[distinctive]

so about two days ago, my friend was talking to a guy a like. she started trying to convince him to go out with me, saying stuff like, "oh, but you guys look so cute together! go ask her out!" and things like that. he responded saying, "no! NEVER. plus I already like a girl actually in my grade."

to be honest, i was crushed. C:

so the day after, the same friend (who tried to convince my crush) told me i should confess, telling me that i had nothing to lose, seeing as he kind of already rejected me. so this is what i said:

"the reason why lexi was messing with you with the couple crap was because she knows that i like you. i know that you don't like me, and i'm perfectly okay with that. i'm okay if you don't talk to me again."
the only thing he said was, "?? o.o" and after that, he hasn't spoken to me.

how do i get him to speak to me? i need to know if he understands.

*sorry if this is extremely rushed and .. it doesn't make sense, i don't know what i'm thinking.

[Amethist]

I'm sorry to hear about the rejection. But you were really brave to say that to him, and I guess you should let it be. If he did like you he would have said he liked you right? Maybe he doesn't speak to you, because you said you were ok with that.

[illicitmercy]

so about two days ago, my friend was talking to a guy a like. she started trying to convince him to go out with me, saying stuff like, "oh, but you guys look so cute together! go ask her out!" and things like that. he responded saying, "no! NEVER. plus I already like a girl actually in my grade."

to be honest, i was crushed. C:

so the day after, the same friend (who tried to convince my crush) told me i should confess, telling me that i had nothing to lose, seeing as he kind of already rejected me. so this is what i said:

"the reason why lexi was messing with you with the couple crap was because she knows that i like you. i know that you don't like me, and i'm perfectly okay with that. i'm okay if you don't talk to me again."
the only thing he said was, "?? o.o" and after that, he hasn't spoken to me.

how do i get him to speak to me? i need to know if he understands.

*sorry if this is extremely rushed and .. it doesn't make sense, i don't know what i'm thinking.

Mmm. You even said that its ok if you guys don't talk again. Wow that's a little extreme. Anyways I'm sorry, but as a guy I really don't like it when a girl has to tell me that. Like if I knew she liked me, but just said that I understand its to make me know that they're completely fine with it. I think guys just hate it when a girl's friends go and speaks out for her.
IMO: He either forgot about your friend messing around with him and was like O.o What? OR Hes just playing cool. You have tell him that you guys could remain friends and all. (although it would be a little awkward) and don't try TOO hard to get him to reply you. Just do it naturally.

Good luck.

[damyoungji]

I'm sorry if I sound mean about this, but you have only yourself to blame for him not talking to you. After all, you included in your message at the end that you are fine with it if he doesn't talk to you again. Maybe he wants to, but because of what you wrote, he thinks it is better to leave you alone. But on the bright side of things, hopefully he doesn't take it seriously and after giving you some time alone, he will start talking to you again.

Props for being brave with the confession when you knew about the indirect rejection though! Sometimes it is better to get things off our chest when we already know the outcome (: I hope things will work out between the two of you. One crush should not ruin a friendship (unless someone was using the person that likes them).

[Murdaaa]

lulz..........................

[distinctive]

Amethist: thanks. and i think i will let it be. i'm just glad i told him before he might get into a relationship with the girl he likes..

illicitmercy: thanks for the help, and for your pov as a guy and when i said it was okay if he didn't talk to me, i meant that he didn't have to try and talk to me and try to get over the awkward-ness. x3 if that even makes sense..? lol.

damyoungji: yessss. that was a mistake on my part, lol. and you don't sound mean about it, (: i really do hope we can become friends again, but .. idk.

[soyabeangirl16]

well, it does matter (i think) how good friends you were before.
because when i told my friend i liked him, he was like, i still want to be friends, but i just dont like you like that.
so i think you should go to him and clarify what you meant about not talking to you. and then give him some time. he seems confused xD

[courtneyy]

hm.
honestly.
i have no clue why your friend told you to confess to him -___-''
i think she kind of in her own way *unintentional/intentionally, i think it's the former though* set you up to get hurt.


try to move on. i know it's hard.
but find someone that's better than that guy~ there's more fishies in the sea ^^

[PRRRETTYGLiTTERRR]

he prob feels bad to you and thats why he doesnt wanna talk??

[Mannosuke]

i know that you don't like me, and i'm perfectly okay with that.

That's like an officer pulling me over and I'm all "I know I was speeding..." when all he wanted to do was say hi.

He could've been screwing with lexi cause he's SHY.

[Kreize]

I have to go with what some of the people said above. It is your fault for telling him it's okay not to talk to you.

Seriously when girls do this it makes me feel like crap and put me in an EXTREMELY uncomfortable position.

And I'm sorry but don't you think you shouldn't have confessed? It was obvious he wasn't going to say yes...

Me for example, when someone liked me and they know I wouldn't ever feel the same way because I told a friend or some other way like telling everyone I'm not interested in anyone, I prefer they did not confess. Those that do confess usually takes the relationship down with them because now both of us can't face each other like friends. It really puts me in a bad position. I always want to stay as friends but when people do that... it just ruins it. I got disconnected from a lot of friends because of this.

[kg123]

Your friend messed up big time..I dont like to approach my crush with other ppl's help...its too obvious..next time try to do it yourself [unless you asked her for help]..and I dont get why u confessed since you already knew he didnt like you and by doing it you would make things awkward...

[ling_ling]

Move on ~ you know he aint interested you said its okay if he dont talk to you
so end of

move on.