[LozloPengo]

Can you still like.. or have a crush on someone.. even though you have a gf or bf? i was just wondering if that is possible

[Hwan]

Its possible,
but it depends on what the status is between you and your gf/bf.

Its likely possible to like someone else, however its weird if u have a crush on someone else
A crush means you fell in love with that person right; getting in love with 2 persons at the same time is quite... well... rare xD

[xjuiiccy]

It is possible because even when a person doesn't have feelings for their gf / bf anymore, they might still be with them just for the sake of having a gf / bf, not wanting to hurt them, or fear of getting rejected by the other person . But if someone were to say, " I like both of them ." I, personally, don't think that's possible . Instead I look at it as a person has an attraction to others, but likes one person .

[hannieoon]

Well..... you can... but as long as you don't act on it, it shouldnt be a big deal. Like if it's a harmless crush like.... see him/her as an eye candy. But why would want to complicate your relationship by having another person that you like? Cuz then you'd be thinking how you want to be together with that other person and then it'll sour your relationship with your significant other. Let me put it this way... how would you feel if your bf/gf had a crush on someone else? I would be pissed.

[lilian21]

There's no way to control whether or not you crush on someone, but I think the biggest thing is you don't cheat. I had a huge crush on this guy when I first started going out with my current bf, and I guess my bf knew it too. I think my bf also had a crush on this other girl, his so called "best friend", he talked to her on aim every day and hung out with her a lot. But eventually, I had to distance myself from the guy, and my bf stopped talking to that girl. Oh well, that's what happens when you're not single :/

[peppermintsugar]

It's possible if you allow it to happen.
Making friends with other guys while you're in a relationship with your boyfriend isn't really a very smart thing to do if you want the relationship to stay strong and you don't want your feelings to stray.

[xo_sugar_ox]

that's possible.
it's ok to find someone attractive when you're in a relationship but don't let your attraction get out of control!

[thisismyv]

Let me say this: DON'T LET IT HAPPEN!!
I myself am going through this, but it's become so complicated and over-emotional for everyone. If you really love your bf/gf, don't let it happen... pleaseeeee don't act on it! You'll only end up hurting everyone.

[jho]

Of course it's possible. You can't control your feelings. But what you can control, is how you act upon these feelings. Don't do anything and it's fine.

[brownman90561495]

it's just a crush. it's not like you're going to run to him/her and and make out with him/her.

[junkers]

Are you a virgin? This is such a stupid question

[thisismyv]

^ What does being a virgin have anything to do with it? o_o

[taebins_luver]

i asked my bf the same question once and he says it's 'emotional cheating'
it's like, every time you kiss your bf, you think of him in his place, and it's wrong.

i'm pretty sure it can happen,
just be smart about it.

[Mr. Chan]

Are you a virgin? This is such a stupid question

I agree with your statement.

^ What does being a virgin have anything to do with it? o_o

Serious?

[jaeka]

^ What does being a virgin have anything to do with it? o_o

This. :\ I don't understand why being a virgin has anything to do with this. o_O

Aren't crushes just, admirations? Crush might have different connotations over here, but to me a crush is just an admiration. I wouldn't take it as far to say that, if you've a crush on somebody you think about them whilst kissing your boyfriend. That's a whole different ball game. If you're thinking about the person whom you have a crush on then it's definitely something more than a crush and you're obviously with the wrong person. =P
Of course, I'm not justifying this nor saying that I see it as something little. In my opinion, it's okay to have a crush (which to me is just admiration from afar) but to act on it is taboo. When I say act on it, I mean as to openly express your crush. I can imagine if you swapped the situation around, i.e Boyfriend has a crush on girl and is open about it, you'd be on Soompi making a topic about how wrong it is and getting responses such as "dump him."

[WallaceJiang]

yeah it happens and trust me it means you don't really LIKE your current s/o
and it'll cause serious problems in the future especially if the two girls are friends.............

[Shaneira]

not very nice if it happens, but yeah it can...but if you see someone who might be your type and just say "hey, he's good-looking" and don't think about that person any further then it's nothing to worry about. i do it sometimes and even tell my bf about it too. for me it's just "appreciating" someone's looks without wasting any other thoughts about the person.

[kg123]

Of course you can..but would you like if your bf/gf told you they had a crush on somebody else?

[secretwishess]

yeah it is. thats what happen to me when i still have a boyfriend.
but than the " crush " just qot alittle too much & i end up havinq more feelinqs for
the crush. TT-TT
but than it just depends on how much you love your boyfriend& how
much you like your crush