[xangie]

I mean...
I know a lot of flirty guys, and I know they've all had at least one or two SERIOUS loves in their lives.
What are these flirty guys like when they're serious about a girl?
What's the signs?
I'm sure they won't suddenly completely not talk to girls just because they have a crush on some girl.

Lots of people are telling me to accept this guy's feelings.
But I know how much he likes girls, and how much of a flirt he is.
He's so confusing that I don't know if he is serious or not.
I know he's been in love before, and really badly apparently, and he's been hurt by it before. So I'm sure he's capable to like someone.
But how do I know if he means it?

He has this weird thought that It's me who is playing with HIS feelings.
When obviously its he who is. (was that part of his scheme?)

ps. yes um.. : ( I am a bit fragile about this love thing. I always get the worse guys. I've given up on relationships for a very long time because of this. So this decision is very scary.

[mizgen17]

i actually want to know as well >.<
i guess it's up 2 u really, go out with the guy if u want, and you'll find out ^^

[IntangiblyYours]

My first real boyfriend was a big flirt, and we lasted a year.

Actually, when we met, his friends were trying to set him up with this one girl, and he flirted with her, was sort of interested. When he met me, he flirted with me too. When he was seriously interested in me, however, he stopped flirting with other girls (or at least, didn't flirt with them as much) and he would talk about me to all his friends. He also gave me a lot of attention, texting me all the time, etc.

So, I guess, pay attention to how he treats other girls. Does he treat them the same way he treats you? Or does he give you more special attention? Does he talk to people about you? Etc.

[SarangHeyo <3]

Ahhhh good question.
im wondering the same thing too...
like how do you know?
dont mind me, imma stalk your thread for a while...

[Bisu]

if he asks you to marry him

[muffinx3]

^ HAHAHAHA. That was good. xD

Anyways, my boyfriend used to be a realllly big flirt too and I was worried.
But I layed down the law when I started dating him.

You never really know until you try.

[milkbunny]

if he stops flirting and only talks and thinks abt you
*coough* impossible *cough*

[Mannosuke]

if he stops flirting and only talks and thinks abt you
*coough* impossible *cough*

Talk about being a cynic.

[janjan13xx]

there's really only one way to find out. take a risk and see what happens.
something like this recently happened to me.
but, just be careful. especially if he has the reputation of being a player/flirt.
so, go for it! but, really just be careful...

[asdfdsdaf]

My friend is a huge flirt and my friends and I can never tell which girl he likes unless he tells us.
There is a SLIGHT difference in how he treats the girl he seriously likes, but hard to catch.

Best way to know is for him to say it himself.

[stinastaysober]

I don't know what to tell you but I like to stay away from flirty dudes. I have alot of flirty dudes as friends (& one of them is stillnot giving up. v.v" ) but they're trouble to me & create drama& I don/'t need that.

[milkbunny]

Talk about being a cynic.

pssh ?cynic ? pshh no just from observations
but i guesss flirters cannnnn stop being flirters
:/ but that's when they are old and are ready to settle down -.-;;;
but i guess you can try -0-. and i was joking abt the "impossible thing" -.-;;;
so chillax fool

[x SaRaNg HaE x]

When his focus is only on you.

[Mannosuke]

:/ but that's when they are old and are ready to settle down -.-;;;

Can young guys be serious? Or at the very least, be ready to settle down?

[yamio86]

.
What are these flirty guys like when they're serious about a girl?
What's the signs?
-From experience, flirty guys will play you first and while they played you.
They played with other girls too. At the end, they choose the one they like
the most. If you get lucky, your the chosen one.

But how do I know if he means it?
-Play his game. lol *in a good way* Don't get yourself hurt.

[KOGEPANN;)]

you'll never know unless you try right? Give it a go if you like him as well,
if you're not rushing into anything and he's then willing to dedicate his time on you then you'll know for sure.

[onetwothuy]

I want to know too. Haha.
I'm also going to stalk this thread.

[yuki526]

A natural flirt will always be a Flirt. It's a characteristic of a person. They know how to communicate with people and they do it really well. Just because a person is a flirt, does not mean he/she can't be serious. Also, just because he/she flirts with other girl/guy while in a relationship does not mean he/she is cheating.

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If he asked you to marry him, then he means business

[j.a*star]

there are SO many guys like that..
i could never tell.
and i think the only way to know is by asking them lol

[Mr. Chan]

When his focus is only on you.

Lay off the crack. Step back into reality and realize that you will never be the center of attention to anyone.