[letswatchthesunset]

So I'm listening to taylor swift's "You belong with me", and it occured to me that I've probably been both of the girls. Brunette taylor and blonde taylor (haha, if you've seen the clip you'll know what im talking about!) but yeah, i've been both the 't-shirt wearing' girl and the 'short skirt wearing' girl.

And i don't know which one feels better.

Have any of you been in the position of the 'short skirt ' girl, as in been left by your S/O for their less attractive bestfriend/ childhood friend..etc etc?

And how about those that's been in both positions, which one feels better?

[KanyeWEST]

taylor swift blows.
short skirts are the mini cooper

[allineedx]

I've been a "t-shirt" girl. never a "short-skirt" girl.

sophomore year in high school i fell for this senior who was tall, gorgeous, sweet, caring and oh. he had a girlfriend. they were together for 2 years and at the time, were very on and off. she treated him like dirt, and he let her. i did my best to talk him through the hard times, without sounding bias. we spoke on the phone late at night but then he would ignore me at school, and sometimes it would go on for a week. even though it hurt, i would fall for him all over again when we spoke.

for some reason, i wasn't smart enough to know 'enough was enough.' even after he stood me up three times to hang out, i kept going back for more. this was very unlike me. i would never in a million years let a guy walk all over me. but when we did hang out, i felt as though it was a date..he paid for everything (even though i kept insisting) and then dropped me home that night.

during the summer i started getting over him. then he randomly came back in my life to tell me that him AND his girlfriend knew all along that i had liked him, because they found my [private] blog online. (i don't know how) i felt betrayed, stupid and humiliated. i told him that what he did was so crappy, and he was a horrible friend. i blocked him (not that he ever tried contacting me again) and we haven't spoken since.

turns out that his girlfriend had cheated on him during the time they were on and off, and she got mad at him because he started having feelings towards me. they're still together, he's still a tool, and she's still a pinkberry. but they deserve each other.

now i have an amazing boyfriend who treats me so well. he's better than anything i would have ever asked for, and if it weren't for the other guy, i would have never realized how amazing my boyfriend is now. i learned in that situation, liking someone shouldn't make you feel like mini cooper. it should make you feel good about yourself. as painful as that whole thing was, i'm sort of glad it happened.

[Gofishus]

Yes, she's usually the one to wear short skirts and I'm usually the one to wear T-shirts. Unless I feel like cross-dressing off course. Which should never happen.

[peppermintsugar]

I don't really understand this thread very well, cuz I'm both at the same time. I have very boyish interests outside of make-up, fashion, etc, but I'm a very pretty girl, and I want to look good all of the time.

It's like, yeah I'll play video games with you but lemmie put some make-up on first lol.

[jsp]

I would be perfectly fine with either version of Taylor Swift.

[Kanzen]

I don't really understand this thread very well, cuz I'm both at the same time. I have very boyish interests outside of make-up, fashion, etc, but I'm a very pretty girl, and I want to look good all of the time.

It's like, yeah I'll play video games with you but lemmie put some make-up on first lol.

Oh goodness, this is pretty much my mantra. Hahaha.

And to answer your question OP, both situations suck hardcore and neither feel good (I've been in both positions).

[Nana544]

I'm more of a t-shirt gal. I don't like to draw people's attention by showing deep skin. It all depends also on how comfortable you're welling to show your skin. I'm just a conservative person by nature.

[rachilde]

I have no idea about pop music, but I'm more like the girl in the short skirt and motorcycle jacket at the Irish pub with 12 of her best guy friends who are ready to kick your ass. Pretty? Sure. In a short skirt? Yeah. Dainty? No.

[kcn_]

lol why can't we be both?
pair a short skirt and a t-shirt haha~

i've never been exclusively one or the other
I have phases i go through, where i'd be the t-shirt kind of girl who doesn't care to put on make up etc
but i'll eventually revert back to wanting to pretty myself up

[x ciel]

I don't really understand this thread very well, cuz I'm both at the same time. I have very boyish interests outside of make-up, fashion, etc, but I'm a very pretty girl, and I want to look good all of the time.

It's like, yeah I'll play video games with you but lemmie put some make-up on first lol.

This is so me, haha. I grew up as the t-shirt girl, the tomboy who didn't give a crap about how she looked and I seriously looked like crap, lol. But as I got older I got into fashion, makeup, etc. and looking good is I like to do~

But I still have the tomboy inside me! So, both!

[insanelyCRAZY]

lol...half the ppl here mustve never seen taylor swift's video.
we're talking cheerleader vs. shy nerd type girl
not girly vs tomboy
LOL

as for me...im neither
im not straightforward and demanding like the ideal cheerleader
nor am i shy quiet n nerdy.
im just one of the lucky average looking girls who somehow ends up with every guy she falls for.

[A-choo]

o-o i unno actually.

I rather be teh t-shirt girl ;]

I want people to see wat's inside n nawt outside.. >____> i mean, teh outside still matters, buh not as much as teh

inside. Even though i like to dress myself for comfortableness and looks. I dun't judge my fwends by their looks. I barely

care what brand they wear or wuht type of clothes they wear, all i want to noe ish that they r my fwend, they treat me well,

done :]

Buh if for boys, i want teh boy to like meh for what i am and nawt who i am. :3

Sho i would nawt hide my troo self to them.

[sixth.]

i've been in both positions, and of course being the t-shirt girl would be best, especially if you get a happy ending like in the video haha.

[Ui-C]

always will be the t-shirt girl, i'm too ugly to be the short skirt girl, ahaha.

[PRRRETTYGLiTTERRR]

both positions haha i think i roleplay with my bf .. sometimes i feel sexy and yeahh btu sometimes i just dont feel up to it and im just normal but im so happy that i found a guy that loves me for me in all aspects :]

[jaeka]

I don't really understand this thread very well, cuz I'm both at the same time. I have very boyish interests outside of make-up, fashion, etc, but I'm a very pretty girl, and I want to look good all of the time.

It's like, yeah I'll play video games with you but lemmie put some make-up on first lol.

This. I can hang with the guys and be like one of them, or I can be a total girly-girl. Just when the situation calls. When I'm with my friends, I'm one of the more tomboyish ones. That being said though, out of the group I'm the most likely one to wear makeup, do my nails, do my hair and pretty myself up for an outing. I'm just also the most likely out the group to not say no to Super Smash Bros or 2v2 on WoW.

I suppose I get the BEEEEEEEST OF BOTH WORLDS.

[lhaine13]

im the t-shirt gurl. but never the short skirt.

same story. i fell inlove with him cause he;s a good friend. and he always helps me vice versa.
i was like his "DIARY" but he never knew i liked him.
he always ends up crying because of her.
being hurt.
being broke.
being left alone.
being belittled.
...for all those hardships i was with him. i was like his shadow.like his chair. i always catch him.
but he never realized that..
the only difference is. he never dumped her, in the end he was the one dumped.

[xxiaoMEI]

i think i'll always be the "t-shirt girl"..
noww...i wonder when i will get my happy ending?

[Malice_Kaiser]

I've never been in the exact situation of either of these. But I think if I were to be, I'd be the T-shirt girl. I can't seem myself ever being the short skirt girl and acting like that. <<