know she likes to eat and deliver it directly to her work just because you wanted an excuse to see him/her?
I might. If I wasn't doing anything, or if she was the only one working.
4) If you are hungry and your friends want to eat but she/he is still working. Would you tell your friends that you are going to wait til he/she gets off work just to have dinner with her and ask her about her day at work?
If we had prior plans. Then yes.
5) If all your friends are going out to a party/club and you are invited. Would you tell them that you are busy but you just rather do nothing with your girl/boy friend?
Yeah for sure. I have better nights with my girlfriend then at a party..
6) If you were a heavy smoker for 5 years and your best friends asked you to come have a smoke. Would you tell your friends NO because you remember him/her saying that you should quit?
Couldn't put myself in that place..
7) If you had an ex girl/boy friend of 4 years. Would you be able to yell at him/her just because he/she messaged you asking you if you guys could be on good terms but it almost cost you your current relationship?
Could I yell at my ex? Nawh.. Nawh. I can't yell at anyone.
8) If it was your 6th month anniversary. Would you buy him/her something that cost $2000.00 just because you know she/he wanted it?
$2000 is pushing it way too much..
9) If you had a best friend from your childhood. Would you be able to stop hanging out or talking to your best friend just because your girl/boy friend doesn't like them?
No. Never.
10) If you lost him/her and wanted him/her back. Would you sneak into his/her house and lay out rose peddles forming a heart on their bed? Would you go down on your knees in front of all his/her friends proposing a tiffany&co promise ring asking for him/her back? Would you cry to your friends about him/her? Would you drive 4 hours away and back just to buy him/her a puppy and surprising him/her with it not knowing whether he/she will take you back? Would you still try after doing all this when he/she still didn't take you back?
Sounds all too materialistic. She (you?) should of taken him back for him, not for the gifts.
I was just wondering because my ex boyfriend did all that for me and I didn't appreciate any of it.. : (




























