[janjan13xx]

i was having this discussion with my guy friend the other day, and i asked him if a girl can be a player. he said no because it would just make the girl look trashy. but then that made me mad because how come guys can be players? they get called a pimp, or a boss by their guy friends. but then girls will be called something else by guys. why is this the case?

so, do you think a girl can be a player? yes or no.

thanks for your thoughts and opinions:)

[x ciel]

Of course they can, lol. I used to have a friend who was like that and it was just like wtf. I mean it's the same concept, haha I don't see why girls can't be players.

[peppermintsugar]

Of course they can.
People like to point out things as if they're exclusive traits to that sex, like "Oh, men are dogs and cheaters" and "women are gold diggers", stuff like that, but the fact of the matter is that we're all human, and we're all entitled to the same behavior.
Chances are, if a guy does it, there are plenty of girls that do it too, and the other way around.

[Mr. Chan]

so, do you think a girl can be a player? yes or no.

You serious? Really?

Is the Earth not round?

[veeveeyan]

Why not?
I'm a bit of a player. >__<'' but I'm not trashy.
I mean, it might just be my personality 'cause I'm naturally flirty, but... iono, I think girls can be players. :]

[damyoungji]

Anyone can be a player. Your friend needs to realize this, and that not only female players can be trashy.

[A-choo]

of course they're girl playerss o;

buh i mean, teh guy shouldn't be called "cool" for being a player.

Guys r trashy if they r players tew ! - -;

It's a equal world D;

[Regina Rae]

Of course girls can be players. I know a couple.

[whenaicu]

Of course they can be. However with girl players, they tend to lead multiple guys on at a time, whereas a guy player, would have one girl, get bored than move onto the next one.

[blissfulmoments.]

of course girls can be "players" and guys can be "slut s" ... its just the way society generalises genders that girls are used as a double standard for something negative

[kissez*]

Girls are just smarter/sneakier about it.

[angelteuk]

They definitely exist.

I have this 'occasional' friend and I had known her through a website community. She's like leaving messages to ALL of the guys registered on that site and in the later time she found a boyfriend there but at the same time she flirts with all of her other guy friends online and in real.

She's totally a flirt. geez

[chiho]

You serious? Really?

Is the Earth not round?

Your comment... lol... And yes it's not round.. it's flat.

I think girls who are player are called bytches ^^" or 8 por as the chines saying goes~

[Hangbum]

Yep, definitely.
Girl players exist and they're flirtatious. No doubt.
Girls are just as shifty as guys.

[duntellmi]

Yeah I agree. The boys are getting too much of the credit, lol.

[rachilde]

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=player

I suppose in a popular sense it is male exclusive only because it's been exclusively promoted in the male context and it is frequently used as a positive term. However, I would like to quickly quote Jay-Z:

Ladies is pimps too, go and brush your shoulders off

[MangoStar]

Shoot yeah, my best friend is a player hardcore haha. She goes through men and women like its nothing. She's better than most of the male players around here.

[PRRRETTYGLiTTERRR]

i think yes! i used to flirt with guys & would try to get them to like me.. not being a hoe or anything but once they did, i got kinda tired of them lol ..

[fredinsac]

Women can be players. They do it better then men. Why? Because they don't have the reputation that men do with cheating n crap like that. When a guy does it it's normal but when a girl does it it's "OMG! I can't believe that!"

[forgottenmemories]

When I was reading this thread, the only girl I can think of that's a "girl player" is Kristin Cavallari of Laguna Beach and The Hills. Lol. She has lots of boys, but doesn't come off as trashy/slutty.