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#1 User is offline   lolz123 

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Posted 29 October 2009 - 10:16 AM

so basically me and my ex-gf use to be in a long distance relationship but we broke up last week because she claimed that there's distance between us now and that she's given up. i called back the next day trying to save it once but she claims that the "feelings" are no longer there. I asked her if it was a bump on the road but she claims its a brick wall. She seemd pretty certain and seeing as how it's midterms and all we stopped talking for like a week like 0 contact. 
i'm just so confused how the week before we could be so lovey dovey and then bam the next it's over. I'm also pretty sure she doesnt like anyone else. I don't want to live with the regret of knowing i've lost this so easily. So i was hoping to talk to her one more time when she comes back. 

Do you guys think i should even try? since she's "given up"? or try it one last time? 
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#2 User is offline   fredinsac 

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Posted 29 October 2009 - 10:29 AM

Of course there's distance between you guys. That's why it's called a long DISTANCE relationship. laugh.gif
Lame, I know.

If she's adamant about it then move on dude. Cause, if you two were to get back together it'd only be a matter of time before she'd find another reason for you two to split. Spend your energy, time and emotions on someone else.
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Posted 29 October 2009 - 12:10 PM

Describe her personality before the break up; was her attitude distant? still loving?

Hard to say if it's a spontaneous break up. I think you should just move on.
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#4 User is offline   Javus 

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Posted 29 October 2009 - 01:28 PM

Sometimes people are able to get over feelings quickly which may be why she was lovey dovey one week and decided to break up with you the next.
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Posted 29 October 2009 - 02:54 PM

Well she told me she was trying hard to make it work and stuff but she felt like she was being held back. i guess it's cuz she's in uni now and i guess this all happend after i didnt get to see her when she got back and i got disappointed. i sent her an inbox saying how i felt bout us and then we broke up the day after that.

im just fraid i waited too long and she's already readjusted. cuz its been a week since we started talking again and another week until she's back
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#6 User is offline   muffinx3 

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Posted 29 October 2009 - 04:57 PM

Well, there's no harm in trying right?
So you might as well try and see what happens rather than not trying and wondering "what if".

Goodluck. wink.gif
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Posted 29 October 2009 - 07:18 PM

Just give up.

Find someone else in your city/town and don't look back.
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#8 User is offline   MNLV27 

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Posted 29 October 2009 - 08:27 PM

She was too weak to let the distance get in between you two, this shows how strong she is in the relationship. Just move on.
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Posted 30 October 2009 - 06:52 AM

Only a few people could handle long distance relationship and appaarently she is not one of them.
SO just give up, it may be difficult at first, but you'll eventually get over it(once you are determined to get over it of course). It would be harder if you continue with a relationshio when she has no "feelings" anymore, it would eventually fall apart all over again.
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