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would you wait or not? and is it worth it to wait?

#1 User is offline   xo_sugar_ox 

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Posted 16 October 2009 - 04:52 PM

if you asked someone you liked if they liked you or what they thought of you, and their response was something like: "i don't know exactly what are my feelings for you right now" would you wait for them to figure out their feelings for you, or would you just think it's not worth it to wait and move on?
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#2 User is offline   Floatii 

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Posted 16 October 2009 - 04:58 PM

hmm i would probably wait. =P
i mean, if you really like that person, even if you don't want to wait, you'd probably end up waiting anyway if you know what i mean. ahahha
sometimes you want to get over someone but it doesn't always work like that.

and even if you decide to move on, a little part of you might still be waiting. =P
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Posted 16 October 2009 - 05:49 PM

I'd rather move on because who knows when that time will be when that person finally figures it out. You're just going to let other opportunities pass you up. Why take the time to play the field while you give that person some time to think?
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Posted 16 October 2009 - 05:52 PM

"i don't know exactly what are my feelings for you right now"
it sounds like hes gunna take a long itme if u wait but if u really like him then wait haha,. but be sure to know when to move on
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Posted 16 October 2009 - 06:00 PM

Honestly, I mostly likely wouldn't. By then I might be having feelings for someone else. Plus I don't really understand the concept of it lol. I never understood why this one guy I know always tells me he'll wait for my decision when we have this on off "I like you" thing going on.
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Posted 16 October 2009 - 06:01 PM

Depends how you feel for them
If you REALLY liked them, you would wait
Maybe it was too sudden.. you need to build relationship first or it'll never work out in the end
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Posted 16 October 2009 - 08:02 PM

Do you think it's worth it to wait? ie: are there any better things you can do with your time?

Most people say all these great, ambitious things like saving the world or playing FF7, but if all of them did what they said they'd do, civilization would probably advance so much faster.
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Posted 16 October 2009 - 08:14 PM

I would give them two seconds until I shoot them with my bazooka. Nah, I'd wait if they were someone I really valued. If it was an insignificant infatuation or something, I wouldn't even confess. But if you think about it, confessing to someone and having them actually need more than 24 hours to decided whether or not they like you CAN be an indication they never considered you in that way. -__-
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Posted 16 October 2009 - 08:18 PM

i'd wait cause there's a chance , beside if i liked him , then yeeah biggrin.gif
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Posted 16 October 2009 - 08:20 PM

if you really really REALLY like that person, I suppose you should wait~ but then, if someone else catches your eye, don't bother with waiting;; also, imo if a person likes someone else, they definitely don't need 'a while' to think about it~
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Posted 16 October 2009 - 08:38 PM

if someone said that i might get a little annoyed and be like "you either know or you don't." lol that's just me though. it really depends though, lol.
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Posted 16 October 2009 - 09:19 PM

If I heard something like that, I'd assume that it's a nicer way to say, "I'm not interested in you." and I'd move on.
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Posted 17 October 2009 - 02:44 AM

If it was me, i'll wait until my feelings for him is gone...or until i like someone else? lol
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Posted 17 October 2009 - 03:01 AM

I say as an indication that I'm not interested ><
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Posted 17 October 2009 - 10:38 AM

Wells. it all depends on how much you like that person
if you really like him than you would wait.
i would choose to wait too if i like him a wholee alot
but if its not a whole lot, just move on. theres plenty out there

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Posted 17 October 2009 - 02:55 PM

QUOTE (Floatii @ Oct 17 2009, 01:58 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
hmm i would probably wait. =P
i mean, if you really like that person, even if you don't want to wait, you'd probably end up waiting anyway if you know what i mean. ahahha
sometimes you want to get over someone but it doesn't always work like that.

and even if you decide to move on, a little part of you might still be waiting. =P

I agree. If I like the person enough I'd probably end up waiting regardless of if I actually wanted to or not.
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Posted 17 October 2009 - 07:00 PM

QUOTE (Floatii @ Oct 17 2009, 08:58 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
hmm i would probably wait. =P
i mean, if you really like that person, even if you don't want to wait, you'd probably end up waiting anyway if you know what i mean. ahahha
sometimes you want to get over someone but it doesn't always work like that.

and even if you decide to move on, a little part of you might still be waiting. =P


agreed. you would INVOLUNTARILY wait to death if you really really really like this girl.

but in some very rare circumstances, you would move on with a VERY VERY heavy heart. that's what happened to me. but it's not that i asked this girl and told me she was still trying to sort her feelings out.
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Posted 17 October 2009 - 09:05 PM

It you really like him and think he's worth waiting for, then do that. If you think it's a waste of time when you could be dating another guy, move on.
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Posted 18 October 2009 - 12:47 AM

I would wait :]

buh, there's a time limit, maibe a month? o;

personally, i would not tell them i like them first >< becuz i r a girl, lol

Hmm, dun't wait for too long,becuz they juss mite be trickin yooh, n feeling proud that yooh only like them for such a long time wifout any return o;

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Posted 18 October 2009 - 01:08 AM

i would move on. i would treat it as a nice way to say he's not interested.
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