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#1 User is offline   Keion 

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Posted 24 October 2009 - 08:37 PM

I know there are arguments in regards to whether or not smoking is a turn off or not...but my question here is whether or not the excessive use of marijuana is considered a turn on or not.

I'm not really asking if individuals with an addictive personality are attractive, but just individuals who smoke a lot of marijuana.

Understandably, this is one of those questions where there will be a lot of bias...especially from stupid people who think marijuana is really bad for you. So because of this issue, may I kindly request that people who actually smoke marijuana reply to this? If you don't smoke, but you're one of those people who don't see marijuana as a bad thing...then please respond too.

So let's imagine a scenario. Let's say you meet a guy whos nice and all, then you find out he's pretty much always high. Do you find this a turn on or do you find this a turn off?...and do tell me why.

I guess the same thing can go for girls too.

Being that I'm a guy, I personally don't find it to be either a turn on or turn off. I consider her smoking habbit a nice little pointer, which pretty much states, in big red neon lights, "This is going to be great fun".
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#2 User is offline   foxytoe 

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Posted 24 October 2009 - 09:11 PM

hey, there's a fetish for everything...

if you find a chick taking a dump on someone's chest, would you find it a turn on? well, someone will...
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#3 User is offline   binjoo 

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Posted 24 October 2009 - 09:12 PM

I don't find marijuana a problem (I've tried it before). And if you guys can be smoking buddies, then that's alright. But, if the guy is high all the time, then I find it a turn off. I don't mind if he does it once in a while, but interacting with him when he's high constantly means that he's not always totally there and I don't want to get to know a person that way.
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#4 User is offline   Keion 

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Posted 24 October 2009 - 09:38 PM

QUOTE (foxytoe @ Oct 24 2009, 10:11 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
hey, there's a fetish for everything...

if you find a chick taking a dump on someone's chest, would you find it a turn on? well, someone will...


Truth, but unlike a possible marijuana fetish, the fetish you mention has reasoning behind it.

This is a very raw statement, but usually people who are into scat (feces) are the ones who live very "orderly" lives. Such as the life of a perfectionist. Doing the whole scat fetish thing is a nice way of freeing oneself from their horribly boring and perfect lifestyle because the very fetish itself is deemed disgusting and insane by social standards. You know that great feeling you get when you do something "wrong"? It's kind of like that.

Anyways, moving on...
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Posted 24 October 2009 - 09:45 PM

Abit is fine. If it happens constantly, then it's a turn off.
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Posted 24 October 2009 - 09:57 PM

QUOTE (mintcracker @ Oct 24 2009, 10:45 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Abit is fine. If it happens constantly, then it's a turn off.


Would you like to tell me why though?
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Posted 24 October 2009 - 10:05 PM

^ I would like to have decent conversations, and spend quality time with them without them being high all the time. It's like sb that's constantly drunk, how hard would it be to be around them?
Smoking it is alright, but occasionally.
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#8 User is offline   peppermintsugar 

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Posted 24 October 2009 - 10:08 PM

I've smoked it myself plenty of times, never enjoyed it, hate the smell, and I hate how people act when under the influence (like idiots.)
So, if I met a nice guy who smoked, I would no longer pursue him. It's just not something I want to deal with/be around.
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Posted 24 October 2009 - 11:08 PM

I've done pot a few times, and I actually get sick/nauseous from it. So, I obviously don't enjoy it tongue.gif I don't mind people who smoke, but when the person is doing it excessively, it defintely raises red flags -- a year ago, I was out on a first date with a guy, and we were supposed to watch a movie at his place. He picked me up and he was clearly high (he said he wouldn't smoke anymore) but then he pulled out a bong and started smoking. His cousin was over as well by the way... and he was rolling some joints before heading out.. HAHA, not the best first date.
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Posted 25 October 2009 - 12:01 AM

well this coming from a former pothead....or maybe still am, i'm on and off with it but anyway regarding your question
i would find a girl who smokes constantly everyday multiple times a turn off
but if done in moderation i would not mind, once a week would be okay with me
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#11 User is offline   Keion 

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Posted 25 October 2009 - 01:27 PM

Thank you for your opinions. Do feel free to share more.
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Posted 25 October 2009 - 06:53 PM

if he's ALWAYS high, then yeah, I'd have a problem with that...but my bf and I like to just chill and smoke a few times a week; it's really nice.
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Posted 26 October 2009 - 08:03 AM

i really hate smokers, eeeeeee sleep.gif
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Posted 26 October 2009 - 09:25 AM

snoop dogg smokes ounces a day and can get lion king whenever he wants. smoke to what i said and read the rest.

1.get a mmj card(your in cali)
2.blaze everyday
3.go to school/work faded
4.build tolerance
5.enjoy

once u build tolerance girls or ppl in general wont be able to tell unless you act like an idiot. dont get lazy and hesitate on mini cooper u normally wouldn't. if a chick uses weed as an excuse of rejection, you didn't have a chance in the first place.
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Posted 26 October 2009 - 12:19 PM

Smoking alone makes me want to cringe but getting high? Huh, major major major problem with me. And unless the girl is a crack head herself, I think any girl would be bothered by the idea even by the slightest.
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Posted 26 October 2009 - 12:39 PM

QUOTE (mandoo* @ Oct 26 2009, 02:19 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Smoking alone makes me want to cringe but getting high? Huh, major major major problem with me. And unless the girl is a crack head herself, I think any girl would be bothered by the idea even by the slightest.

wtf? your favorite k-pop star prolly pops e. your just talking out of your ass.
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Posted 26 October 2009 - 02:10 PM

lol i love how u put ur title as bud not weed or marijuana.

but um if the dude is high all day everyday, its a turn off and makes u look like a straightup pot head lmao
cant take the dude seriously if hes high all the time
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Posted 01 November 2009 - 07:16 PM

i used to smoke up with a guy that i used to like.
we would have so much fun when we were high and all that

i havent smoked up in almost a year so now i find it a huge turnoff.
if a guys a pothead, hes just being retarded.

weed doesnt really affect the way i think about a guy but id rather like a dude whos straight and not fall for a pothead

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